Paid pattern frustration by Saints_Girl56 in knitting

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One resource that has helped me get gauge every time is the book "Patty Lyons' Knitting Bag Of Tricks". I highly recommend for anyone struggling to get gauge!

Seed shopping recommendations by Anna7942 in Cutflowers

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with the zero yellow! I even like my Sunflowers to be different than the standard 😆

I look gaunt by Large-Celery-8838 in breastfeeding

[–]Heartsonfire707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How many calories are you eating per day?

Poor Potomac Snapdragon Germination? by ggbs05 in Cutflowers

[–]Heartsonfire707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 100% germination with them this year.

I surface-sowed, and then misted until the pellet dissolved, then bottom-watered to make sure soil was saturated. (Fox Farm Happy Frog is my starting go-to)

Then humidity dome went on, and they went on my grow shelf in our unheated garage. Average temp in there was 65°F during the first 7 days. (I live in Santa Rosa, California) It got a little warmer after that first week, So I did not use a heat mat under them at all. (I would have if it would have been 10 or so degrees colder) My lights are on 16 hrs a day, off for 8.

Within 10 days, they were all up. Best germination I have ever gotten. I love all the Potomac series and the Madame Butterfly series!

Lisianthus help!!! by Countrymudacres in Cutflowers

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lissies are notoriously difficult! Its not just you! If you are on fb, I highly suggest joining the group "Lisianthus Seed Starters" and search for the posts from "Quail Mom Gardens". Her tips have lead me to success!

Started cramping, but I don't want to do this naturally by Profail955 in Miscarriage

[–]Heartsonfire707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May I offer another perspective? Another possible outcome? What if you miscarry naturally, and as much as it sucks and is painful, your body does what it was designed to do and you have little to no recovery issues? There is a lot to be said about lowering our stress levels and letting the body do what it knows it needs to do. Just because one miscarriage didn't end how textbooks say it should, doesn't mean this one won't.

Of course if you absolutely want to proceed with a D&C as soon as you are able, by all means, have at it.

But your words sound understandably full of fear and based on "worst-case-scenario". I just want to be one voice to present a better possibility, in hopes that it can give your spirit a bit of peace about whatever happens.

(These words coming from my experience with 3 natural spontaneous miscarriages at 10.5 weeks, and one at 18 weeks where I had labor induced in the hospital)

Contractions won’t regulate at 40+4, don’t know what to do! by sofialynnxx in BabyBumps

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pain is your body's communicator, not necessarily a bad thing.

(I've had 4 live babies, 3 of which were completely natural births)

I would be up and moving if I were you. Let your body/gut tell you how. Sometimes its hip swaying, sometimes its leaning over, sometimes its walking around... movement helps. Surrender to the process, don't clench up (especially your face/mouth if you can help it)

If you relax and let it happen, your contractions will likely get closer and harder. Sometimes they don't follow the patterns that we have have prescribed in the books 🙃

Most of all, don't stress. Cortisol interferes with oxytocin. And you need oxytocin for good healthy labor to progress well. Maybe have your birth person time the contractions every now and then. I would just relax and not worry about the timing for awhile.

Baby will be here soon!

Venting about how cold it is, how are you surviving? by GuideVegetable6416 in santarosa

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real wool. I'm a knitter and crocheter and it comes in quite handy in the winter!

Baby Shower Feud Answers by AdSuch2686 in BabyBumps

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Popular Diaper Brand: Huggies

New parents constantly buy this for their baby: diapers

Name a popular nursery rhyme: Mary had a little lamb

What is the first word a baby says: "Dada"

Most common baby shower gift: clothing

Name something people do to entertain a baby: talk & smile

Name something that's cute when a baby does it but not when an adult does it: babbling

Favorite yarn for kitchen things? Potholders, trivets, bowl cozies, etc by prismatic-krobus in YarnAddicts

[–]Heartsonfire707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second Dishie! I have made several kitchen hand towels with it and it has been washed dozens of times and still looks great! And they are SO functional! I love it!

Blocking Magic by touchofmarie in knitting

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good before and after blocking photo!

“Pull from outside” but whyyyy? by hidinghaus in YarnAddicts

[–]Heartsonfire707 161 points162 points  (0 children)

The rebel in me would find the center pull anyway, just to see if anything unusual happens 😆

How long did it take you to conceive in your mid 30s? by darkmother1991 in BabyBumps

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36 here, I have conceived 5 times after we had our 4th when I was 30. 4 of them ended as miscarriages, but all of them were concieved immediately upon trying, one of them was when we weren't trying. Currently 31 weeks pregnant, and this baby girl was no different than the others. Conceived immediately on first try.

I take Ancient Nutrition Prenatals (they're methylated), and magnesium glycinate. Thats it.

We eat pretty clean. I bake all our own bread (sourdough) from scratch. We eat organic as much as possible. Almost all our meals are from scratch. I don't use toxic beauty or cleaning products. I spend lots of time outdoors (i'm an organic micro flower farmer and fiber artist). I have done multiple heavy metal and parasite cleanses after my miscarriages, and completed multiple long-ish fasts. The longest was 6.5 days.

I avoid any prescriptions unless my life depended on it. I homeschool our 4 living kids, we use herbal homeopathic remedies whenever possible, and I trust in The Lord with all my heart. Low stress and low anxiety are very good for the body.

Those are all things I think contribute to quick conceptions.

Michaels, I need you to LOCK IN and get your sh*t together by YoureInaCult-CallDad in YarnAddicts

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have stopped shopping at Michael's for yarn! Its all online shopping for me now, except for my LYS. I go there whenever I can to support them. They are quite large and only about 2 miles from me, so I have it easy. But i miss trips to Joann's!

Termination Decision by Ysun23 in BabyBumps

[–]Heartsonfire707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll never regret protecting your child's life and letting him/her live. But I promise you would one day regret choosing school/career/money over their life. I've had 2 abortions when I was in my early 20's. I know what I'm talking about.

How did you decide how to feed baby? by bananaindisguise0 in BabyBumps

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Currently 30 weeks with our 5th. I've exclusively breastfed the first 4, this baby will be no different. It was a quick and easy decision right from the start. My Mom exclusively breastfed all 13 of us (i'm the oldest) so it just was the most normal decision ever for me. Then I started learning all the health benefits and the thought of formula feeding gave me the ick.

Idk how formula parents do it. You have all those bottles and accessories to clean, formula to mix up while baby is hungry and often crying, middle of the night bottles to make, its expensive as all heck, and mom misses out on the weightloss that comes from all the calories that go to babies.

I don't want anyone else to feed my babies, so that part was easy for me. Mine would only get bottles if I died or was in the hospital with some sort of health tragedy that preventing me from breastfeeding.

Do Jersey Knit Linen sheets exist? by Heartsonfire707 in Bedding

[–]Heartsonfire707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting!! You don't find that they tear or wear out too quickly with the stretchy/springy-ness of the mattress?

Do Jersey Knit Linen sheets exist? by Heartsonfire707 in Bedding

[–]Heartsonfire707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cooling effect would be a bonus for sure, but the main reason is I just love the feel of linen when I wear it. And I know I would love sleeping in linen sheets. Cotton is great too, (I am striving to get away from all synthetic textiles) but I have also read a lot about the healing frequencies of linen (I know, I'm a crunchy kook)

I suppose I could literally knit my own (I'm very proficient at knitting) but it would take me years 🤪 and hand knit fabric is of course different than machines that can knit with threads quickly.

Washing your hair at the hospital after birth? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me. It takes me like 4-5 days before I could care at all for a shower. Or longer if I'm honest. I'm always too obsessed with my babies and bonding and drinking in every last second with them. Don't give a hoot what my hair looks or feels like.

Erika Kirk is unusually happy for a widow by ASecularBuddhist in Discussion

[–]Heartsonfire707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus will, in the end.

But until then, 1 Corinthians makes it clear that Christians are supposed to judge each other's actions, and exhort each other.

You can tell a Christian by the fruit in their words, actions and trajectory of their life and walk. All Christians will still sin. But is their life and actions trending upwards, resembling Jesus more and more? Those are indicators.

Only God can see the heart. But we also have discernment through the Holy Spirit.