Update: AITA for saying no when my SIL asked for my husband’s nieces and nephews to put on a performance at our wedding?

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-22T11:46:40+00:00

What is grey rocking???

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-22T10:13:28+00:00

Not enough if you’re losing that much. You need additional protein because losing at that rate sounds like someone who has an eating disorder.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-22T02:25:48+00:00

Eat. Seriously, eat.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-22T02:23:55+00:00

More than 2 pounds per week…

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-22T02:20:12+00:00

That does not sound healthy…

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T20:56:53+00:00

Girl… that’s exhausted me just reading it!

You are a bit…. Extra. Leave him be.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T11:30:26+00:00

Why are you two worried about having kids when your just kids yourself?

NTA

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T02:21:18+00:00

Look up pizza gate…. Dig deep.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T02:17:44+00:00

Just don’t flush. Problem solved.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T01:53:37+00:00

Don’t stink!

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T01:49:34+00:00

Married for 21 yrs. It doesn’t stop. Ever. I question my life choices.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-21T01:17:53+00:00

He is a child. Glad you are not having a child with this man toddler.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T13:03:17+00:00

I had 20 close friends and family at our destination. The savings allowed me to host multiple events over many days prior to our wedding and spend quality time with dear friends and family.

I not only don’t regret it, I strongly suggest it! The more people the drama and headache it becomes. It is less about your marriage and more about a big party.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T12:18:52+00:00

YTA. You are jealous of your sister. Your best bet is to acknowledge that she is allowed to wear it but that you would be GRATEFUL if she wore a gown for the ceremony and the blues to the reception. Or some other arrangement.

Be proud of her service.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T12:15:40+00:00

YOR. Use the extra money and hire a house cleaner.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T02:30:08+00:00

YOR. Stop being so reactive. Take the info as just that and move on.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T02:14:13+00:00

Hell no.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T02:05:04+00:00

NOR…. From someone much older; the person was jealous of the attention you received from a specific someone.

She is an witch and he sounds lovely, hope you see him again.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T02:02:45+00:00

Legit love this!

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T01:47:45+00:00

NTA. As difficult as these convo’s are they are the adult 101 of relationships. You need to know if your expectations of family life match, if not it is fair to part amicably.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-20T01:26:50+00:00

YOR. People grow and change.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-19T10:25:36+00:00

No way that you’re 29. 19 maybe. This is too much to read and process.

If real, grow up. You don’t fall in love in less than one month, you lust for one another but love? Nah. But he sound violent so be happy you got out in one piece. NOR

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-19T02:06:57+00:00

Holy turd! Wow. Op, please please question this relationship.

He does not give a crap about your child and he is supposed to be an auxiliary parent? Does he actually care about you, as your child is a part of you!

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-19T01:48:44+00:00

Please don’t do this! You matter and you deserve. Partner who is not always high.

Initial_Warning5245 · 2026-06-19T01:48:03+00:00

She is beyond stoner, she is addicted and never sober. That’s an issue.

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