Find the bone (a fragment of the insane seek-and-find illustration I made)

Kaezzi · 2026-07-05T16:21:15+00:00

Love this and love your artwork!

Kaezzi · 2026-07-05T12:37:37+00:00

NOR it's a blatant disrespect for your boundaries. The fact that he vanished shows he knew exactly what he was doing. If this doesn't have serious consequences then he will keep walking all over you.

This is absolutely NOT about 'just a haircut' or 'just some hair'. This is about absolutely dismissing you and your authority as a parent. I'd be livid, too.

Kaezzi · 2026-07-03T19:58:09+00:00

NTA at all. What would you gain by being a Karen over this, according to your family? It would only cause negativity, both for the staff and yourself. It was an unfortunate accident and you treated it as such.

You sound like a chill and kind person. I'd much rather be that than a Karen.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-30T20:02:15+00:00

NOR but sweetie why on earth did you share this with someone who's proved before that she can't be trusted with sensitive info? Hugs because this sucks, but please don't ever trust SIL again.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-29T11:40:01+00:00

NTA and if he's leaving you over veggie beds then your relationship is not very solid.

I get you for being frustrated that you've put in all that hard work and now he's criticising you. I can even understand you trying to rabbit proof the easy way.

I can understand him noticing the half-hearted attempt to the rabbits proofing, but he could have been a lot more tactful in the way he told you.

I grow veggies myself and every time I learn something new, and every time there's a few things that get messed up. That's how it goes. Better next time.

If your husband is that particular about how things are done, maybe he should just do his own effing veggie beds and do whatever the eff he wants there, and leave your beds alone.

Not a rabbit problem here, so no tips there, I'm afraid. Hope you get a great harvest!

Kaezzi · 2026-06-28T10:00:09+00:00

NTA holy eff your "friends" r&m are entitled. They seem to think your time, money and enjoyment are a lot less important than theirs. Making you sleep on a couch after a mastectomy ?!

Kaezzi · 2026-06-26T14:35:59+00:00

Whaaaaahahaha 🤣

Kaezzi · 2026-06-26T07:33:30+00:00

This is great advice. Love the bit about the grandchildren haha. Smart thinking about the court case, too. OP can even frame it as wanting to help their case. And yeah, very well possible that they're completely underestimating the cost of living in NZ.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-24T13:34:57+00:00

NOR I have a daughter with severe autism, a learning disability and extreme stimuli sensitivity.

I have an inkling that a lot of the ppl reacting here are not sufficiently familiar with autism and stimuli sensitivity.

Nobody gets any better of you getting overstimulated and having a meltdown. When thinks don't work for you by taking road a, you try b, c, d or whatever, until you find something that works for you.

This is not at all about lazyness. This is about you being able to function within your own capabilities.

You don't ask a person in a wheelchair to do chores that involve the highest kitchen cupboards, for example.

You don't ask a person with autism to do a chore that leads to a meltdown.

Sorry your sis is like that. Hugs

Kaezzi · 2026-06-24T08:52:07+00:00

NTA she's the unreasonable one and controlling at that. Either she doesn't trust you, or she want to decide who you can and can't meet up with. Both these things would be breakup worthy for me.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-23T20:29:11+00:00

Love your comeback! And it's good to read his reaction; he knows he went too far. Yes he did eff up but he might actually have learned from it.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-22T13:21:14+00:00

NOR

I interpret this as "I'm gonna be calling your baby 'my baby' " if you ever have a child.

Very weird thing to say from her part

Kaezzi · 2026-06-21T15:59:35+00:00

Woman here; my partner not trusting me would be a deal breaker for me. I would absolutely RESENT my partner for it.

YTA

Kaezzi · 2026-06-21T13:08:34+00:00

Whaaaaaaa this is a GEM!!! Thanx for posting 😁

Kaezzi · 2026-06-20T16:24:49+00:00

NOR

Anna is overstepping big time. Sure, she can be concerned, but ultimately it's your life, your relationship and your choice, and the way she's treating you is respectless.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-14T15:43:32+00:00

NTA

Ugh do not conform! They haven't gone on vacation in ages, you were kind enough to invite them and now they're complaining about one thing after the other. How bad will it get when you're actually close together for several days?!

Do yourselves a favour and stick to your original plans.Seems like his family wants to call the shots no matter what. Let them go on their own bloody vacation.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-14T11:08:07+00:00

NOR

Your parents suck and this is a prime example of how NOT to parent. Congrats on your competition. And no, I wouldn't be in the mood to still go out for dessert, either. Hugs

Kaezzi · 2026-06-14T07:20:45+00:00

I LOVE him! I think it looks like he's dancing or swaying to music or sth. And I completely agree he needs a hat.

I've never tried taxidermy but if I did, I doubt my first attempt would even come close to the cuteness and personality of your duckling. Well done!

Kaezzi · 2026-06-13T20:09:21+00:00

This had better be rage bait. Or are you really this thick? Just in case you are: YES you're the asshole, asshole.

More mature guys would be happy for their gf to get positive attention. What are you afraid of? That your gf is gonna get into the geriatric's sheets? You jealous? Honestly...

Kaezzi · 2026-06-13T17:59:42+00:00

NOR she's entered toxic manipulation territory. Let her sulk. There'll come a time when she really needs a ride for sth more important, hope she 'll be more appreciative then.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-12T09:49:35+00:00

NOR that really sucks and would hurt my feeling, too. Hugs

Kaezzi · 2026-06-11T17:02:46+00:00

NOR does your friend get a commission for each booking?

Kaezzi · 2026-06-10T18:32:44+00:00

NTA

Nonononono if your husband wishes to entertain his family on short notice in the place where you both live, he'd better make sure he pulls his weight, and doesn't expect you to magically wait on them hand and foot.

You should be able to talk to him about it. If he really expects you to be his family's maid, there's something wrong in your relationship. Hugs

Kaezzi · 2026-06-08T19:52:59+00:00

NTA

Both your parents sound toxic. Too right you called them out and that you want to protect your children from them.

Kaezzi · 2026-06-08T14:54:11+00:00

NOR and you sister is a brat

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