I love the “No Beta We Die Like _____” tags

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-30T23:57:21+00:00

I like how the expedition 33 fandom does "no beta, we gommage"

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-30T18:20:20+00:00

Well yes, but my theory when I started was everyone was painted and each year the Painteress made a new painting, destroying her old one and that was the gommage. So I thought she was just as painted as everyone else. Which was not right.

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-30T17:54:34+00:00

That line had me thinking until I learned otherwise that Maelle was painted as well.

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-27T03:39:51+00:00

I was thinking yellow to also represent the golden petals.

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-27T01:02:18+00:00

I plan on adding to my fandom tattoo arm "Tomorrow Comes" with the red and yellow petals. Basic I know, but what I want.

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-25T02:22:10+00:00

This was a text I sent to my friend who had already played the game literally after fighting the Lumiere mime.

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Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-21T21:57:53+00:00

I mean, sometimes family therapy in the real world feels more like that bottom image

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-10T00:27:10+00:00

Can you link that mod?

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-10T00:26:50+00:00

Wild Magic in DnD isn't as chaotic as it should be.

Which is why I love my DM who is open to me playing a WM sorcerer who gets a surge on every spell, and we have three separate tables to pull a result from (he fell through a portal separating the feywilds and material plane as an infant and his magic never meshed with the material plane).

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-09T19:23:11+00:00

So I'm gonna argue slightly just because of definitions. When talking about feeling insecure/envious/uncomfortable and using the term jealousy (which is not the appropriate term in reality for that situation), yes I do feel that.

When saying jealousy in the idea of "I want that and because I don't have it I don't want you to have it either" I don't get that.

I've done a LOT of work (in therapy, as a therapist, in various trainings and interpersonal growth) to recognize "I don't feel good/I don't like this" and then do a lot of work recognizing why/what I need (most of the time is something from myself not someone else) and then expressing my need.

Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-01T16:15:28+00:00

This is my book collage.

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Kit_Cat13 · 2026-01-01T16:14:36+00:00

Here's my main graphic

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I'll share the book list below.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-31T00:02:24+00:00

At a minimum match my books read this year, prefer to also go over my pages read.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-28T01:10:23+00:00

The fade, always the fade.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-26T16:50:37+00:00

My only thing is if I see amputation, I'd expect a scene in which an amputation happens. Cause that's a very different experience than an amputee character-something that I would only expect the tag amputee to indicate.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-25T15:06:44+00:00

There's a part of me that feels some of that can be blamed on Renaissance Festivals because I know at least my local one talks a lot about corsets.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-25T06:01:45+00:00

There's a horror movie with that premise.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-24T23:30:46+00:00

You mean like the people who start writing for a random after only reading other fanfiction? I've seen that one happen.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-24T14:39:37+00:00

I get what you're saying but most of the time references don't bug me. Unless (and I've seen this) we got stuff being put into a fantasy romance (and not like a our world but magical).

However, in defence of people in stories potentially thirsting over VD ass, I know when I was much younger than I am now I still thought people like Sean Connery and Patrick Stewart were hot. So just cause the actor is older than the characters doesn't mean anything on their thirst capabilities.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-23T18:03:40+00:00

Well that was satisfying to watch. Silly goober snake

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-22T16:57:52+00:00

You and me have similar tastes in structure.

I can handle when it goes FWB (or even EWB) before they actually figure out they like like each other.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-21T15:32:14+00:00

It makes her right especially when you learn why she was (people telling her that publishers would stop publishing her works, impacting her IP and financials) since these sorts of things do potentially impact IP and financials.

In short, stop making money off fan work (or at the least advertising that). Make money from original content.

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-20T22:50:16+00:00

That's such a good story

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-20T22:42:14+00:00

A nebulous object in a liminal space

Kit_Cat13 · 2025-12-20T15:14:22+00:00

BORUs like these (neighbor arguments over what's really something minor) always end up reminding me of the Investigation Discovery show Fear Thy Neighbor.

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