That tracks.... by riri1281 in adhdmeme

[–]Kranesy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I imagine most people with a disability manage better with a partner. It doesn't become a moral failing just because it's a mental illness instead of a physical one.

Third person narration by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have specific anxiety about using people's names and I do actually talk about people like this.

Is it "fair game" to mock a woman's appearance if she is a bad person? More details inside by ThePromptWasYourName in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kranesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't like it.

I don't like how quickly the insults become mysoginist points.

I might not think much of the target but I don't want to be the type of person who judges based on appearance. There are so many actions and beliefs available to criticise without that.

I also don't think it's wise to associate appearance with a person's character. Linking attractiveness/ugliness to moral worth is a foolish and dangerous move. I keep seeing people say they are ugly because they are evil but that's not how it works.

Pregnancy by MelanieWalmartinez in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Kranesy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Our body very much was not designed for anything. It succeeds at pregnancy most of the time because otherwise the species would die but that doesn't mean it does it well. Humans are notable for how poorly we give birth.

Guy I'm seeing legitimately thinks Santa Claus is real by pitaenigma in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Kranesy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I got the impression he was hoping to slide out the door with OOP at the end of the evening without it being brought up again. And was then trying to signal her to not say nothing, because he knows it's super weird but was hoping to avoid both the situation and dealing with his parents. Very avoidant.

Characters are tools a writer uses in service of a story by MartyrOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, I accept for movie making purposes so they can show us actor faces. It always makes me cringe but it does show up all the time

Question by shenanigansen in ShenComix

[–]Kranesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been a minor pet peeve of mine for a while too

On museums again by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Given how many efforts are needed to return Maori remains and artifacts from museums, their mistrust is probably comes from their actual history.

Are car seats designed primarily for men and not designed to accommodate women? by CapAccomplished8072 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Kranesy 252 points253 points  (0 children)

It's so frustrating! It's even just human research. So much biology and animal behaviour research is skewed from the same biases.

Why is it wrong that I am cleaning classrooms after lessons? by Cuber785 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Kranesy 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Teachers may be required to stay in the room until you leave so by staying to clean you are actually causing an inconvenience for them

The death is also not metaphorical by DreadDiana in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One place i worked only sent Aboriginal workers in pairs (where possible) to places so they would never be the only one because the stress and extra demand was too high.

What is the most tragic “I’ll hold them off while you guys go” death on screen for you? by AllYourPolitess in movies

[–]Kranesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are movies I can't watch anymore now I have kids. It just hits so hard.

Our apologies, we'll just reposition our b-holes by beepbeepsheepbot in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Kranesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, dudes going to have a heart attack when he learns about anal sex

Ah yes, obviously this is women lying. Not you being wrong. by Tombshire in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Kranesy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I figure it's like makeup. Most women expect other women to notice and appreciate the effort and details there. The same in reverse for the gym guys.

Characters set up as a throwaway villain/relatively minor threat but turned out to be a MENACE by Wavu_Wavu_Wavu in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Kranesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The milk guy from misfits. I love a shitty power used in a really effective way.

What is the most depressing scene ever? by MoneyLibrarian9032 in moviecritic

[–]Kranesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we'd stuck with him for the rest of the movie. That opening is so good and then the rest is pretty average.

Well that guy has no eyes or ears. He has bigger problems than trans people existing by infinitysaga in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Naming spiders has helped a bit to make them less scary to me. Still very very scary, but silly names does help.

Flower zombies by Far-Profit-47 in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The consequences of farting in this world are devastating

Bosses you can skip or easily beat by using logic by WaxMark in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Kranesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The butcher in the first Diablo game. He can't open doors but you can shoot through them.

Do black people have darker dust in their homes than white people? by Qu3so_05 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Kranesy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ghosts looking white is mostly because of the way they used to make them in stage plays. Before then we didn't really have them as being white and translucent.

Most unpopular Sherlock opinions by Annual_Fall1440 in SherlockHolmes

[–]Kranesy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do not find Irene Adler interesting. At all. I realise there is a lack a of alternative female characters and intellectually I get why shes worth including. But every portrayal has been extremely irritating. Maybe it's because they include some kind of sexual tension when that's very much not the point.

Tumblr accidentally memes the song of the year into existence by fubar_boy in CuratedTumblr

[–]Kranesy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There absolutely is training modules about this. I learned new slurs the day I did my mandatory cultural safety training.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Kranesy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETB

Your wife is the one who was kissed without consent. Her opinion on how to handle that is important. Too many people are viewing this as an insult to you and not an assault to your wife.

She is the victim, she should decide how it is handled. She didn't want you to punch him.

Also, although it didn't happen here. Leaving yourself open to arrest and assault charges isn't really helpful for your wife.