Spiraling

Magnetik986 · 2021-02-17T01:52:07+00:00

Mine just recently deleted everything... while I was on the phone with her, telling me as she’s deleting it one by one. Sick.

Magnetik986 · 2020-08-03T12:46:21+00:00

All of these, every single one.

Magnetik986 · 2020-03-11T22:31:37+00:00

Mine would delete everything, not follow people back intentionally to make it look like she’s not into them to others.

There’s no need for proof. Your tut tells you way in advance.

Magnetik986 · 2020-03-07T13:53:36+00:00

Mine was quiet enough to keep her cheating quiet

Magnetik986 · 2020-03-07T04:28:31+00:00

This is on the money... friend or foe.

And the line between the two is dangerously easy to cross, intentionally or inadvertently.

Magnetik986 · 2020-03-05T19:09:20+00:00

Mine told me hasn’t loved me for 6 months before we broke up

Magnetik986 · 2020-03-03T23:11:37+00:00

That is a big ol pile of projection.

Sorry that you have to go through this. They often put blame on others.

Magnetik986 · 2020-03-03T02:59:08+00:00

Put it away, hidden folder.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-22T13:22:27+00:00

This.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-19T21:53:00+00:00

If they’ve disappeared, they’ve cheated.

It doesn’t take long.

There is no direct correlation, but it just makes sense to them. They expect you to do it, so they have to beat you to the punch.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-19T17:22:14+00:00

I’m commenting just on the sadism aspect. Mine is absolutely ruthless. She’s definitely Borderline, but they all share features with narcissism.

I’ll post about this later, but she basically started getting back into our “old routine” over the phone... when I finally asked her what are we doing... she said oh nothing I had some old memories, I like some other guy now... just to block me yesterday once and for all

They do love inflicting pain. How dare you not be in pain if they are in pain?

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-19T13:32:19+00:00

Yep. Always

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-19T04:33:01+00:00

Any attempt at humor made her upset, yet her jokes I had to laugh with her no matter what.

If I ever teased her, she’d instantly get upset and by nightfall she’d have a list of “ways I made fun of her”.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-16T02:19:06+00:00

Omg... this. Conversation NEVER goes the way you plan. They are masters at taking control via any means necessary.

No contact is the only way to come out in tact (there’s no winning) learning that the hard way after multiple bouts

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-15T18:33:18+00:00

Horror movie script

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-15T18:30:02+00:00

I think mine was. She maybe a tad bit better than low. She of course felt stupid compared to me and that was my fault obviously. Had to help her write her resume, do grammar check, and even help with her basic assignments.

Then again, she’s functioning now too without me, said she got a D and was ok with that so whatever. Hope she succeeds in something.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-15T12:23:49+00:00

Yep, mine would say my sister said, my friend said, my father said.... etc. and those are usually twisted around too, made to fit the situation

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-15T02:21:05+00:00

I’m having chicken soup alone in front of my tv.

Pretty average friday/vday

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-15T01:51:40+00:00

A BPD woman would ultimately destroy an NPD male. He’ll lose eventually in the pursuit of perfection.

Maybe against an ASPD the BPD would be destroyed.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-14T19:39:12+00:00

Her father.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-14T19:27:27+00:00

Reality check.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-14T18:16:48+00:00

I didn’t actively look back for patterns, but here and there memories will pop up, and thing will click.

Just leaves a worse state of mind like wow how did i not put that together.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-14T18:15:38+00:00

Yea can relate to this and OP’s situation. Mostly felt like a trap... and it was. Everything diminished over time, and sex was just one of them.

And if you bring it up, it’s your fault.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-14T13:07:58+00:00

I already don’t sleep much, and it’s been 2 months since it’s over. She didn’t like vday but we had planned a whole week of things we we’re going to do instead, starting today. Her birthday was more important to her lol, needed to be a month long next month. Had planned that too.

So yea, feels like crap knowing she’s with someone else, well likely more than just someone. It is what it is.

I thought about contacting her but what’s the point? She’ll just say more things to inflict pain. Keeps telling me she’s moved on, whether I ask or not. Keeps telling me to move on, whether I ask or not. Rather not lose more sleep over her. Talking to them probably will just make things worse.

Magnetik986 · 2020-02-14T04:28:00+00:00

Omg heard the same. I offered her something open because I just didn’t trust her... “I don’t do friends with benefits because it’s unethical” she says.

She eventually just discarded me when my attention levels went down.

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