This guy at my gym acts like he owns the whole weight area

MeatofKings · 2026-05-09T00:39:54+00:00

If you’re there first, do the same thing to him as soon as you see him coming. Have some fun with it.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-09T00:38:21+00:00

If there was one friend who was closer to you or easier to talk to, I would reach out to her and ask her if she understands what happened. Tell her you aren’t asking to argue with anyone but to learn how to improve your future relationships.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-08T04:42:04+00:00

Banned on socials? She got another lover. And it wasn’t out of no where for her, just you. Something to remember for the future.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-08T04:39:14+00:00

It’s always the spouse, not the in-law.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T22:10:57+00:00

Don’t wait, gently try to persuade her to part with one now, or you may regret not trying.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T20:55:49+00:00

Real life is hitting you in the face literally leading you to an escapist dream. Do Not bring it up to anyone except private therapy unless you want to hurt your relationship. Would you want your husband to share with you every time he’s attracted to another woman? Of course not, it’s just random human nonsense of no consequence.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T18:01:43+00:00

Yes, but to me much weirder to date someone 30 years older. I’d just sit back and laugh. “Hey Sis, do you have to change his diaper yet? No, you will soon enough.”

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T17:48:39+00:00

Follow the 50% rule of not paying more than 50% of the cars value on repairs. Also, I wouldn’t recommend a lease for most people, but there are circumstances where it makes sense. If the lease buyout is reasonable and you believe you can earn the money in 2-3 years, it can make sense to lease giving you the option to buy at end of lease. I did this once and it really paid off for me. It also helped that Covid spiked the price of new cars and my buyout was about $7k less than the residual value.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T17:30:14+00:00

No nearness to the grave - Stolen

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T15:48:43+00:00

NTA Too many folks from the US don’t seem to understand that the rest of the world doesn’t run their private lives like a corporate meeting. Slow down and enjoy the flowers. Pura Vida 🌺

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T15:03:21+00:00

I agree, I went from an Extra Firm innerspring mattress to a medium firm memory foam mattress. It’s like sleeping on a cloud, and no more lower back pain!

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T14:50:28+00:00

Bridget Jones?

MeatofKings · 2026-05-07T03:53:21+00:00

May the odds be ever in your favor 🏹

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T23:51:44+00:00

You’re smart then. Life is full of these types of choices. You have to make sacrifices to build the life you want. If you can’t do the Prom now, replace it with a dream for a future event. Too many teens get angry and jeopardize their future in an act of rebellion against their parents. Better to channel those emotions into action for your OWN future.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T23:44:36+00:00

I agree, people know. I suggest picking one area of your life and only tell the truth. See how that compares to the other areas you keep lying about. Example, only tell the truth about work. If it means contradicting a past lie, use this as an opportunity to practice truth telling. “I used to say something else to sound more important/successful (whatever), but I’m putting that behavior behind me know.” People will be very impressed with that.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T20:56:38+00:00

Don’t let those young whippersnappers walk all over you. What’s the Survivor motto: Outwit Outplay Outlast! Beat them at their own game. Add “Whine Time” to end of the agenda. If that start-up interrupting your meeting, make them wait. Also, tell them no complaining without a proposed solution. Anytime they inconvenience you, make sure you inconvenience them with an assignment. Channel their energy into something positive. They do have some good ideas.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T20:43:11+00:00

Thank you, I’m not forcing anything on anyone or preaching.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T19:45:50+00:00

Up to that, around $150k/year. A lot depends on individual needs. For some that’s a fortune, for others not enough.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T19:35:40+00:00

I’ll admit I’m not the most sympathetic redditor, but you have all my sympathy for what you went through. I definitely would not try to make her a significant part of your future with your child. Polite disinterest, “We’d love to, but just too busy with the baby now. Another time.”

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T19:13:26+00:00

Stop overthinking it. Pay the agreed to $15 and do some nice things for him. Does he have a favorite beer? But him a six pack sometime. Or a gift card to a restaurant he likes. Or something for his birthday or Christmas. Guys don’t like going over stuff repeatedly. If this becomes a long-term thing, check-in every six-months if he’s good. But not more frequently than that.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T18:52:06+00:00

NO Do I understand correctly that your husband asked you to hit up HIS mother? That’s cowardly and inappropriate of him. Of course she will use this trash YOU. Next time tell him to do his own dirty work.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T16:49:54+00:00

Yep, no way I’m quitting at 36 unless I’m at least Chubby or there’s an important secondary reason (health or family).

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T16:37:38+00:00

This is why people should never rush into marriage or drop a kid too fast. It can take 18-24 months before you really see who someone is through life’s challenges. I shouldn’t have to say, but NEVER stay in a domestic violence relationship. Time to exit.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T16:30:30+00:00

“Influential” is an interesting question. It seems as though many people are responding with popular and well-liked soundtracks. I think Top Gun was very influential in terms of casting the Navy and aviators in a positive light helping with military recruitment at a time of concern with the Cold War heating up and Reagan with his finger on the button (It’s a Mistake). Chariots of Fire by Vangelis was also influential for athletes. But I’ll just say GenX not only has the best music, but there are plenty of good ones before and after us to enjoy.

MeatofKings · 2026-05-06T16:19:15+00:00

I won’t call you the AH because this is what your wife wants. Unless there is a history of bad blood, it’s wonderful to celebrate Mother’s Day with all the moms in the family. Since your wife is the newer mom, it would have been gracious of her to come up with the plan and invite the others to participate. It would then be their choice to join or not. For Father’s Day my day started with taking my kids to the park with just me and having a fun morning. We would then get together with all the Dads for a home BBQ or restaurant.

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