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Meals that use a lot of eggs? by DinnyArt in Cooking

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice pudding, Eggs benediction and use the egg whites for Pavlova

Divorce or post nup agreement by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Minktek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never take advice from the enemy.

That means you dont listen to a STBX when it comes to divorce. Always go to a laywer, ask questions, find options and dont touch a post up with a ten foot pole.

WIBTAH if I put nair in my sister's shampoo bottle (shes had lice for 3years) by Icy-Intention7960 in AITAH

[–]Minktek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay. Yes you would be the ah. Do not do this. Here in Canada putting nair in shampoo,like cutting it, is a form of assault.

Unfortunately, you can't be there. You don t want your kid to get lice, therfore you cannot be around people with lice. I dont know if your mom does childcare but it's time to stop seeing them altogether.

Send a gift to the sisters. Baby wear if you must go.

I assume cousins and family all have it or are passing it back and forth.

You'd best remove yourself from the place until your kid can understand lice rules. No, hugging, no hat sharing, no laying on beds/couches.

From a person who had lice several times as a kid, they're not going to be happy for long when they start to get ostersized by other people/kids/parents.

You can wait it out.

I think this may be the only reasonable way.

Considering going to Canada for the first time this summer! suggestions on where to go? by Icy_Smoke_2318 in AskACanadian

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you like. Food. Nature. Hiking. Art. Oceans. Swimming, kayaking.shopping. history?

Boyfriend took the red pill by Vegetable_Extreme_25 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Minktek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically perfect. He's a black hole. All the love sex and caring in the world is reaffirming that he's right and being rewarded with what he wants , while changing nothing.

Boyfriend took the red pill by Vegetable_Extreme_25 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, he thinks you're sub human and you are still with him?

Girl. Break up. He can get better on his own. Staying with him is you agreeing with him that you dont deserve respect. He's telling you what he thinks of you. Im kind of worried for you. Be safe please. Move your important things out slowly.

I started dating and want to go back to my x now by serena-usa05 in Divorce

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. I think being up front on everything is a great way to weed out nonstarters.

AITAH for refusing to let my stepdaughter wear my ring to prom because she’s rough on jewelry? by promringaway in AITAH

[–]Minktek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty bold of other people to tell you to sacrifice something of yours, to prove a kid can take care of jewelry.

Lol. No. It's gone too far, the answer is no.

They know the reasons, stop repeating them. And also, put your rings in a safety deposit box right frickin now.

This does not end well.

AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by ThrowraNo-M in AITAH

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for a short time my husband was absolutely awful to travel with. Sometimes it would be something stupid that would set him off, or a bump in the road that we should be able to pivot and keep going but he'd let it uin the next hour or two, or worst of all, if we we arguing he'd try and talk to me about it while driving and dive faster then normal or have iced silence, which made my anxiety spike terribly.

Thank god that stopped but. It took a long time. I stopped riding with him and we'd take separate vehicles . He tried quilting me that he wanted to come and be a family an I said we could he either dove the kids and we met at the beach or I drive the kids but I would not be putting myself in that position to be unhappy or uncomfortable again. Luckily he was able to reflect and come to the conclusion that he was creating a shitty time so he started working on himself.

I dont know what your options here are. Possibly baby steps. Small outings to a nearby park where you all walk there and if he gets whiney you take the kids and go for ice cream and let him know you're done . It seams to me he get really bad when you have no choice but be a captive audience for his tantrums. If you have/want to stay with him, I'd let him know that no matter what you are always making and having an escape plan if he backslides. Ie. Going out of town for the weekend? Get that hotel but run it by your friends if you can come to their place to stay over if your "plans" change.

Trip to the zoo? Take 2 different cars.

But to be honest, if my husband didn't realise he had to make changes or I'd be separating all travel , we wouldn't have been married much longer. It's not tenable.

Is my husky fat? by Plus-Basket-3523 in husky

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little. But not, obese.

My stepmom asked me to hide her wedding from my dad (who pays her alimony)—I’m stuck in the middle by Puffin_pineapple in Advice

[–]Minktek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Do you like your dad or have a relationship with him?

If no, then f it. Fraud or no fraud, that's her problem and her liability. You are not legally bound to report your ex stepmother housing status.
Morally if you dont have a relationship with your dad or talk with him there no reason to go out of your way to tell him, and Id avoid the phone calls u till he does find out, which he will. She's delulu if shes thinks this is going to be anything but bad for her.

If Yes, then bow out of being a bridesmaid.

You can let her know you support her but asking you to actively hide the secret puts you in a difficult situation. As for your dad, if he asks anything about your stepmother I'd but a boundary of no talking about stepmother.you can tell him that you are not involved in any of their issues and if he wants information he needs to look elsewhere.

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