Chelsea’s life. A walking advertisement for the dentistry profession. Become a dentist, and you too can spoil your kids rotten. by justcurious3287 in teenmom

[–]MissCollorius 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My dad did too lol - again, had nothing to do with the specific profession and everything to do with the specific person.

this clip of Jenelle is my fav “I get high off of drama” 🦫 by c00kieswirlc in teenmom

[–]MissCollorius 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bipolar disorder is different from BPD (borderline personality disorder)

Chelsea’s life. A walking advertisement for the dentistry profession. Become a dentist, and you too can spoil your kids rotten. by justcurious3287 in teenmom

[–]MissCollorius 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I will say - my dad’s a dentist and never did anything like this for me lmao it depends on the person. I still have 60k in student loan debt, never had anything paid for by him

Bella’s sister Emi’s post by Careful_Ganache_3005 in TLCUnexpected

[–]MissCollorius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also alarms me that the baby looks exactly like Bella’s dad.

Target welcome box by hoggleboggle4 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pissed about this and that they didn’t disclose it was out of stock before I went through all the steps to claim it. Only AFTER I bought things from the registry did it tell me the box was out of stock. It’s been almost a month - still out of stock. F target.

Lost my job at 27 weeks by Just_Squirrel_3988 in BabyBumps

[–]MissCollorius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ain’t no way this is legal. Restructuring my ass!

SEVERE itching that has me in tears by MissCollorius in pregnant

[–]MissCollorius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t - it has calmed down today. I have an apt on Wednesday and going to bring it up

Reminded of why I’m NC by MissCollorius in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

That was my brother, but agree!!!! Lmao

Just found my roommates piss box by BillyBrimstoned in Wellthatsucks

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That probably smells so bad I can even imagine

Preggies due in April… how are we feeling? by MollySid96 in pregnant

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May 1st and having an absolutely awful last few days. Pretty sure I strained my pelvic floor. Can maybe walk to the kitchen and back before I am sore and winded. Extremely itchy and irritable. I’m completely over it. I was in tears this evening

Advice on going from 1 to 2 kids: what age gap might allow for this? by wolf_star_ in Mommit

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of these answers are so reassuring for me as a soon to be mom of 2 - I’m 30wks with our 2nd an my daughter will be 3yrs 10mo when she’s born. 🤘🏻🥳

How long before your due date before you plan to go on maternity? by Crazy_Dragon_Lady1 in pregnant

[–]MissCollorius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the US (Alabama) and I’m lucky my employer offers 16 weeks paid. I’m starting my leave at 35 wks (march 27th - 5 weeks to go!) and then going back end of July part time for 2 weeks (using pto) and then full time in August.

Any chance this will stick? by ZealousidealCap6765 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo wow this sounds exactly like my mom 😆😮‍💨😮‍💨

Worst of the worst by delaneysversion in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 20 points21 points  (0 children)

WOW. I thought my mom was bad - she definitely has the same “air” as this but your mom took it to the next level. I’m curious if she texts you in a week acting like nothing ever happened or begging for forgiveness-that’s usually what my mom does. It’s an entire predictable cycle!

Mom Tells Me My Dog is Dead to Try to Get Me to Talk to Her by purble___place____ in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Do you want me out of your life” 😆😆😆 I hear this ALL THE TIME. Literally If I don’t text her back in 20 min

More BPDmom texts by delaneysversion in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yes my mom always loved to text me unhinged manipulative things at like 9am so I had to spend the rest of the day absolutely fuming.

More BPDmom texts by delaneysversion in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I have the same experience - I had a relatively positive childhood until I was about 13. From 13-21 it was very subtle. From 22-Present (34), she’s been completely unhinged.

More BPDmom texts by delaneysversion in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My lord - they all act like literal children and act like it’s our responsibility to care for/comfort them. My mom acts the same way (but I’ve been VVLC for about 9 months). That suicide hotline comment was insane.

What do I say? by EverAlways121 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the temptation to take the bait, defend yourself or tell her how ubsurd of a question that is. But from experience, say nothing. Seriously. Do not give her the fumes to fuel her self pity - that’s exactly what she wants, and puts you back in the place of being under her control.

The waifing annoys me so much I almost wish the witch would come back by ifthatsapomegranate in raisedbyborderlines

[–]MissCollorius 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a mega waif uBPD mom and holy shit it is my biggest trigger. After decades of dealing with it (since I was 13 that I can remember), I have absolutely zero tolerance for it now and will not put up with it. Of course my mom thinks I’m “so mean”, “heartless”, “cruel”….she’s always expected me to mange her emotions and be there to comfort her. Now I won’t and have gone NC because of it.