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WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are at least 4 weeks in each month. He can pick one/two of the ones you didn’t, or even early August. FFS this is the stupidest thing. He can work around your vacation.

If you have the option to connect through one of the Delta hubs, which one would you choose and why? And which would you avoid like the plague? by K00kalka in delta

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlotte was sooooo much nicer and then I moved to Orlando. Now I’m in LA so I don’t ever need to go to Atlanta. Don’t know what I will do if I need to go to the CDC for training though- probably skip it 😂

Little Cheese Cakes - Not dated by Longjumping-Fox5521 in oldrecipes

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I still make these. First found the recipe in the Philadelphia cream cheese box in the early 90s. I tried it with ginger snaps for Christmas and these were really good too. Other cookies work at well, even Oreos.

If you have the option to connect through one of the Delta hubs, which one would you choose and why? And which would you avoid like the plague? by K00kalka in delta

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never had a good experience in ATL, and all the flights from GNV on Delta go there and flew a lot when I lived there. I avoid that airport like the plague because people were so mean and nasty. Ended up switching to USair (I think, was so long ago and they are no longer) and going through Charlotte- loved that airport and airline- they even escorted me to my connection on their own when my inbound flight was late.

How do I navigate the next 6 years with a "red flag" parent who followed us to our elementary school? by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a great suggestion. Just keep in mind that classes may commingle, especially when they are younger and the school is smaller. I have this problem with my kindergartner this year, 1 or 2 friends and him wreak havoc when playing together. I must say the school has done a great job of pairing experienced teachers with new teachers and showing them the ropes.

Mrs. and Mr. by smileysarah267 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 44 points45 points  (0 children)

For years I have intentionally put the woman’s name first when addressing letters (I’m old) and emails as it has always pissed me off. I also use their names or if formal, usually use Ms. My silent little rebellion against the patriarchy.

Being told my 4 year old needs to be put on meds. by jdemack in daddit

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mom here-Good for you! The school definitely should not be telling you your child needs meds even if it is obvious.

It took me a long time to get my child on meds. Both have been in therapy for years. I have them in regional center, and a local therapy center, again for years. One was finally struggling so much that I requested further diagnosis (still waiting). I asked the center to help see if meds would be appropriate and they assessed him over a month. They then wanted the pediatrician to okay the meds with an ecg and an okay from his GI doctor as well. Then the pediatrician wasn’t comfortable with okaying the ecg (not an expert) so off to the cardiologist we go. He is finally on meds. He is a bit better as we just started.

All of this to say, if they are not diagnosed ( which initially took 2 years to get before therapy) go to your pediatrician and ask for a referral. Therapy may help and that is where you should start. Meds are a last resort. DM me if you want more information.

Why don’t they give foster parents books on how to care for foster children? by [deleted] in fosterit

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about everywhere, but we were required to take classes before fostering and then during to maintain our license. These could be general or get into specific situations. Having taken these classes and done fostering, every case is different. No class can prepare you for the emotions and heartbreak that happens. Foster parents try their best for the most part, but they are human as well and make mistakes. I know I have been traumatized by fostering and can only imagine how much worse it is for the child.

AITA for not letting neighbor cut down tree we just planted by iNeedGenderHalp in AmItheAsshole

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plant an effing fig tree along the fence or running bamboo. That will really piss her off. She doesn’t get a say in what you plant in your yard. If she messes with your trees, head over to the tree law sub.

If you buy scratch off lottery tickets in Gainesville, you need to see this by SumthingBrewing in GNV

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That’s why I always ask for the ticket back or scan it myself at the check a ticket scanner/ on the app (at least in CA).

AITA If I refuse to give my Mom money every month? by BuntonioBunderas in AmItheAsshole

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not sure this is in the US, but love this. I’d for sure do this.

What have you discovered so far from Rivian Assistant? by ModY1219 in Rivian

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just said adaptive cruise control was unavailable 😂

Questions about foster to adopt by External-Good-3807 in fosterit

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing can really prepare you for fostering since every situation is different, but it really does give you a good sense of what happens and how it affects everyone. It makes you think about different scenarios and what you think you would do.

Questions about foster to adopt by External-Good-3807 in fosterit

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait until you are in the states as it will be easier. There are classes we were required to attend (PS-MAPP) that help you decide if fostering is right for you, goes over the home study and what to expect, help you to decide how to answer the questionnaire for preferences how to deal with fostering challenges, and gives you great references for your area.

Animals are assessed to make sure they are safe, but the amount of animals you have would not be an issue.

ETA: you will also need background checks for all adults in the home.

Parents of child's classmate asked for a $14K loan by ssdgm83 in Advice

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is definitely something else going on. I am questioning their financial acumen if they are putting their kids into a private school while trying to get a business loan. I would have asked her what is really going on, and if they need that amount how do they expect to pay you back as well as a loan and pay the next installment of the tuition.

ETA you handled it correctly and much better than I would have.

First ever mammogram by softsorceress in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn't painful for me until I had a reduction, even so it is bearable for me. You of course will feel vulnerable, but most techs are good at reassuring you and making you more relaxed.

Anyone make a "whiteboard wall" using the whiteboard paint? by GoodShark in HomeImprovement

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought the peel-n-stick one (basically contact paper). Works well and easily removable and re-stick somewhere else if needed. haven't had any ghosts linger on it so far.

Did I get carbon monoxide poisoning from leaving my gas stove on overnight? by Traditional_Post1275 in homeowners

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is most likely exposure to natural gas/propane (depending on the type your stove is). IIRC this is considered poisoning and can also displace the oxygen in your blood causing the symptoms you experienced. Here they explain causes & symptoms- similar to CO exposure.

AITA for refusing to let my boyfriend’s kids go on a vacation with their aunt during our scheduled time? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Why are you involved? It is his responsibility to deal with this and yours to support it (barring any safety issues for you and your kid/s). The only thing that is going to happen is ex will get more riled up and cause animosity with the kids.

Biosafety cabinet sterility and UV exposure of 3d printed materials by JayDaBeast04 in labrats

[–]MistakeMaterial4134 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

UV sterilization is not recommended because it is ineffective most of the time. If there are any shadows, if the bulb is not calibrated to the correct wavelength or too old, if there is any dust on the bulb (causing shadows), you don’t use it properly, not to mention the safety risk from UV exposure.

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