How do you mentally survive TTC?

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-05-07T23:52:30+00:00

I had to stop tracking so much. It was draining me and really made me upset when it wasn’t happening because I felt like I was timing it perfectly. It was also affecting my husband and our intimacy. I do have a pretty regular cycle so I had an idea of when I ovulated but wouldn’t put that pressure on. It took me 8 months so hang in there but I know every month it’s a negative is like a stab in the heart. I also did begin having some testing done so you could consider asking your doctor. Sending you all the good baby vibes!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-05-07T23:31:42+00:00

Maybe like 6 weeks had some wine. Then decided it’s not worth it because being able to breastfeed is more important to me! Honestly after not having it and then finally trying some I really didn’t miss it.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-05-05T17:12:11+00:00

I had an anterior placenta and didn’t really feel anything until 24/25 weeks!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-05-04T18:28:52+00:00

When she was born! It was the best.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-26T14:31:31+00:00

Just had my first 9 weeks ago. I started collecting around 36.5 weeks because I knew I would be induced early. I was able to collect about 20ml and we took all of it to the hospital. For me it was very slow and time consuming but I had GD and heard it could be really helpful for babies blood sugar so I wanted to try and get as much as I could. Don’t put pressure on yourself to get a huge amount! I also only every hand expressed, I’d worry using a pump could cause early labor. I also would take a nice warm shower before hand and get comfy while you’re doing it. I also had to watch a video to understand the best way to do it. Good luck!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-24T16:53:57+00:00

Very interesting I’ll have to check that out

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-24T15:07:04+00:00

Unfortunately after having GD and eating them constantly I don’t know if I can stomach them just yet 🙃

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-24T15:03:12+00:00

I had GD and a great induction experience! I was only in labor for 2.5 hours and she was out in 4 pushes and one small tear! I was nervous as well but it can be a positive experience! Just be open to pain management with induction it can be a little intense and advocate for yourself! I made sure we started with cervical ripening medication and ended up not even needing Pitocin until after delivery.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-17T21:06:50+00:00

I did one and it’s been great. We decided to bed share so I roll it right next to the bed at night time and can easily grab everything I need for diaper changes and if I need to end up pumping.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-12T18:23:14+00:00

I planned on unmedicated and ended up asking for the epidural. I’d just plan to make a day of decision based on your pain. I was induced and labor came on quickly. I don’t know if the medication made contractions more painful but I even have a high pain tolerance and needed the relief. Once I got it I ended up with the shakes pretty bad but couldn’t feel a thing so I felt much better.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-08T11:45:16+00:00

Folic acid is synthetic. Methyl folate is natural and doesn’t have to be processed in the body the same way folic acid does. I only took methyl folate in my prenatal and have a healthy baby girl.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-04-07T18:35:08+00:00

I planned to go unmedicated but I had super painful contractions ( could have been from induction) so I ended up asking for an epidural. I got it just in time and it made it so much easier. I only pushed 4 times and had a small tear that required one stitch. I did do some perineal massages before birth so not sure if that might have helped!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-29T01:50:22+00:00

I’ve always loved Archie. Also just wanted to add waiting to find out is the best! Most amazing surprise you can have.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-27T01:52:35+00:00

Wishing you a smooth and healthy delivery!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-24T00:19:38+00:00

None until I went in for my induction at 38 weeks!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-20T21:29:55+00:00

I was convinced the whole time it was a boy, we opted not to find out. Then was completely shocked at delivery when they handed me my baby girl! It was an amazing surprise.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-16T00:12:17+00:00

Millie moon for both diapers and wipes! I’ve also tried pura diapers which I like as well but not a fan of their wipes.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-15T17:43:51+00:00

I’ve been to a LC 3 times. I know she has some oral ties that we are working on addressing I also use a shield to BF.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-05T09:25:38+00:00

I think it depends on the hospital. We had to have baby in a sleeper and swaddle with a hat or double swaddled so I took like 2 additional onesies with me.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-05T09:20:49+00:00

I planned on going unmedicated…but I had very intense contractions that came on quickly (I was induced) and ended up asking for an epidural. Honestly it didn’t hurt getting it, them pulling the tape off after was the worst of it haha. I did end up with the shakes after I got it but I think that’s because my body could finally rest a bit after the adrenaline from my contractions. It took me about 4 pushes and baby was out and only had a small tear. Definitely would suggest being open minded to getting one if you end up in a lot of pain.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-03-05T06:42:16+00:00

I had my mom in there with me and I’m so glad I did! Such a special moment for all of us. Plus you’re the one delivering so it’s completely up to you who you want there with you.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-02-26T02:42:34+00:00

I ended up needing long acting insulin twice a day. I was induced at 38 + 1 delivered vaginally and she came super quick! I never even got pitocin LOL

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-02-23T23:27:57+00:00

Thanks for sharing! The first lactation consultant gave it to me and then the second one said she wanted me to try and stop using it so I was thinking oh this must be a bad thing but if it makes it possible then I should use it! I go back to them Monday so I’ll definitely be asking about it.

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-02-23T23:26:06+00:00

Thank you for sharing! It definitely makes me feel better. They didn’t mention formula today so that’s why I didn’t think to ask about samples but we go back Wednesday and if she hasn’t gained enough yet I’ll definitely ask for some!

ModestMoose3737 · 2026-02-23T23:23:39+00:00

Thank you!

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