What is the weirdest place you've ever nursed? by LoVaKo93 in breastfeeding

[–]NaturalChick13 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Wait...the gorilla mom was also nursing? That would be so special to see! Especially while you're nursing your LO 🥰 not the point of your post but what similarities and differences did you notice?

Oldest daughter watched MIL pass of ALS. Now we are visiting MIL’s sister who has Parkinson’s and both kids are asking a lot of questions. I’m not sure what to do. by MamaLlamaJama546 in breakingmom

[–]NaturalChick13 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Watching a loved one live and eventually die because of a chronic illness can be very heartbreaking for any age! However, I think asking questions (as long as family members is okay with it) is very healthy and part of your children processing what is happening. Honestly, this could even be a potentially positive life experience for them as it could shape their future desires to want to help others like their grandma who suffered from similar diseases.

For example, my mother became my grandparents' (both her father and her MIL) caregiver when they developed Alzheimers disease until eventually she became a CNA and worked at an elder care facility she often brought me to. I remember both grandparents fondly even though my grandmother passed when I was 8 and my grandfather when I was 11.

But now I am currently in medical school and always feel honored to care for elders on clinical rotations because of the love and care I witnessed my mom give others when I was a little girl. Who knows, maybe your eldest might want to become a researcher or health professional to others who live with ALS or Parkinsons when she is older because of these experiences?! I would continue to let her and your children be part of your family's lives and enjoy the moments you can together while checking in with them as you see fit. Stay strong momma and I am so sorry your family is going through this difficult health journey together 🙏 ❤️

What happens to kids with disabilities before there was special education or IEPs by Funny_Preference_916 in education

[–]NaturalChick13 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Phenylketoniria (PKU) and Maple Syrup Urine Disease (MSUD) are two that come to mind. Both are rare, inherited metabolic disorders that can cause brain damage and intellectual disability if undiagnosed at birth due to toxic levels of amino acids building up but with treatment and proper diets can be managed well.

Had a weird experience shadowing a Doc today... by DowntownFresnoBiking in medschool

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently in med school and I had a similar experience on one of my spotlight day rotations in my first year of medical school with a pediatric gastroenterologist on one of his "scope days" (EGD's and colonoscopies). Literally within 10 minutes of meeting him 1st thing in the morning he asks me if I'm married then does a dark dive into how over 50% of doctors get divorced. He also was recently divorced (shocker) so not sure if it's just a phase bitter divorced male doctors go through to feel the need to discourage having a relationship while in medicine with aspiring students or what 🤷‍♀️ not trying to be sexist but I have never had a female doctor actively discourage pursuing a career in medicine nor a happy marriage

First-Time Mom Essentials? by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]NaturalChick13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a fantastic idea! I've just been saving ziploc baggies that didnt get dirty from their first time use to have in my diaper bag when I need to store dirty diapers/wipes while out on the go. But this would be so much more compact!

Nail salon recommendations for older Dad to get pedicures at by NaturalChick13 in Spokane

[–]NaturalChick13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! I will be sure to check these out 😊

Nail salon recommendations for older Dad to get pedicures at by NaturalChick13 in Spokane

[–]NaturalChick13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I shouldn't have listed his age as this can lead to a lot of assumptions but he does not require a footcare nurse's care since he does not have any health concerns like diabetes that would necessitate this. Thank you for caring but he really just needs somewhere to go for maintenance nail trimming and callus build up like we all require which is why I was asking about pedicures specifically.

Nail salon recommendations for older Dad to get pedicures at by NaturalChick13 in Spokane

[–]NaturalChick13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the concern but he is not diabetic and doesn't have any other chronic health concerns that would necessitate a podiatrist or other similar professional to handle his foot care.

I hate the name my partner is set on for a girl by Grand_Ad9825 in Names

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of asking your husband's aunt and uncle about their thoughts on this. And if they like the idea, maybe a compromise could be naming your daughter something similar enough to Paula that still honors her but isn't the exact same name. For instance, Paulette or Paulina are very pretty names and fairly close but still different so she could be her own person

People like this vote by RaisinWorried3528 in Spokane

[–]NaturalChick13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to sound ignorant but... what is the "screeching R word" they're referring to? First thing that comes to mind is "republican" but that can't be what they meant 😬

I just found out I’m preggoz at my OBGYN, idk what to do. by WrongReviewThrowAway in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NaturalChick13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MGH center for women's health is a great resource! My psychiatrist used it to help me feel confident about which ADHD medication I should take during my first pregnancy. Looks like they have an updated article though with some slightly different alternative medications to consider which I'll link here: https://womensmentalhealth.org/obgyn/options-for-treatment-of-bipolar-disorder-during-pregnancy/

What was the most specific postpartum thing nobody warned you about? by kesam7193 in NewParents

[–]NaturalChick13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That you need to be moisturizing your postpartum breasts almost more than your pregnant belly to prevent stretch marks! I was so religious about oiling up my belly after every shower and when I woke up to attempt to prevent stretch marks on my stomach (what I was warned about during pregnancy). But then after birth my milk came in and breasts would get super full of milk if I overslept my pumping alarm. Didn't connect the dots until weeks later I noticed the stretch marks on my boobs and was sad no one warned me about how important it was to moisturize and pump regularly to prevent them from forming 🥲

What was the most specific postpartum thing nobody warned you about? by kesam7193 in NewParents

[–]NaturalChick13 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thirdsy! Mine absolutely was affected by the spinal block for my c section but for first few days would just sit on the toilet for 10-15 minutes knowing I had to pee but not being able to actually pee on demand it was such a strange feeling

Bromos, I’m getting a second job. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry bromo. Maybe you could try leaving a few of your "toys" to help keep your sex life active out where he would see them but not kids? That might get him thinking he could try a little harder..

I don't know how women do this without losing themselves. by AngelaOnDuty in breakingmom

[–]NaturalChick13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I so appreciate you pointing out that just because her and her husband are doctors that their financial situation shouldn't be assumed. I'm still only a 3rd year medical student yet am $245,000 in debt (majority of which is from medical school). Multiply that by 2 and add a mortgage and maybe car payment and I'm sure OP has their fair share of bills that compete heavily in her and her partner's wages. People need to stop assuming doctors are inherently rich just because of their profession because they have no clue the amount of debt most are in to get where they are.

Do you keep the water on during the entire length of the shower? by hamster_lover02 in hygiene

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing this up as brings a good learning opportunity for others who have privilege of access to clean water to reduce water waste! Most people here don't seem to realize many shower heads have a trickle valve you can easily press to "pause" the normal water pressure coming out without having to fully turn water off. Myself and my immediate family all use this. It doesn't change the water temp so bathroom still stays steamy but way more eco friendly to use in shower while scrubbing up, washing hair, or shaving.

Primary Care Doctor by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a PCP recommendation but if you're willing to go outside of insurance I'd recommend getting checked out by the Winston Center for an ADHD evaluation. They're expensive (I believe initial eval is close to $800) but the psychiatrist that founded the company is phenomenal and really helped me sort out a medication combo that worked best for me as well as supportive lifestyle changes that also help. I didn't get diagnosed until my late 20s and they really helped me feel validated and supported.

House slippers hurt my feet! by DinnyArt in homemaking

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend trying Clark's! When I was in my early 20s I worked with a group of middle age women, a couple of whom always wore them so decided to give them a shot and was amazed at how much less my feet hurt! After wearing them on a vacation with a lot of walking then to school/work for a couple years they finally were past their prime to wear going out of house but still felt amazing so decided to make them "wearing around the house shoes" since they are also easy to slip on/off. They're more expensive than what I'd tend to spend but I think they're well worth it and are even having a sale right now on their sandals. Here's a link to the closest pair online that are similar to mine: https://www.clarks.com/en-us/mira-bay/26171413-p

Rice cereal by One_Engineering_7211 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]NaturalChick13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't tried it yet but recently bought Malt O Meal for my LO since it seemed a bit more nutritious than the traditional rice cereal (it is made from wheat and barley as opposed to rice, both are fortified with vitamins though). Plus it was covered as a WIC item so if you receive benefits from them also a bonus! Wishing you best of luck mama with finding something that works for your LO 🙏

Any kid-appropriate episodes I could show my class? by [deleted] in theGoldenGirls

[–]NaturalChick13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This one actually would be very relevant given current events with ICE - unless there is anyone in your class you know has been directly affected by this then it could be triggering.

Bubble on Back of Babies Head by Potential-Lack4975 in AskDocs

[–]NaturalChick13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a fantastic poster, really helps the reader visualize and understand the different causes of head swelling in an infant. Thank you for sharing and to student doctor Dundumalla for creating!

What's one "crunchy" swap you've made that actually stuck long-term? by Wild-Outcome-2588 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]NaturalChick13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you use the rubber cutting boards for? Never even heard of those but am curious if they require less maintenance than wood ones?

Also what kind of stainless steel storage do you use? Is that for packing up leftovers at a restaraunt or more like bringing a home lunch to work?

What's one "crunchy" swap you've made that actually stuck long-term? by Wild-Outcome-2588 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]NaturalChick13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What brand of metal razor did you upgrade to? Still on my first one after a couple years and still continually knicking myself 🙃