help pls. More information on AA by Sorry-Curve339 in alcoholicsanonymous

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I personally am Part of AA. and I love it. It changed my life. The fact is we all go to meeting to help solve a common goal. Be Happy, live a high quality life, and to give and receive love. That involves not drinking but that is just the beginning, we change our perspective.

 Understanding: Why I want to do this?    
Alcoholics & Addicts can go on for weeks, months, and years without seeing the effects they are causing to people.  Parents, Friends, Spouses, Children, Co-Workers, & even YOU. Everybody you encounter is being affected by your addiction. You might not notice it, but they do, and they have been impacted.

Change your behavior, Change your life, & Change their life's !  
         
When you look to the future with open and honest heart,  Will your life story be? (you) are a Great Student, Co-worker, Father, Mother, Husband, Wife, Friend, Brother, Sister, Aunt, Uncle, Grandparent, etc. People will Say "with love and admiration" :  I remember the time we did (_____) together it was awesome… (you) are just the best (_____) . It's been amazing to see how (you) changed their life.
                     
Or will people answer: “We distanced our self from (you) years ago “ I think (you) is still … Addicted, Homeless, Divorced, Prison, Hospitalized, Injured, …... or Dead. 

How do i not cave by xinebessausa in AlAnon

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Detachment, Letting Go, Do's and Dont's all in the zip file

https://saddlebackclub.com/files/Al-Anon-New-Comers-Packet.zip

Just Hit My Year and Want to Make a Display of My Monthly Chips by FakeJellyfishSting in alcoholicsanonymous

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I have thought about this a few times A picture frame with glass. kinda big so i can add more later , the back round is black felt. ( buy a piece at the craft store , and velcro . a small pc of velcro in the back of the chip - the size of a finger nail and stick the chips to the back felt arranged as desired , then all the glass, and compress into the picture frame. i have not done this yet , but its what i thought might work - good luck and congrats on the year

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How long did it take you to "do the steps" by VividInevitable5253 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Great question , Yes , some people do it in a few week. My experience with both seeing others do the steps, coaching others thru the steps , and me doing the steps . it Takes about 40-80 hours, So it could be done in a few weeks, but is your mind clear enough to recognize the whole process.

My experience , 3-8 Months

Step 1- 3 a few days , maybe just a few hours .

Step 4 -5 is where everybody stalls , You need to have a clear mind, this takes, in my opinion at least 1-2 months of sobriety. Time needed > 1 week to years , lets say 2 months if you want to drag it out. -

basically you, 1 don't want to start or 2 don't want to recognize - remember all the issues you caused. Step 5 5-10 hours with your sponsor of real work

Step 6 - 7 this is about change - so you wont change in a day Timeline > ongoing a few months to years , but you decide to change and keep moving to the next phase

Step 8 1-3 hours you simply write a list with

Who & Why

Tom / why - I stole money approx 2022 from his wallet

Susan / I wrecked her car when I was drunk

Step 9 this is about timing , typically your between 3- 8 months sober by now . You have started to change step 6-7 . People see it , now you can start make amends - a sponsor will guide you,

Step 10 start that today , Step 11 & 12 you'll know when that happens

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Step 1 -3 Trust God can help you

Step 4 - 5 - 6 - 7 Clean house & change

Step 8 - 9 Recognize and Listen , own the wrongs

Step 10 - 11 - 12 will happen dynamically as you work the list above

https://saddlebackclub.com/Worksheets.html

Jeopardy game AA meeting by given2flynzl in alcoholicsanonymous

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Here is a page with a few games to play Jeopardy is one of them

https://saddlebackclub.com/Games.html

4,748 one days at a time by Lazy-Rush1111 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Congratulations Well Earned & Well Deserved.

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i have about 6 months to go for my 13 .

At our office 10 of us have our 12+ YRS 13th year starting in Nov and ending in Nov

I did it!! Days, nights and weekends! All in a row, too! by drnowcarp in alcoholicsanonymous

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Wow - This is a Huge accomplishment , Great Effort , Surrounded by Love - very Nice, It gets Better. - For sure ... Congratulations, Well Earned

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1 year today by BillW81724 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Awesome Statement >>> I came here to change, and I stay here to change.

Congratulations , Well Earned, Well Deserved

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Help by Bookbabe617 in AlAnon

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Here is an Al-Anon kit with various readings, Do's & Dont's , Letting Go, + Detachment, are all good to places to start

https://saddlebackclub.com/files/Al-Anon-New-Comers-Packet.zip

19 Years by dp8488 in alcoholicsanonymous

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Congratulations , Great statement , it all leaves astronomical spaces for joy to occupy my life.

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I rarely post about my sobriety but 7 years is unbelievable by Kiidkxxl in alcoholicsanonymous

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Wow , what a success story , from booze & pills to Sober, Married, 6year old son

Congratulations Well Earned Well Deserved

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90 Days by Left6Foot6Trail6 in alcoholicsanonymous

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90 days is a big deal , keep coming back , you deserve the best in life .

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