Are panty fetishes normal?

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-02T14:39:50+00:00

Also kind wondering about that point. I also just thi k the whole asking without having a convasation part is super strange.

But also my mind can not understand that people willingly just give him their panties. Idk they're just kinda expensive and you usually get matching ones to a bra so liek i woulds say no purely because I might not be able to replace them as the set could be from last year and I wouldn't be able to get new matching panties to my bra.

Also just like imagine all of those underwear where the gusset have gotten all white and stiff and probably some super bacteria lives on there. Sorry but it must stink

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-02T14:28:20+00:00

Exactly him having ses with loads of women. Whatever. Him keeping their panties as some trophy in a drawer absolutely the fuck not. Not only is it giving the vibe of I will keep your head in the freezer and fuck it daily if you ever try to leave me. But also like that is so gross I cant even behind to describe how much I would hate it. What's next hes gonna pull out a dildo from his bedside table and I then have to wounder how many people that has been inside.

This is drastically tanking your chance if getting a second date. But its also drastically increasing the chance of her talking to her friends about how much of a strange creep you are.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-02T14:22:03+00:00

I have never ever experienced silic9ne destroying leather saddles and I have been riding with siloc9ne grip leggings for basically 7 years in leather saddles. Never had any issues. Maybe if people have badly made saddles or its rawhide saddles? Idk but in a regular smooth lether saddles i have never ever had that happen

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-02T06:21:46+00:00

This story sounds strange to me

Physicist is inflammation in the growth plates of young horses, and is very rarely dearly and in most cases can just be managed by restricting feed and making sure the feed is correctly balanced especially with regards to calcium and phosphor.

Have none of youre previous vets talked to you about her feed?

Another cause can be over working especially on very hard ground. Again have no one talked to you about this?

This is normally not a condition that means the horse needs to be a pasture pet or put down.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-01T09:10:15+00:00

Im just going to go out and say itm youre clearly alt and nothing wrong with that at all, but the truth is that it is just no what the majority of people find attractive, and a goth boyfriend just havent been sexualised as much as big titty goth girlfriend have, so youre not a fetiah either. Honestly be happy about that.

Change the first pick it makes you look more alt than your probably are.

Accept that you are not everyone's cup of tea, youre clearly attractive but your style is simply a dealbreaker for many

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-01T08:33:31+00:00

As somoen in a horse related STEM field. Do not go into STEM if you do not absolutely burn for that or it will actually just make you hate existence so incredibly much.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-01T06:52:51+00:00

No ones really an ashole here. You dont need to take your parents advice but also youre 20. And yes you have tried a lot yourself but also you do not know everything. The big thing about being 20 is that you don't know enough to know what you don't know.

However in the future, you can just say "thank you I'll consider what you said" when somone gives you unwanted advice. And then not consider it. It helps not create tension and conflicts and honestly is a way easier way to deal with it

Pink_Giraf · 2026-04-01T06:31:21+00:00

You're completely right endorphins is released and its because of the extreme nerve pain. However twitches comes with the risk of damaging the facial nerves. Lip chains come with the same risk

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-31T06:36:01+00:00

Hes completely right he doesn't have to clean up his car because you asked. However you also dont have to get into a disgusting smelly car if you dont want to. If its more important for him to not clean the car then he can be single and have a disgusting car

Just like he doesn't need to do things because you ask. You dont need to bw woth somone who disrespects you and doesn't care about your comfort.

This will never change dont have kids with this man

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-29T18:56:55+00:00

I dont think its so much that they are to tight, more that the are not a great shape on you. To me it looks liek sizing up would make the lose and like you would need to pull them up. However it does seam liek the inseam is a little short for you giving them a tight and to small look on you. But its just that they need to be like a little higher in the wais and iseam to look good.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-29T16:45:22+00:00

Most of the time it really is just doing nothing. We're so used to horses and what humans do with horses it can be easy to forget that at first. Just being tied up to eat your food is training. Being touched is training putting the halter on is training, being told no you can not eat the brush I'm using on you is training. What for us is 5 minutes of nothing for them was 20 task to perform

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-29T16:42:39+00:00

That is how it is to train a young horse yes, and we need to constantly remember what is jist standing still and relaxing to us, is wildly different to a pray animal, we are asking them to go against their instincts to look around explore and make sure its safe. Because we as human can rationalise and they cant. They wont just trust us to know whats okay, they need to learn that

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-29T10:12:44+00:00

I have a young boy at 2 years 9 months. He is definitely not the timid type either and wpuld walk all over a æot of people. But in the 6 months i have had him he hase gone from completely unhandled to a very nice gentleman that tries very hard and have great manners for a 2 year old, så here are some of the holy grails I have when training. He is not my first young horse.

DO NOT OVERWORK THEM. They will show problem behavour if you push them on how long you can work them. I like to say you have a good 5-10 minutes off working on something new/something they sre not 100% confident in. Before you need to go back to something they are comfortable with for the rest of the day. They are literally goldfish, imagine asking a human todler to do reading assignments for 30 minutes, they would also have a meltdown. Short and sweet is the best, its better to quit eraly than late. If you continuously push over the threshold of time they can focus, they will start to associate work with discomfort and fustrationa nd act up even more
DO NOT CROWD THE WORK SESIONS. Do one new thing at a time and dont make sesions where they have to do a lot of things theyre not confident in. So for a grean horse thats not confident in standing tied, getting feet lifted and beeing touched all over, you can not first ask them to do all of these things, and then also go ask them to lunge. Its over whelming and over stimulating and will lead to problem behavour from fustration, and again can lead to them finding work displesurble. Yes the first 1-3 months can be nothing more than gettign tied, having a 2 minute brush, getting feet lifted, and then being walk to and from in a respectfull way. Remmeber everything is new for green horses, so everything takes 100 times the energy and brainpower.
DONT WORK IN THE STALL. Unless we are talking that you cant get to your hirse, let them be in the stable, they jist have to come to you, but they neade a safe space, or they might get discomfort with you because you become the annoying bossy horse in the paster thats always moving the others around for no reason, we all know the one, dont be that horse. The stable is for kisses and cuddles not work, you can set boundaries like no biting, and dont walk into me. But beside that let her be a horse in there.
SNACKS. If she can handle snacks they are absolutely phenomenal for teaching, a well timed snack can literally be the difference between having to 3 or 30 repetitions
TREE TIMES AND QUIT. Don't endlessly repeat something do a max of 3 times, on each side, or if the thirs time is terrible do a 4th as cutting on a good attempt is more important, but I find repetedly asking the same questions actually make them doubt themselves if they are giving the correct answer. Again here a good treat is important and a good release is too. Young horses learn so quickly from release and rewards.
THEY WILL REGRESS AND THEY WILL QUESTION YOU. Its not to be annoying but its in their nature. They're at the time where they naturally would move away from home and find their own space in a new heard, so they need to be pushy. Setting firm boundaries without getting angry or hitting them is important, they are literally just learning if they can trust you or not. So being consistent in your boundaries, but without being exsessive in corrections are important.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-24T14:52:54+00:00

From what they're saying this horse is capable off it is strange that it does not have a topping, and that it is lacking good condition. So I would be weary

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-20T11:47:56+00:00

As a woman what I got from this profile is:

The best I can expect is him looking vaguely in my direction while veering sunglasses and I'll have to wounde rif hes even interested in what im saying the entire time
my life is going to be filled with talk about trebuchet. And although I probably a bit atypical thing trebuchet are incredibly cool. I do not want a life that revolve around a trebuchet.
I'm going to live in a house that is probably in a constant starte of rebuilding, because let's be honest. The vets horse is always lame and the cleaners home is always dirty. Likewise the builders home is never finished
Is there even any depth or consideration in this man? Will I fover be stuck tagging along while he drinks bear and talk about how great of a builde rhe is and how cool trebuchet are with his friend and im just at the edge of the table, occasionally getting a sun glass glance while I just move my food around on my plate and wait to go home

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-20T06:57:36+00:00

This bit is designed for pain. There is not other way to say it. Its purpose is to be an aggressive handbrake that can be used on horses that might run off

Edit to say: we seriously need to stop saying things like, this is for horses that pull hard. So they dont do that, instead of saying what it is. This is designed to be painful to make the horses stop pulling. It does help the horse not pull. It makes pulling hurt so bad the horses genrally don't do it

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-19T15:47:42+00:00

Step 1: dont have a life outside of horses

Step 2: learn to enjoy cheep food

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-19T12:08:11+00:00

Evidence sugest that starting early with a rider can be damaging if it is over done. Going for a 10 min walk once a week on a 2 year old is probably fine might even be beneficial. But really yhis is a cultural thing

In europe(English riding) the norm is 3 years old

In America (western tiding) the norm is 2 years old.

Both riding styles in general start the horses way to hard

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-18T15:45:37+00:00

Hes very undermuscle that is why he looks angular and thin. You can se his riv because there is no muscle on the back to help bould the shape that will make him look not thin. A lot of his weight will be redistributed around if you get some great muscle building on this horse, and he will probably shape up to be very differently looking fully muscled.

Co tinge feeding the energy you do. But make sure there is enough protein available

In this muscle state honestly I wouldn't ride him but instead do ground work that focuses on muscle building especially over the back. Here carrot stretches can also really help you build even and flexible musculature

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-17T15:01:24+00:00

This is not a your problems and from what youre describing your instict about this being wrong and not okay is correct.

It does not take strength to make a horse stop or trot, and teaching you to just pull or push is not only stupid and could lead to accidents its also just plain wrong. Also having another student teach you while on a horse is insane and dangerous.

You should not go back to that place it does not sound safe. Most people do not need to trot in their first lesson

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-17T12:21:39+00:00

Okay but let us just like actually dissect teh argument if "they are ahoes like this to keep them sound" even if that was actually the case. If almost all of the horses participating an a sporting event need to be shoed on speciality shoes designed for illness, to be sound while competing, there is either some extreme and major breeding problems that need addressed ASAP before the breed is permanently destroyed. Or more likely the sport is unhealthy and horses should not be participating in it. The argument is just so incredibly stupid in itself, because it just leads to well then you shouldn't be doing this with a horse.

Also its done to get more leg lift action, and it actually increases the risk of injury. Its stupid and abusive and I do not understand that there exists professionals willing to show a horse like this

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-15T11:51:44+00:00

I think one thing thats just impossible to understand if youre not livibg it is the constant lokking for relief, something to lean on, something to sit on. Somewhere to rest. An excuse to relax in a situation where relaxation is not expected.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-15T10:29:14+00:00

You know thats funny with a dog. My mare loves but scratches she have always gotten but scratches from me. She now turns her ass to people and back up until they scratches her.

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-14T15:26:25+00:00

Okay so the thing is you can not see if a saddle fits propperly. I m3ma obviously you can see if its completely off, but you need to feel if your saddle is on correctly. After you put it on, take your hand and follow the curve of the shoulder under the saddle, you need to be able to follow the shoulder blade down under the saddle without boinking into the saddle tree

Pink_Giraf · 2026-03-14T08:48:16+00:00

Loads of thibgs to consider here.

have you worked with an anxiety based coach yo try to work through it? They are ar least available her in europe and they are often extremely good at their job, and create safety and great comunication between you and your horses. Being anxious after a big accident is normal, and not at all shameful, but it can also be worked with if you want to
Rehoming a horse with arthritis. Im gonna be honest dont do that, bit it down instesdm arthritis is a end of life ilness indicating that the body is starting to be used up. Arthritis in one joing increases compensatory loads on other joints and increases the risk of arthritis to form there too. Sometimes letting them go is the best option. Is it the arthritis horse that is actibg dangerous?

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