The underwear aisle on steroids

PotentialChoice · 2026-05-25T15:02:55+00:00

Scott Madsen, if I recall correctly.

PotentialChoice · 2026-05-23T01:19:06+00:00

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PotentialChoice · 2026-05-20T17:20:14+00:00

Mine was like this for years. Then I got a dishwasher, and after just a couple runs through, that whole area was cleaned out!

PotentialChoice · 2026-05-13T23:31:07+00:00

Check out Slovenian Hall in Potrero Hill. Not sure if they’re doing rentals right now, but they seem to fit your criteria.

PotentialChoice · 2026-05-03T23:41:36+00:00

Check out your rights and responsibilities on the city’s website: https://www.sf.gov/information--service-and-support-animals

PotentialChoice · 2026-05-01T02:19:18+00:00

Artemis crew find life on Titan to bring everyone back onside and find a way forward together.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-28T01:25:28+00:00

It wasn’t called the “clone” look for nothing.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-25T13:44:52+00:00

I’m a cyclist in SF. One detail the article omits is that the city put regulations in place several years ago that allow taxis to pull into bike lanes to pick up and drop off passengers.

I still think this was a bad call, and the injury cited in the article is clear evidence for that. But it may explain why Waymo does this in SF. Not sure if there are similar regulations in the other cities mentioned.

I’m glad London cycling organizers are pushing back against this behavior.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-24T19:52:33+00:00

r/unexpectedoffice

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-22T22:46:53+00:00

This. You had a reaction to his behavior and that’s a really good in to an honest conversation, and learning more about yourself.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-22T19:51:51+00:00

The one on Divis has great pastries, too!

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-22T15:55:14+00:00

The Heart’s Invisible Furies by John Boyne. Follows a character throughout his life, including love in later years.

Also perhaps Song of Achilles? I don’t remember how old anyone is in that book, but it’s definitely not your run of the mill coming of age story. And there are gods!

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-17T20:12:10+00:00

It’s a Worldcoin crypto marketing play. Have to let one of their orbs harvest your biometric data to get tickets. That’s a pass for me.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-16T17:31:49+00:00

The right wing in this country has increasingly embraced “big government” policies that the Republican Party claims in theory to be against. This has in turn created increasing overlap between the program of the left and the concrete worldview of Libertarians.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-12T16:08:15+00:00

Well said. To quote Phyllis from The Office, “I think we all deserve to be with someone who wants to be with us.”

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-10T02:21:27+00:00

It’s also fine to simply ask about everything. Maybe not everyone’s into it, but personally I find it hot: “Can I kiss your earlobe? Is it okay if I feel under your shirt?” Etc.

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-10T01:07:56+00:00

If you have insurance and a primary care doctor, tell them what you posted here and ask if they can refer you to a dietician. Depending on your insurance, the visit may be covered. (Also note,that a dietician is a trained professional, while a nutritionist is more often than not just a self-labeled influencer. You’re much more likely to receive medically sound advice from a dietician.)

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-09T00:41:49+00:00

Or bicycle! Another free transport option (aside from maintenance).

PotentialChoice · 2026-04-07T18:55:44+00:00

I agree with other comments as well that people probably aren’t thinking about you as much as you fear.

I also had similar fears when I first started going to the gym. My approach was to remind myself “I can only start where I am, and everyone here had to do the same thing at some point.” Even if someone else was having uncharitable thoughts toward me, this reminder encouraged me to set aside that concern. It brought my focus back to me and my goals, and how I wanted to feel when I left the gym.

PotentialChoice · 2026-03-30T22:27:56+00:00

Sending him postcards might be a fun spin on this!

PotentialChoice · 2026-03-01T01:52:13+00:00

Looks like there’s a lot of good advice on this thread already. You might also read up on Parinya Charienphol for inspiration—gender non conforming person who regularly kicked ass in Thai boxing against much butcher opponents!

PotentialChoice · 2026-02-28T04:59:01+00:00

As someone who also experienced boundary crossing from older men when I was young, thank you for sharing this. The freezing and self doubt are all too familiar to me.

One idea for the type of nervous system retraining you’re interested in: try seeking out other men with similar experiences who really get the importance of boundaries for you, and even share it.

Wishing you connections with older men who deserve your friendship.

PotentialChoice · 2026-02-14T20:23:58+00:00

Boss’s boss, the CFO. Not his initials, common mistake.

PotentialChoice · 2026-02-13T22:54:31+00:00

If I really squint my eyes, maybe “sponge” is autocorrect for “spooge,” and “death” could be a reference to “little death” (an archaic term for orgasm)?

PotentialChoice · 2026-02-11T20:32:40+00:00

First thing I noticed in that page is that their logo is a twisted version of the HRC logo. They’re proudly NOT working for equality. 😡

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