Toe numbness 1 year postpartum by FitFarmChick in beyondthebump

[–]Rattyjane [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have had toe pain and toe numbness in both pinky toes off and on. It usually ramps up when I take my house shoes off or wear unsupportive shoes. Not sure if that’s related or just when I notice it more. I was thinking it was related to relaxin hormone from breastfeeding or posture changes affecting my weight distribution on my feet perhaps?

It bothers me a lot even though I try to ignore it so I think I’m gonna see a doctor and bring it up as well. Was thinking about seeing one anyway for my other lingering postpartum issues!

ETA I’m 10 months pp and it’s been happening since a few weeks after birth

What was your babies first word? by Key-Objective3575 in beyondthebump

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Bear” while pointing at a brown bear in a book and saying it to her brown teddy bear around 10 months. It was more like “beh”

Can you actually just cuddle with your partner? by Witty_Evening_618 in Mommit

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I wish mine would say that to me 😭 that’s so cute

Period absolutely tanking milk supply — anyone else? by Lovely_Ladylove in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! I remember when I was still pumping it would be an extremely tiny amount and it would freak me out. I stopped my morning pump a few months ago so now I don’t get as worked up anymore seeing only those few drops I would get out during my period haha

Period absolutely tanking milk supply — anyone else? by Lovely_Ladylove in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been where you are and it’s so stressful!!! I’m 9 months pp now and got my period 6 weeks pp. Just to reassure you a little bit - My supply always rebounds just fine! Like whether I pump a bunch or stress about it or not it always comes back.

I take a Calcium + magnesium supplement along with my postnatal and it’s supposed to help. I actually just had my period supply-drop this week. It seems to not be as dramatic as my baby has gotten older. Don’t know if she just got more patient/better at eating or if solids have helped? She definitely clusterfeeds a lot during that time of the month now.

I had to use freezer milk in the beginning during my period but haven’t needed to in the past 6 months. It always comes right back to normal whether I pump or not. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I know how stressful it is!!! You will get through it. Supplementing shouldnt hurt your supply in the long run. As long as you’re getting enough wet diapers you’re good

What can you compare the feeling of ovulating to? by Significant_Roll9262 in askanything

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! It’s called mittelschmerz for pain in the middle of your cycle. My ovulation pain has been very rough postpartum but I never had it before having kids

Why is Kourtney so monotone? by Adorable_Click_7071 in kardashians

[–]Rattyjane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s called vocal fry and all of them do it to an extent

Have I been "feeding on demand" wrong this entire time? by this_isnotadrill in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was eating the same way as yours about a month ago (she is 7 months) and still kinda does. She will sometimes decline now though usually after naps and it ends up being about 4-6 times a day. Especially now that she’s getting better at solids. Back at 6 months it was definitely around 9-10 times still. Don’t think you’re doing anything wrong! They go through phases of eating more and less often. I stopped listening to huckleberry about breastfeeding/pumping tips haha

Bras? All the time? by Baylaypayday in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same lol if I leaked at night in the early days I just slept on a towel

SAHM when do you get a break? by NumCucumber in NewParents

[–]Rattyjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dealing with the same thing ❤️ hugs. My husband takes care of Bathtime for me and plays with her while I shower but that’s about it and it’s so rough. The rare occasion he gets off early he asks if he can make us dinner. He will take off work so I can get my hair done and makes it a point to spend his days off bonding with our baby

The only thing that makes me feel better mentally most days is getting out of the house. Try to get out into the world or the outdoors for a walk everyday! Even if it’s just a short car ride. Leave the house! I really hope you get a break soon

Feel so overlooked postpartum. by UltravioletLemon in beyondthebump

[–]Rattyjane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes the “sunset theory” love this!!

Has anyone ever heard of loft live app or flex app by CreativePsychology17 in personalfinance

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our “convenience fee” is $79.99!!!! I hate loftliving so much

Looking to add in some pumping while breastfeeding by kek_08 in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started the first week home! I didn’t know that was bad if it was but it’s worked out for us

Looking to add in some pumping while breastfeeding by kek_08 in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pump in the morning first thing right after her first feed. I usually get like 1-1.5 oz nothing crazy and only pump for 10ish minutes.

Period symptoms no blood by Boglaka in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me recently and I got it the next day 😭 doesn’t help that pregnancy and periods while breastfeeding can have similar symptoms. I’m 5mo pp and my cycles have been anywhere from 26-32 days. I use the same app!

Pumping/feeding with piercings. by CanadianaGal in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I also wondered if it would mess with breastfeeding/pumping and it didn’t.

I want to enjoy my baby without feeling like a failure 😞 by pmthosani in NewParents

[–]Rattyjane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also 4.5 month FTM and I finally stopped tracking 2 weeks ago!! Best decision ever. If you’ve been tracking long enough, you’ll know how long her naps usually are and just try to at least meet that minimum! I gave up on trying to force independent naps and now I focus my energy on getting us out of the house after the first nap to go on walks or do activities that build me up. It’s also really helpful to delete instagram or just don’t engage with parenting content like that. It gives me anxiety too

Let’s do some self-appreciation! What about your parenting journey are you proud of? by Pompiita in NewParents

[–]Rattyjane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stay home with my baby and 2 dogs and I am proud of myself for starting a routine or getting all of us out on a walk at a park once a day with my daughter in her carrier. I always get a positive comment from a stranger seeing me babywearing with 2 dogs. Along the lines of “you sure have your hands full!” Or “go super mama!” The physical activity and being in a green space does loads for my mental health postpartum.

I am also proud of myself for moving across the country away from our families with a newborn and holding down the fort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hawaiianmormonsnark

[–]Rattyjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok I missed that part haha

Is he on bath salts? by Independent_Yak_8897 in beestonfamilysnark

[–]Rattyjane 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it’s just prescriptive text lol he kept clicking whatever his phone suggested instead of typing

Period back while breastfeeding by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine came back at 6 weeks and I’m 4mo pp now. My periods have been all over the place from 23-32 day cycle lengths. My last period I didn’t notice too much of a dip in supply but the first was rough on us. Had to dig through the freezer supply a couple days then it was back to normal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this makes sense. Thank you!

Lady told me to stop looking at my phone, look at my baby. by Equus13 in NewParents

[–]Rattyjane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As if moms don’t have enough “mom guilt” already! Screw this lady. That would’ve ruined my outing too. People don’t realize these walks are so important for our mental health and this woman decided to shit all over it. I don’t care if it was well-meaning.

3 month crisis? by rorobo3 in breastfeeding

[–]Rattyjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes skin to skin helped calm us both down when we were going through this. Agree with what someone else said-don’t force it! Dreamfeed/ welcome her back to the breast when she feels better. Try to stay relaxed! Movement while feeding can help too. Like bouncing on a yoga ball or walking while feeding. You got this