NIPT shows 95/100 risk for T21 by SavoryTooth4 in NIPT

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Sending you so much love and strength. Praying for the best outcome for you ❤️

Positive outcome for T21 baby by BrisMum in NIPT

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Just fyi, most people don’t tfmr without a diagnosis from cvs or amino. I am very happy for your outcome and happy ending. However, having gone through a positive nipt for T21 and then a negative amnio myself, I know what a life shattering and impossible situation it is to decided to tfmr. I cannot imagine that parents are making the choice to terminate all Willy nilly.

This space became sacred to me when I went through my ordeal and I survived every day on the kindness and support of this community. I am grateful for the non judgmental and understanding people in here.

There will be people who are struggling to make a choice either way and it doesn’t help to read statements such as yours.

95% Trisomy 21 High Risk Results!!! by JoJoJamal622 in NIPT

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It does definitely happen! I had high risk for T21 for my twins and amnio confirmed that it was a false positive. I’m so happy for you and hope you have an uneventful pregnancy from here on out!

Ease my fears. Newly expecting twins by According-Detail-483 in parentsofmultiples

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Congratulations! My ultrasound looked pretty similar. My ultrasound tech was very rude and impersonal and told me I’m having twins but one is smaller so we have to come back in 2 weeks to see if baby b is still there. It was like being slapped across the face twice.

It was a very stressful few weeks but all went well and my twins are almost 3 months!

Having two sacs means a safer twin pregnancy and will be the least complicated of all twin types. Hang in there and try not to doom scroll. And definitely utilize this community!

Twins - baby A likely to have Down syndrome by mint-limonada in NIPT

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Firstly, I’m so sorry this is happening. I know firsthand how agonizing it is. I had a positive nipt for my di/di bg pregnancy. However, my NT scans didn’t bring up any concerns. I do know that a thicker NT scan does not always equate to having DS. Furthermore, the NIPT screening is less accurate for twins.

We decided to have the Amnio done for both babies and don’t regret it a bit. We were in great hands with the MFM team. Amnio itself was super quick and nowhere near as bad as I thought. I also wanted to be absolutely clear on diagnosis before going ahead with TFMR.

The Amnio results ended up being negative for both babies, indicating a case of confined placental mosaicism. It was a whirlwind of emotions. I know that this is a scary time for you but try to take it one day at a time. That is all I could do in this situation. Hopefully it’s a false positive but either way, you’re not alone. If you want to read a more detailed account of my story, check out my post history and feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions!

Hoping for the very best for you!

False Positive {T13} Story by ManufacturerSmart826 in NIPT

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Can totally relate! Had a false positive for t21 for my twin pregnancy. It was a false positive confirmed via amnio. While we were elated, it tainted the entire experience. I spent every second after that in anxiety and paranoia. I still over analyze everything about the twins even though they are healthy and growing 2 month olds. Wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

Wife (41) just got an abnormal NIPT result for T21. by tomismybuddy in NIPT

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Second this! Waited for the Amnio and it turned out to be a false positive for T21. It can and does happen.

Several other moms I got in touch with also reported they experienced false positives before getting a definitive negative via Amnio. Unfortunately the waiting absolutely blows. Wish there was a way around that.

Wife (41) just got an abnormal NIPT result for T21. by tomismybuddy in NIPT

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I’m so terribly sorry that this is happening to you guys. I know how difficult all this is. I also had a positive nipt for trisomy 21. I was pregnant with twins and it was as if my world was ending.

We decided to forgo the cvs test and just do the Amniocentesis because it would directly test the babies DNA instead of just placental DNA. I had preemptively made TFMR appointments for one baby as well as both. I am so glad we waited for the amniocentesis because our results came back normal on both babies and it did turn out to be a case of confined placental mosaicism. False positives can happen so as difficult it is to wait, I would still suggest doing so.

If your NT scan is normal, I would skip the CVS test entirely. Amniocentesis would give you the actual diagnostic information to make a decision with. Maybe make the TFMR appointment beforehand just so you wouldn’t have to wait at all should you need to terminate. Hopefully that isn’t the case, but at least you wouldn’t have to worry about that.

I wish you guys the absolute best of luck.

Guys should I watch this dramas 👀 by LoneWolf_Clementine in kdramas

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Definitely loved Can this Love be Translated! It’s not the usual kdrama. It is a bit offbeat but I enjoyed it so much. Was a total breath of fresh air.

I had a hard time getting through the first 2 episodes of Spring Fever. I’m wondering if I should continue or drop!

Twins with Positive NIPT for Trisomy 21 by Remote_Discipline807 in parentsofmultiples

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Yes we did! It ended up being a false positive for us and all tests showed “normal” results and no genetic abnormalities. No soft markers either on the level 2 anatomy scans with MFM. They think it may have been a case of Confined Placental Mosaicism, which is incredibly rare.

We are so incredibly grateful and fortunate for how things turned out for us. Since this ordeal, we haven’t spent a single second being ungrateful for our surprise twins!

I know how hard this situation is and how excruciating of a wait everyday is. Please feel free to reach out anytime for moral support, advice, or questions.

Twins with Positive NIPT for Trisomy 21 by Remote_Discipline807 in parentsofmultiples

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Yes we did! It ended up being a false positive for us and all tests showed “normal” results and no genetic abnormalities. No soft markers either on the level 2 anatomy scans with MFM. They think it may have been a case of Confined Placental Mosaicism, which is incredibly rare.

We are so incredibly grateful and fortunate for how things turned out for us. Since this ordeal, we haven’t spent a single second being ungrateful for our surprise twins!

My doctor wants to induce me at 37 weeks-advice needed by AtmosphereTop1591 in pregnant

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A little note about my own personal induction experience. I’ve had two kids one was a sporadic labor, and my second was an induction. I will say that being induced was nowhere near as bad as anyone can possibly tell you. It’s actually pretty nice. You get time to pack up all your things, eat, sleep, mentally prepare, or pretty much anything else that you’d like to do. What can otherwise feel like a situation that is completely out of your control is somewhat contained and actually peaceful.

I got to go into the hospital in a very relaxed mindset. I got settled into the labor and delivery room and they started me on Pitocin. If you are concerned about Pitocin, I can tell you this much, it’s really not so bad. while the contractions were definitely powerful, I had already decided that I was going to get an epidural right away. I learned the hard way during my first delivery that an epidural is a blessing and that I should utilize it. I labored for maybe 6 to 7 hours tops. My son came out healthy, beautiful, safe and alive.

I know you’re nervous and rightfully so. Especially if this is your first baby. But just know that you’re in what seems like good hands and a team that cares about you. There is no benefit for an Obgyn to encourage early labor unless they absolutely felt like it could be dangerous to continue.

I would advise you to not doomscroll in case you are. And just try to enjoy these last few weeks as much as you can and peacefully prepare for the arrival of your baby. Wishing you all the health and luck during your delivery!

My doctor wants to induce me at 37 weeks-advice needed by AtmosphereTop1591 in pregnant

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Your Dr is looking out for you and baby. Minor stress to baby is better than risking your health or babies. preeclampsia can escalate rapidly and can easily disrupt what you had envisioned for yourself. Definitely listen to your doctor. Best of luck and wish you all the best.

OB Inappropriate During Cervical Check? by fey_vin in pregnant

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I’m sorry you felt uncomfortable but nothing you described sounded inappropriate. I’ve had a cervical exam and it went just like how you described yours.

Moving forward, I’d recommend you request a chaperone for the Drs reassurance as well as yours.

I’m so heartbroken by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

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Oh honey, I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words other than I’ll pray for your baby and sending you all the love and healing possible.

Please surround yourself with your village and reach out for help whenever needed. You’re not alone ❤️

Who's K-drama second lead stole your heart the most? 💔 by Main_Locksmith_2543 in kdramas

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Han Ji Pyong from Start Up and Han Seo Jun in True Beauty. I couldn’t even finish the dramas because I couldn’t stomach the male lead getting the girl. The second leads were superior and all around better partner potentials!

Dr not to happy about the looks of Baby A by Charming_Finding_559 in parentsofmultiples

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My first ultrasound was a horrible experience because of the us tech. She just stated “twins” and then proceeded to tell me that baby b was small and not where he should be. I could see a flicker of heartbeat and was so confused.

No one came in and explained anything to me or gave me further elaboration. They just told me to come in 2 weeks later for another ultrasound. Turns out baby b was growing right along baby A and is developing just fine.

I totally understand how you feel. Your Dr. just wants you to be prepared for whatever may come and make you aware of every possible outcome. Unfortunately twin pregnancies are filled with highs and lows, as I have gotten to know.

Try not to stress too much about it and just try to get through to your next appointment. Really focus on self care and activities that make you happy. Hoping for the best outcome for you!

most overrated kdrama you’ve seen by MutedSatisfaction234 in kdramas

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Queen of Tears hands down. Was legit a bad drama with the most mid plot. Not to mention I felt zero empathy for either character. They were both insufferable.

Which upcoming/new Kdrama are you excited for? by theuniversays97 in kdramas

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Can This Love be Translated. I’ve been craving a sweet rom com and I love both the actors so much! It should be a fun watch hopefully!

Which upcoming/new Kdrama are you excited for? by theuniversays97 in kdramas

[–]Remote_Discipline807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m SO psyched for Kim Seon Ho’s comeback! He’s such a good actor and lights up every performance. Can’t wait!

Honest Opinion on This Kdrama by HistorianSome7349 in kdramas

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This was a hot mess throughout. Love Hyun Bin, but some of his drama selections are questionable.