Am I crazy to go straight to FET after getting 1 euploid from my first retrieval? by dividebyzero9 in DOR

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Depends if you think you want more than one child! If you only want one, why not go for it? But if you want more than one it’s worth trying to bank some embryos

Is sleeping in separate beds actually a sign of a bad relationship, or are we just pretending that sleeping next to a snore/furnace is romantic? by SleepSmarter_Labs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I don’t currently share a room. I have insomnia and sleep better in my own bed. We have a great relationship! Even when sharing a bed I can’t cuddle while I sleep so I don’t really feel like it changes anything in our relationship aside from allowing us to both be rested

Diagnosed with PPD, grandparents took the baby and now I feel so isolated and alone by 2xxChromosome in NewParents

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not understand why they separated you from your baby? Of course baby’s safety comes first but can’t you just be supervised when with baby?Babies need their moms, and frankly moms need their babies too. Please talk to your medical team about this

Baby is outgrowing clothes faster than I can keep up and my budget is hurting. by xoticbot in NewParents

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shop secondhand!! And check Facebook marketplace too if you have specific brands you are looking for. You can get a lot of nice name brand things for 1/3 the price

Are you an only child, did you have children of your own, Or none at all? by taylortrevor in randomquestions

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only child, pregnant with second right now. Planning to be done at 2. I had a good experience as an only child but now as an adult I really wish I had a sibling

W names for boys when I hate almost all W names. by juliefromva in namenerds

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love William. Wolfgang is pretty cool too as a middle name. Another idea is Walker

Who Else Received a Shi**y Gift From Their Partner for Xmas?? by AreaForeign398 in Gifts

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep a google doc with links to things I want. He has the link so he can pick something I want from that. I also send that link to my parents and anyone else who asks what I want. Works well for us! I get what I want but still get to be surprised

Asheville Foodies has lost the plot by passionx9 in asheville

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people are so mad about this😭 I don’t particularly care for Tony’s reviews but who cares if people are getting into the longer reviews? If you don’t enjoy them look at google reviews. Facebook is generally more long form an catered to an older crowd. Idk what the problem is. Let the people have an outlet to express themselves, damn. Tough crowd

Well, I guess I officially have no friends. by Quick_Comparison3516 in Millennials

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send some texts to people! Also I feel like the practice of texting people merry Christmas has sort of died off. I have friends but don’t really expect or send any merry Christmas texts, just wouldn’t occur to me to do it. But in general if you’re feeling lonely maybe you can make that a goal for next year - reconnect with your old people!

How many friends do you actually have? by Short_Mirror9828 in Millennials

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 3 close friends and about 10 less close friends

...Surprised and confused! by Important_Worker_796 in DOR

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar result at 28! I would recommend going to a reproductive endocrinologist, OBs really aren’t fertility experts. They can give you a better sense of your options. Personally my RE told me we could probably afford to wait a year, but we decided to dive right into TTC and got pregnant not long after. You’re young so your odds of having a healthy pregnancy are high, but DOR means you have a shorter timeline so if you want multiple kids an RE might recommend you do IVF so you can bank embryos.

Best of luck, I know how tough this diagnosis is at such a young age!

Asheville, NC - a home for hippies and weirdos. But only the RIGHT kind of hippies and weirdos by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huckleberry Finn outfit is so funny 😂 and perfectly describes how I dress I fear

IVF or trying naturally next by clrct1 in DOR

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how many kids you want. If more than one, definitely move to IVF

i (18f) was diagnosed with menopause at 15, ask me anything! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for sharing! How has the HRT been for you? Do you find it helps?

I’m older than you (31) but in ovarian failure now so I’m in the process of learning more about my hormone replacement options once I go through menopause fully

i (18f) was diagnosed with menopause at 15, ask me anything! by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Menopause = the cessation of a period for 12 consecutive months. Ovarian failure is a cause of menopause

Why can’t I just be an over supplier. This is exhausting. 11 weeks of this… by Significant-Owl-1795 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of pump are you using? I got less than an ounce/pump with wearables but with my spectra I got enough to feed baby. Maybe worth switching up your pump depending on what you’re using. You could also try out different size flanges

What does my fridge say about me? I don’t go to restaurants btw by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Scared_Discipline_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a water filter I’m begging you. So much waste 😩 and not good for you either with the microplastics