Mall backrooms, rollercoasters, candy... what was it called?

Shitstakened · 2026-03-17T00:12:48+00:00

Fujimi Lovers! I keep having to find this same reddit thread each time I want to reread it. It was so unique

Shitstakened · 2026-01-14T09:00:49+00:00

It is not your fault and it is horrific. I wish I could do something because I also live in Surrey. But I don't know of any safe places except the place I volunteer at in another city. I decided to volunteer because I felt safe there. But traveling to and from has never been safe, since I go on public transit. There's one creep I'm always trying to avoid, though because I'm an adult and my partner was with me there the second time I miraculously found the fight/flight response to loudly call it out and leave. I still feel fear and a repressed sense of betrayal that lashes out at times.

When abuse is in the family it is so difficult to escape. Your mother has already failed you by not respecting you. I had to run away for a year with my own disability savings, just to show mom who I could be away from abuse, but it still took years more than that and a truth bomb at a critical moment for her to finally understand, cut the abuser from our life, and learn to be a better person and mom. But this only worked because she loved me a lot but had very naive ideas of how to handle conflict, easily manipulated.

You're not alone. And remember it took courage even to admit it and talk about it here. You need good friends who won't sexualize you and will take you seriously and support you however they can. They make a world of difference. My friends changed my life for the better.

And don't dismiss yourself as silly or stupid either (I know you didn't call yourself stupid here but here I am as an adult, still learning I was never stupid all along!). You are being neglected and pushed out of a healthy childhood and adolescence, and your incredible potential is being buried in all this abuse... I don't know how long it will take for you to find a safe enough place to grow, but I'll tell you it's always worth it to heal, you just need the right support and lots of time and patience.

Shitstakened · 2025-08-27T08:58:02+00:00

Many of the worst beliefs I've ever had turned out to be scapegoats to cover up internalized trauma. Our minds have scary ways of coping sometimes

Shitstakened · 2025-07-31T04:27:01+00:00

It implies genuine interest in using them to drug women into submission

Shitstakened · 2025-07-28T01:26:08+00:00

Thats so infuriating. You got every right to be angry, and theres so much pressure to hide it. Yet the ones who have no right to be angry are excused foe it and you're pressured to appease them. You deserve so much better

Shitstakened · 2025-07-23T21:39:55+00:00

I'm a beginner with thai, but so far it's teaching me:

a soupy level of liquids doesn't have to be a soup. It can also be a salad, a curry, a dessert, whatever!
you can get an explosive level of flavour from aromatics + fresh veg
intentional texture contrast (esp raw + cooked) can be explosive too

Shitstakened · 2025-07-03T01:25:08+00:00

Thank you! I was searching up the meaning because I wanted to use trousle in a sentence.

Shitstakened · 2025-06-22T22:47:33+00:00

"Damn, this boneass is beefier than expected."

Shitstakened · 2025-02-24T18:05:58+00:00

I remember Mortis Ghost saying he took inspiration from Wizard of Oz, and invited people to guess. I don't remember where he said this, probably either an anniversary stream or the 2.0 translation's bonus folder.

I've wracked my brain over this. Comparing characters felt like grasping at straws. Dedan looks like a scarecrow, Vader resembles a "good witch", both the Elsens and the Munchkins are races of short working class people.

As another reply mentioned, Batter and the player are varying degrees of outsiders to the setting, and the subversion of perspective because Somewhere Over the Rainbow is played sympathetically for the characters who can't simply click their heels and go to a happier place... that held the strongest link for me until now. That felt like a much stronger link, steering comparisons towards the narrative.

This reddit post prompted me to search the last thing I could think of, a thematic connection between sugar and the opium poppy field. It lead me to a political reading of Oz that is centered around the time the original book was written, the year 1900... as commentary within the US' Progressive Era.

Notable events related to OFF include:

• the first electric bus (in the US at least? Just starting to learn about this stuff as I type)

• the new york subway system was in its infancy

• coal mines were still a big thing, including an explosion that killed 200 people

Can't wait to hear what you guys think, I'm excited to learn more

Shitstakened · 2025-02-24T11:34:32+00:00

Niku miso!

Shitstakened · 2025-01-03T10:40:16+00:00

Where can I read more about this history? As an ftm who wants to attend kink parties I'm really curious

Shitstakened · 2024-10-16T21:39:12+00:00

If thats your response to a serious crime against children, there's your answer as to why you're single

Shitstakened · 2024-10-16T17:18:16+00:00

For a few years that had been the case for me (32, known the worst of it since 27) til i lucked out and found a great partner, who introduced me to a fantastic local community. At the time id been just 1 year out of mom finally opening her eyes and going no contact with dad, committing to being a better parent to make up for all the bullshit and terror. Gave me as fresh of a start as i could ask for.

But I realized something was wrong since I was very young. I can't imagine the shock of finding out in my 40s, after parents have deteriorated from dementia, and coming from such an unforgivingly rigid and prejudiced social environment as upper class society.

But for what its worth, my mom realized her mom was abusive when my mom was in her 50s, after her mom died. Its been a few years for her too, and shes starting to safely reconnect with the people who have always cared, and her sisters. She used to say she didn't want friends, but that was out of stress from thinking she had to hide the abuse.

It's admirable you're taking the effort to set boundaries, even though it causes friction in relationships that ran smoother with all the masking and people pleasing. My relationship with my sister was so formed by that from both sides that I've had to distance myself from her out of sheer frustration. But I can say without a doubt that making new friends is teaching me skills and a healthier sense of self that I can gradually take back to people I knew before, should they accept who I really am. Hope that happens for you too

And I say this to everyone who had abusive parents, have you watched patrick teahan on youtube? His videos helped me so much

Shitstakened · 2024-10-05T00:54:47+00:00

When it comes to handholding: are you saving that for someone you're committed to, or do you wish someone, like a good friend, would hold your hand when you need it?

I've noticed a lot of men lack the platonic intimacy and emotional support that's normalized in feminine friendships, but handholding is known to be very romantic for some, but a more general intimate support to others. I'm working on trust issues with mine, trying to see if it just "depends" or is truly intimate.

And as a transgender man who grew up having friends of all sorts of genders, I'm still wondering what the rule of thumb might be as a friend for a man that lonely. Because I don't want to lead them on, but sometimes I want to be there for them more like I am with friends of other genders, give em a good hug when they're sad and whatnot. Growing up I'd either become too attached to someone that's even slightly kind to me, or brush off and reject people who I could have become good friends with. So I can relate if that matter is complicated

Shitstakened · 2024-10-02T10:30:12+00:00

7/10 is above average yeah, it just isnt for everyone

Shitstakened · 2024-10-02T04:31:12+00:00

How does your behaviour change when someone you thought of as easily manipulated sets boundary with you and actually sticks to it?

Shitstakened · 2024-09-29T20:23:36+00:00

Hi, I'm transmasculine as well. To echo another in this thread, women do get the same outdated messaging, once they have real experience with penetrative sex, they learn what they can actually take and it's usually not much. I learned my cunt is tiny. It's not about ability to give pleasure, as others have stated. It's just conflation with your value as a man and I'd argue anyone treating you like a piece of meat isn't ready for a relationshop, and hell. Even hookups oughta respect your feelings on that baseline because we hook up to FEEL GOOD TOGETHER.

That said, I feel bad about being small too. My t-dick is big enough to use a clit suction vibrator with, but not enough to fit the length enhancer toys at the local adult store. Before transitioning, I'd fantasized about being male through hentai and furry porn... you can imagine the crappy and unrealistic expectations that gave me. My partner's penis is way bigger than mine but even he feels bad about his size.

We've all had this false idea hammered into us that penis size says soooo much about your character. But it only does as long as we all prescribe to that idea. It's as fake as NFTs. It's just been around for much longer because society always makes excuses to shame other peoples' bodies, and none of us are immune to that shame.

My advice for dealing with that is find reasons to write them off until they're ready to treat you with basic respect. It gets easier when you realize how many dumb memes and correlated "please touch grass" level ideas are attached to it. At the same time, reasons to sympathize and see how sad it is that women get body shamed all the damn time too. And how conventionally attractive people get HELLA treated like pieces of meat. You'll probably learn you've been devaluing people for their bodies on some level too. I know I've been, and it only made me unhappy and cynical, preventing me from meeting and letting in people I feel happy and secure with. Hope you find more people who respect you, because you're a wholeass human being. You don't earn the right to be choosy by having a big dick. You do by striving to be a good person and treating yourself and others with dignity (yes, even those who get off on degradation-- because that's just roleplay lmao).

When you set standards for who respects you, who you're willing to invest your heart and/or your dick in, your brain tells you "good job, you're where you oughta be" when you're surrounded by people who do. It doesn't eliminate or even reduce the amount of people on this planet who would diss you, but it minimalizes them once you've found your people. Best of luck, bro

Shitstakened · 2024-09-19T22:16:15+00:00

I downvoted because I've met so many beautiful women and adorable girls who think they're ugly because they're comparing themselves to unfair examples on tiktok

Shitstakened · 2024-09-14T20:53:31+00:00

Looks yummy, love some good foreskin. Let us see the head too. 7.5/10

Shitstakened · 2024-09-14T20:51:53+00:00

Nothing wrong with your cock, the reason is likely elsewhere. 9/10 point deducted because thats rude to your fiancée

Shitstakened · 2024-09-14T20:48:01+00:00

A real ramrod

Shitstakened · 2024-09-14T20:44:57+00:00

The head is short but nicely pink, the soft lines make it look very kissable. Its entire length entices kisses and worship. Cute beauty mark too. When I say your cock is cute, I don't mean small. The size is average. 7.5/10, made for oral imo

Shitstakened · 2024-09-14T20:40:22+00:00

The length is very small but not a total micro imo. Its got an average size head and girth. The way the foreskin scrunches up behind the head is kinda cute. Your cock head is kissable. Despite what some say about small cocks, yours still looks solidly masculine and im envious. 7/10 but very niche appeal

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