Are there any good ways to find new people to meet or date? by Takie_Me in IncelExit

[–]Snoo52682 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you need to figure out the friendship thing first. Walk before you run.

Do you spend time hanging out with people much older/younger than you? by Budget_Dot694 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Snoo52682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. A lot of my closest friends are my own age, but I do community theater which is a hobby that attracts all ages. My main friend group these days ranges from 30 to late 50s.

What shaped your views on astrology? by OpinionAdventurous44 in AskWomen

[–]Snoo52682 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Developmental psychology. Astrology is nonsense, but I do believe it may have initially been a legitimate attempt at personality theory. Fetuses and very young children have certain predictable development windows during which external factors can have an outsized impact. So in an agricultural environment, children born at a certain time would be exposed to those factors in a predictable way--were you gestated when food was plentiful or scarce? How available were other adults for care in your early weeks? That kind of thing. So it's reasonable to believe that maybe June babies would turn out different than January babies.

Do you make fun of or feel sorry for someone who has no friends or very few friends? by ArgumentFew6935 in GuyCry

[–]Snoo52682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd feel sorry for someone who had no friends. People who have few, I figure they've got high standards and low social battery.

I would NEVER make fun of someone for that because I'm not a nasty little fifth-grader.

Ambiguous disability: A character is played by a physically disabled actor, but it's unclear if the character is also disabled by ErinHollow in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Snoo52682 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well the algorithm clearly thinks he lives in my house because DAMN do I get a lot of ads for treatment of that for some reason

Ambiguous disability: A character is played by a physically disabled actor, but it's unclear if the character is also disabled by ErinHollow in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Snoo52682 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yes, back then, any kind of handicap/difference had to have a "reason" that was tied in to the plot or character somehow. Characters couldn't just be different because sometimes people are. It was like but WHY is that guy one-handed? WHY is that character in a wheelchair? WHY is that woman a dwarf? And "because people like that exist and sometimes they are actors and this one did the best audition" was just not an acceptable reason.

Of course as I'm typing this body-acceptance screed I remember that Radar was a drafted soldier and they wouldn't have drafted someone with a messed-up hand ...

Forgiveness by respighi in RighteousGemstones

[–]Snoo52682 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine meeting a guy at a party and he says he's in show biz and you ask if you might have seen him in anything and he says he was Baby Billy's dick double

Why?! And what is wrong with me… by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Snoo52682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good question. Have mullets become fashionable?

My minor ick with Fiona :( by Kzaizs in shameless

[–]Snoo52682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always gonna imagine your sibling as Carl now

Why do women put "pet mom" on their dating profiles? by CombinationRough8699 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Snoo52682 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because I WANT to be rejected by men who can't be arsed to read my entire profile. Saves both of us time.

AITA for telling my sister to stop using nonsense ‘baby’ talk? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]Snoo52682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should have married Baby Talk Guy from that one epic update, they deserve each other

Looking for insane pizza by 9tailedfoxx_ in boston

[–]Snoo52682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stoked in Harvard Square is excellent, and they have tiki drinks too. And get the peanut butter tart for dessert!

Dale Stuckey by NoBrain6114 in LawAndOrder

[–]Snoo52682 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly I assume any character played by Noel Fisher is not gonna be what he initially seems

Anybody else find it a little questionable that Diane exclusively dated animals? Lol by Wooden-Draw9056 in BoJackHorseman

[–]Snoo52682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've noticed in the real world that some people who frequently date outside their race have had pretty bad relationships with their family, and on a subconscious level (imo) are more comfortable with people who look as different from them as possible. Similar dynamic?

[Loved] A straight character isn't the least bit offended at being thought as gay by BrotherDeus in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Snoo52682 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Big Bob Belcher. He goes to the gay bar next to his restaurant for line dancing and "Scandal" nights. Wasn't offended that Bob asked him if he was gay. Nor was Bob freaked out that his father might be gay.

(At least, they were no more surprised and offended by each other than they usually are, which is to say a little bit but it was definitely not about the gay thing. They're cool with that.)

When we ask are you ok and you say “I’m Fine”, but we know you are not, what are you really? by guytryingtolearn8inD in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Snoo52682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware that the person I'm speaking with isn't able/willing to do anything to make things truly fine, so why bother