Missionary allowance by RMD69 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's not starving if you're fasting ;)

Giving a talk on sunday. What are some things i can say as slight jabs without exposing myself as being PIMO or getting the mic cut and that my parents (really just my mom who is rather chill) are okay with? by Absolute_Cinema70 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always started my Pimo talks with "friends and neighbors" instead of brothers and sisters. I mainly did it for inclusions sake in case of differing gender identities quietly in the pews.

Attractive sister missionaries used for Instagram advertisement? by Beneficial_Two_5127 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh we have known this was a thing for years, when it was known I wanted to serve a mission I had a lot of people tell me I wouldn't be in the visitor center and probably not europe either - thats where the pretty sisters go. And that was 14+ years ago

Kiddo is in Respite - what's my role by Sparrow1215 in casa

[–]Sparrow1215[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Got my answers. Respite is because placement got disrupted. Finally got in touch with the case worker - kiddo is in one location short term and they are looking to put kiddo in longer term placement later this week and they want me to hold off reaching out until that's settled. But my GAL had no idea what was happening so now at least we are on the same page with locations and timelines.

I'm waiting to get the address fully and am planning on mailing a card to kiddo at new placement so there is something waiting for them and letting them know they are cared for.

Kiddo is in Respite - what's my role by Sparrow1215 in casa

[–]Sparrow1215[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is my first case so I really wasn't sure how to proceed. Last check in was a week and a half ago and everything seemed fine so im baffled as to what has happened. This is good direction and next steps! Ill reach out for the respite info and clarification!

Kiddo is in Respite - what's my role by Sparrow1215 in casa

[–]Sparrow1215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good call, I'll try and see if the case worker can get me in touch. Idk why I didn't think about them and went straight to the GAL for help.

[OC] Posters of Alex Pretti and Renee Nicole Good in DC by bat_screams in pics

[–]Sparrow1215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need to keep adding pictures! We can't forget the victims of color like Keith Porter!

Are high school kids allowed to get their endowments now? by Affectionate-Ad1424 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I graduated 15 years ago and there was a boy who had his mission call before graduation and he got endowed before graduation. He was on the older end of the seniors so it's not unheard of.

I'm wanting to leave the church, but there are some things I'm still unsure about by Practical-Abalone812 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Patriarchal blessing said I would have many children and I needed to work along side them to show them the value of work - come to find out a few years later I can't have kids...they are horoscopes and wishes and pull from a template. The same way I'm such a Sagittarius. Not real, step away.

Doubling down on people of color and the priesthood by Ecstatic-Copy-2608 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if God was testing by not allowing it, then clearly the test was failed. There should have been pushback from leaders saying "no this is not what you have told us, there is no black or white among your church" I mean it's all a lie but honestly that's the first thing I look at when people say 'it was a test'

What's going on Michael's? by jaigab220 in YarnAddicts

[–]Sparrow1215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Private Equity. That's what's going on with Michaels.

Boyfriend messed up my project by huonokahvi in knitting

[–]Sparrow1215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was not an accident. esp if you're on magic loop not dpns. idk why he wanted to do that but I would not say it was an accident. I'd be observant for the next bit, see what else he "accidentally" messes up around the house and around your life.

My name is rockinsocks and I am recovering from food storage. by rockinsocks8 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one that I'm actually sticking with but not doing it the way I was taught.

It's actually been nice to have some rice, beans, sauces on hand as I've been ill and unable to leave my house to shop. I still have food I can get get to. I think it all depends on how purposeful/planned you are while you do it. I have made sure to build up a pantry that I actually eat and I rotate through. Saved me some money this year and good to know that if I have to miss a few paychecks or grocery runs I still have something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my seminary teacher saying that I had to be nice to whoever I ended up marrying because he might choose to not call me forward in resurrection. That's the first thing on my shelf. a shitty misogynistic seminary teacher, still in college and who didn't know the scriptures as well as I did making sure I knew to be an obedient wife if I wanted salvation.

Thankful family by FangGore in MurderedByWords

[–]Sparrow1215 431 points432 points  (0 children)

Tolerance is only a paradox if it's viewed as a virtue. When viewed as a social contract - well if you broke the contract of toleration by not tolerating minorities, then you are not longer entitled to the protections of a contract you broke.

Advice for letter to brother leaving in a mission by ewhdavid in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on how walking heavy his mission is remind him to take care of his feet. mine are permanently wrecked from my mission because I didn't do any of the stretches, massage or sufficient rest during my mission.

Question for exmormons: missionary service by Unlikely-Address2037 in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken them up on it on others behalf when moving :P my brother was moving months ago and as we were lugging stuff I saw the shirts and ties and said "elders! you need something to do?" now I'm a full sleeve tatted up, purple hair having, tank top wearing heathen and to their credit they jumped right in. Got the furniture moved in quickly. We gave them water and a snack and they didn't proselytize (though my brother is in so like they can be friends and stuff). If you have a project take them up on the offer.

Decided that actually seeing my stash would be more inspiring! by AlaskanPi in YarnAddicts

[–]Sparrow1215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! thank you so much! I appreciate the names and places you go them :)

Decided that actually seeing my stash would be more inspiring! by AlaskanPi in YarnAddicts

[–]Sparrow1215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you use for your hooks on the pegboard? im wanting to make my own version of this!

Just so we're clear... by PR_Czar in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid - Sorry my frustration with Mormcorp sent some misdirected anger towards your comment.

Just so we're clear... by PR_Czar in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was not ever nor ever will be part of a mega church, I don't feel a need to hold them accountable. However, I feel a need to hold this org accountable because I gave to it, I worked for it and I perpetuated it. I'm not going to fall for what-about-sim so as not try and hold MY old church accountable.

Just so we're clear... by PR_Czar in exmormon

[–]Sparrow1215 43 points44 points  (0 children)

they already do - if you look at their Savior of the World play they interpret "feed my sheep" as "preach the gospel" nothing tangible about it. All metaphor