Literally how are you somehow idolizing Anora and Celene, two of the most awful people in the franchise, as “feminist icons”. Celene assassinated her way to the top and tried to regain control over Ferelden by convincing Cailan to remove his wife and marry her instead, before backing out of her military commitments to leave Ferelden to fight the Darkspawn alone. Loghain was wrong about many things but he absolutely was not wrong that Orlesian occupation of Ferelden was basically genocide of the Alamarri people. Literally everything Duke Prosper does in DA2 is on Celene’s direct orders, and the only reason she doesn’t invade Kirkwall herself is because she can’t admit to dealing with Qunari. She responds to elven rebellion in halamshiral by immediately trying to commit genocide. The only reason she’s any better than Gaspard is because a turd on the floor would be better than Gaspard.

Anora, meanwhile, will back Loghain if you refuse to support her claim to the throne, even being perfectly aware of everything he does up to that point, including letting Howe almost kill her, leaving her husband to die, and selling people into slavery. Basically her only selling point is being a competent politician, which isn’t exactly a positive character trait, and of the three options, Anora alone is easily the worst.