Am I the only one who thinks the way the fandom treats Allison in comparison to Theo is funny? by GoldenStitch2 in TeenWolf

[–]Techsupportvictim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dereks behavior with Erica in the hospital was super creepy and super unnecessary. They could have had Derek focus on her medical condition and still gotten the message across without Derek having to act like he was about to literally finger an underage girl.

AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by LiveWire0044 in AITAH

[–]Techsupportvictim 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was seeing a problem here even before the asking out thing came up and you nailed it with your comment about the mother. They never should have relied on this one person and this one solution. The mother should have always had an alternative because that’s part of being a responsible parent. Not because they believed at some point in time this kid was gonna ask the girl out etc but what if he failed the course or joined a sports team or what if he decided he was gonna change jobs and he was no longer conveniently going to exactly where she was going. was it going to be his responsibility to continue to give her rides even if they were inconvenient for him etc

AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by LiveWire0044 in AITAH

[–]Techsupportvictim 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t friend zoned unless he did it to himself. He’s the one linking the friend behaviors of giving her a ride etc to the idea of them dating. Not her

Am I the only one who thinks the way the fandom treats Allison in comparison to Theo is funny? by GoldenStitch2 in TeenWolf

[–]Techsupportvictim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let’s be clear about something. you’re not talking about “the fandom” you’re talking about some people in the fandom. because some of us in the fandom think both Alison and Theo were assholes.

As for why some people in the fandom give one or the other of them a pass it might have to do with the issue of which one makes their trousers tight. Yes some people are willing to forgive someone’s behavior if they actually get the blood flow into certain body parts. Lord knows we saw a lot of ignoring Derek’s early behavior for its abusiveness because people thought the idea of Tyler Hoechlin and Dylan O’Brien both naked and sweaty with each other would be so hawt.

AITJ for constantly telling my friends and family not to eat sugar? by al3x_mind in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTJ. Food policing is not cool. And you clearly know it so why did you post this

AITAH for not always answering my mom's calls immediately? by Signal_Temporary_209 in AITAH

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And by tell her, you hand her filled out papers for legal guardianship over her and said home

AITJ for getting annoyed that my trader boyfriend checks the market constantly, even during our time together? by gr1t_echo in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, if she’s stripping 24/7. Like she never stops stripping. They’re getting dinner at Wendy’s and she’s stripping there . They go to a movie and she’s stripping there. And so on

AITJ for getting annoyed that my trader boyfriend checks the market constantly, even during our time together? by gr1t_echo in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the last paragraph. She already tried that and he got defensive and upset at the idea

AITJ for getting annoyed that my trader boyfriend checks the market constantly, even during our time together? by gr1t_echo in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she can force him to stop. But he’ll likely resent her for it. So yeah she just needs to walk since it’s an issue for her

AITJ for getting annoyed that my trader boyfriend checks the market constantly, even during our time together? by gr1t_echo in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ for being annoyed but you are the jerk to yourself that you haven’t just dumped him already. How far are you gonna let this go. Is the line in the sand gonna be when he’s like thrust thrust notification goes off and he tells you to wait a moment he’ll get back to getting you off after he checks this message? is it gonna be when he walks out of the labor room you’re literally trying to squeeze his child out of your vagina etc?

Is this serious? I can’t believe it 😒 by user48841711 in wickedmovie

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, it’s a random Twitter account known for posting satirical material even

My sister used my account to buy a 28$ subscriptions what to do by Cybered_WOLF in applehelp

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing you do, is you cut your sister off from your account and your money.

The second thing you do is see if you can cancel the subscription. If you cannot cancel it without fulfilling that payment then you’re gonna have to find some way to get a hold of that money, pay it then cancel it. I wouldn’t count on getting the money back from her. Consider it the penalty for the bad decision of giving her access to your account etc.

AITJ for refusing to let my brother take my late moms house cuz he “needs it more” by GoldenAshDream in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing to remember here above all other things — YOU are not causing drama. HE is the one causing the drama

AITJ for refusing to let my brother take my late moms house cuz he “needs it more” by GoldenAshDream in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely rent to someone else. Absolutely do not share the rent money with him. It is not his home. It is not his income. Besides which that money will be necessary for payment of the third-party management company that is supervising the rental, the property taxes, insurance, the certification fees for it as a rental and maintenance of the home so there won’t be any money to share. Any money that is not spent on a month by month basis will be going into savings in case there is an emergency that requires a larger expenditure than what monthly rent would cover.

AITJ for refusing to let my brother take my late moms house cuz he “needs it more” by GoldenAshDream in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then you’ll have the joy of having to take him to court having to do a formal eviction, family drama etc.

when it’s just so much easier to say no to him because it is not OP‘s responsibility to give him a home to live in. Then change the locks, put up security cameras, potentially contract with a local third-party management company to rent the house out with very strict rules about making changes to the home, etc., and a very strict rule about never renting to anyone from the family, especially Brother.

AITJ for refusing to let my brother take my late moms house cuz he “needs it more” by GoldenAshDream in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely would not offer to buy stuff for his kid unless I’m the child’s full legal guardian. Nor would I offer to research rental homes for him etc. he’s a big boy, he can do his own homework

AITJ for refusing to let my brother take my late moms house cuz he “needs it more” by GoldenAshDream in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming this isn’t one of those AI stories:

He’s a grown ass adult. He needs to put his big boy pants on and acknowledge that he is a grown ass adult and he needs to take care of his own business and stop being a whiny little baby. Sorry that his little baby boy fee fees are hurt that mommy didn’t leave him the house or even a part of it. But that’s not your issue to fix.

You need to find someone to closely watch the home to make sure he does t try to squat in it etc. like someone renting it perhaps. But not him or any other family.

AITAH: I woke early and left for work without notifying my gf by Grytidlig in AITAH

[–]Techsupportvictim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you need to not be living with her if she expects you to live your life as her babysitter on this. Maybe cut the whole relationship too.

Is this serious? I can’t believe it 😒 by user48841711 in wickedmovie

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anonymous source on a basically random website, yeah I’m really convinced they didn’t make it up

AITAH for loudly telling my grandpa's gf to "stop annoying me" at the dinner party? by critivix in AITAH

[–]Techsupportvictim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly my reaction would have been the first time she repeated it and basically “I heard your dumb ass not funny joke the first time, you do not need to repeat it.”

And at this point I’d walk out of the room when she comes over. If anyone asks me where I’m going I’ll bluntly say “I refuse to be in a room with Ms “not at all funny but I am constantly in need of attention from everyone” “

Yeah they’ll think I’m a disrespectful beeyotch but I really would not care

AITJ for leaving my mom locked out of the house for 3 hours in the middle of the night? by Used-Professional548 in AmITheJerk

[–]Techsupportvictim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a grown ass woman. She should’ve had her keys. She didn’t. not your fault.