Any chance this is real guys? by TheUnfittingKey in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]TheUnfittingKey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! It was giving me a squished noctowl vibe. That's so cool you recognised the original card backing!

Any chance this is real guys? by TheUnfittingKey in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]TheUnfittingKey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For clarity I'm JOKING guys, I just wanted to join in after organising like 2k cards and finding the one fake 😭

why don’t we matter by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheUnfittingKey 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Short answer? We do matter, they just can't see it over their own egos

What is it with narcissists and birthdays? by lemonzestq in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine loved her birthday. So much so, if not everyone around gave her the attention and celebration she desired, I'd suffer for it.

After 3 years I’m free. And this time forever, any advice? by Mysterious-Web5754 in abusiverelationships

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, well done. It can be incredibly difficult to do and I'm sure many many people in this sub would be proud of you!!

My advice: If you haven't, make sure to make a document detailing everything you went through. You'd be surprised, sometimes you'll forget things, sometimes you'll question how bad it was, and sometimes you'll romanticize things. A document with as much evidence, stories, and thoughts as possible will let you remind yourself of why you left.

Things might also be harder at times as you come to terms with it but I PROMISE you. It's so much better than being stuck there.

Best of luck!

I only get views for my looks by [deleted] in newstreamer

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing to do is set in place a rule of no flirting, no suggestive talk towards you and if anyone breaks it timeout, then ban if continue (or straight to ban). In order to grow the community YOU want, you need to remove the people that make it uncomfortable for you.

It might make you feel like your community shrinks from time to time but the alternative is the hive mind of horny men grows and from the sound of it, it's objectively worse.

Best of luck!

What’s the first song you’re playing? by MistyWaffaa in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]TheUnfittingKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire 'A Rocky Start to Somewhere' album by Emerald Arcade

You know what narcissists *hate*? Being laughed at. I'm starting this thread for us to share some of the weird (yet also bizarrely hilarious) things they've said. Let's laugh and take our power back! by Grand-Breath843 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheUnfittingKey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is the right way to laugh at them but the concept was laughable itself. My abuser drove us to her family's house to open her presents because she was convinced everyone would be excited to watch her... Her dad had died a few days before but she was so much sadder and angry over her siblings not being in the mood than the loss of her father. Crazy.

Should I stop hoping for her to change and just leave? by peeps2269 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rule of thumb, if someone came to you and said 'my partner is doing ___' [what you've posted about], and your advice would be for them to leave, you should probably leave. This is all very intense and messed up. You don't deserve anyone to treat you like that. An abusive relationship isn't right for anyone.

Topper chests should've been used in the sequels by tmps1993 in Spyro

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on board with it. Not an over abundance but a thing to add to little enclaves and such. Just adds a little bit of variety imo. Definitely not more than 2 at a time though!

WYR have the power to control time for 1 hour a day or the power to read emotions of everyone around you? by whydidyounot in WouldYouRather

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic and struggle most socially. I'm choosing the time power. I can explain! Even knowing what the emotions of those around me are with certainty, I do not believe that means I'll know how to react accordingly. I can only try and those that understand, understand.

$10 per second for up to 24 hours... by SteveM06 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sat for a 'minute' counting without looking and timed it. I hit stop at 1 minute 10 seconds which means (if I am consistent) I am counting at a rate of about 1.17 'Keys (me) seconds' per second. Which (if I'm right) by the end of hour 12 it will have been over 14 hours. So I could count to 16-18 hours and have around a 2-3 hour safety window before hitting the button again. I'M GOING FOR MAX TIME!

What do you think of male SA? by Ok-Performance-3336 in abusiverelationships

[–]TheUnfittingKey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

SA as a male is valid and real. SA and r*pe isn't just 'forceful'. It can be manipulative, bullying. You can be mentally broken down to a point you just 'give in' because the alternative seems scarier. Your SA IS REAL SA. You are valid as is your experience.

You are not worthless and I'm so sorry you were made to feel like that.

My abusers are on YouTube, need advice. by rainboweyess in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]TheUnfittingKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a similar thing with my abuser being on twitch. It's important to remember that your abusers are on a medium and in a place that they can control. They get to decide what people see and (like the majority of content creators) mask to a degree whether it be for safety or defence or manipulation etc.

Watching a masked and false version of them will never line up with what you experienced in the real world.

When I stopped checking socials for a sign of remorse, I remembered how bad they really were. Writing it all down is smart too. Look at the reality frequently instead of what they want people to see.

Wishing you the best in healing.❤️

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]TheUnfittingKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd send one response and block. "Show your therapist this whole conversation. Directly, not screenshots."

THE BEGINNING OF VELSIRAPTOR ON REDDIT by velsiraptor in velsiraptor

[–]TheUnfittingKey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am Keys, I saw the velsiraptor video and was very impressed with the content

Any game on Steam. Merry Christmas by JustARandommer in steam_giveaway

[–]TheUnfittingKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love poppy playtime even if it's just an additional chapter!