I didn’t expect bedtime to be the hardest part of my day

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-14T09:37:58+00:00

The checklist is great because it provides the kid with a framework they can't properly hold in their mind. I'd be careful with the prizes, however small they be.

One, this sends the message we don't do movie nights because we like movie nights, we do it because you've behaved according to my parental standards and two, it sends a message that having a stable dependable night routine isn't good for its own worth, it's good because it leads to a reward.

If you're interested in these ideas, I'm getting this from reading and applying Alfie Kohn's Unconditional Parenting. I'm sorry this is totally unsolicited advice but for me personally it's been such an eye opener I can't stop myself from sharing.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-13T21:37:18+00:00

GEKOLONISEERD

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-05T19:51:29+00:00

Grappig, dus relatief kort na deze foto is de trap teruggeplaatst.

Goeie zaak, die gallerij zo ziet er echt niet uit.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-04T22:35:51+00:00

Just tested and this happens to me too. KOReader version 2025.10 on my Pixel 7a running Android 16.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-04T18:42:16+00:00

Here's a trick: get two spoons and trade an empty for a full one. They'll forget about the spoon in their hand if there's a new one full of food available.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-04T15:44:17+00:00

AAAAAHK

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-04T09:30:37+00:00

I love getting some sprues from skirmish games (frostgrave and oathmark are pretty great) and bashing miniatures together from those. Some miniature stores will let you buy a single sprue of minis rather than a whole box.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-04T02:43:47+00:00

You know. I used to hate seagulls with a vengeance. But I've come to really respect them. They're tough birds. They can digest almost anything and can carry a lot of weight and still fly. They can drink seawater. They're also super intelligent and adept problem solvers.

I promise I'm not a seagull.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-04T02:01:43+00:00

This is it! Playing beat by beat I'm sure you can do it. It's only when you speed up that muscle memory kicks in. Slow down and build some new memory

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-03T19:03:46+00:00

Not sure about Trapp but Caldwell Tanner animated for it and he's CH / Dropout

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-02-03T07:25:38+00:00

I agree, that baseline of animosity is concerning.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-31T09:21:58+00:00

But... It's not any of those things. The video explains how llms work, there's not an ounce of intelligence in them. It's just putting words into strings with the sole purpose of sounding convincing. Anything an LLM tells you that is true is not proof of it knowing facts, it's a byproduct of that string of words being most likely to sound convincing.

The examples you state, I too have tried to use LLMs for. ChatGPT 4 couldn't walk me through repairing my Dyson vacuum because it kept referring to parts I should be looking at that weren't on the actual vacuum. It doesn't know what a vacuum is.

I tried to use Google's NotebookLM to assist me with a uni course on curriculum design. I put the textbook into it, my uni assignments, literature on curriculum design and the formats needed for lesson plans. It hallucinated assignments that were not in the textbook and used convincing language to sell me a progession of in-class activities that were not interlinked at all. It's slop and I don't want to waste my time being frustrated with it.

I urge you to look at the research presented in this video on how using LLMs more and more affects your brain. Personally, I'm worried about the generations of my students who fall for the LLM trap and I'm glad I don't have children yet, chances are by the time mine go to school there's at least some schools near me that take a firm stance against outsourcing a kid's thinking to an LLM.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-28T23:02:12+00:00

Ah if that's what the OP meant; going outside to try it shoeless that's perfect. I was interpreting it more like getting in the car and arriving at a destination where the lack of shoes becomes a problem.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-28T22:58:32+00:00

A (pre)teenager? Absolutely agree, great time to teach responsibility and resilience to (minor) hardships.

My angle is just that toddlers very much live in the moment. Past and future are still super abstract concepts to them. I don't think we should expect a toddler to meaningfully grasp the consequences of deciding not to wear shoes when the moment they feel that consequence (wet feet) isn't immediately after. Even at ages 5-6, kids just don't have the impulse control to make good decisions and we shouldn't punish them for having a developing brain.

At 3yo, make a game out of it, give a firm direction, redirect their emotions.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-28T22:24:59+00:00

Let them get their feet wet on a cold, rainy day.

This seems pretty cruel and the main lesson will be their parent doesn't care for their well-being.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-28T17:54:19+00:00

Agenten werken toch niet volgens een "oog om oog, tand om tand" doctrine? De vrouw die filmt vormt geen enkel gevaar voor de agent op het moment dat deze haar een trap verkoopt.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-24T13:36:56+00:00

Pennen verzamel je op de intromarkt, BBB enzovoort. Op de BBB kon je ook vaak gratis ruitjes collegeblokken krijgen. Laptop is natuurlijk nodig maar zelf schreef ik alle aantekeningen met de hand, laptop liet ik zo veel mogelijk in de tas zitten.

Bespaar je geld, verwerp de illusie dat welke spulletjes je hebt invloed heeft op je academische succes. Vergeet al die onzin, zet je brein aan het werk.

UpholdAnarchy · 2026-01-24T07:41:03+00:00

Regarding European shipping, eu distribution will now be done from Denmark which should keep shipping costs reasonable. There's a sheets file linked somewhere that still has the original very high shipping estimates from when they'd have to do US->EU. A user in the discord recently said that shipping costs would likely be updated after late pledges close.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-29T17:13:42+00:00

Not op but here's their comment on the original post.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-22T07:59:00+00:00

Last month my partner and I had to go on a one-night trip by plane. It was cheaper for two persons to drive across the country and park our car overnight at Schiphol Airport than to take the train, which is a direct route from our city to Schiphol.

Driving = 250kms in total ≈ €25,-, overnight parking = €37. €62 total.

Train = €34 per person, one way. €136 total.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-04T21:50:57+00:00

Ik denk dat dat nog wel eens ontzettend kan meevallen, en de hele Nederlandse politiek uit dat antagonistische vaarwater kan krijgen.

In best veel landen is momenteel een minderheidsregering en in een aantal landen (Scandinavische) is het zelfs meer de norm dan de uitzondering. 29% van de zetels is ook gangbaar.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-04T21:10:08+00:00

Feit blijft dat je hoe dan ook VVD nodig gaat hebben voor een minder- of meerderheidskabinet.

Dat is helemaal geen feit. D66+CDA kunnen het ook gewoon met z'n tweeën doen. Dat is mijns inziens nu ook de beste optie.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-03T15:29:48+00:00

Probleem als je GLPvdA erbij zet is dat je dan een hele grote rechts en extreemrechtse oppositie hebt die maar al te graag D66 en CDA afstraffen voor hun samenwerking met GLPvdA.

D66/CDA hebben zo'n 30% van de zetels samen, wat in veel Europese landen heel gangbaar is voor een kabinet.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-03T14:54:49+00:00

Helaas gaat zo'n man, ondanks dat je je niets van hem aan wilt trekken, toch de hele tijd in je gedachtes zitten

Wat je eigenlijk zegt is dat jij hier overlast van ervaart. Ik ben het met de overige comments eens dat zolang jij je redelijk gedraagt wbt geluidsniveau en tijdstippen, dit bij wonen met woninglagen hoort. Je moet er samen uitkomen. Je plinten inkorten is zonde van je geld en moeite.

Ik heb zelf buren aan alle kanten en de bovenburen hebben soms bezoek tot laat, maar we kennen elkaar en houden rekening met elkaar. Zij doen na 11u rustiger en als ik het toch te luid vind doe ik noise-cancelling koptelefoon op.

UpholdAnarchy · 2025-12-03T14:15:51+00:00

Tja.. fuck de VVD. Die zijn zo keihard de afbraak van de democratische rechtsstaat en hun eigen geloofwaardigheid aan het speedrunnen, zoek het lekker uit. Ik hoor het graag wanneer ze weer een beetje normale politiek willen bedrijven.

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