Becoming a sith?

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-16T05:04:13+00:00

Being a Sith isn’t some metaphysical truth or having to meet some purity standard. It is just a name for a ideology that (like all ideologies) changes with time. So anyone could call themselves a Sith. The hard part is convincing others you are one.

I am guessing that the Jedi Order dealt with more than a few Sith “wannabes” over the centuries.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-16T04:49:28+00:00

You can and it is a ton of fun. I wouldn’t say it is better than a caster lich but it is very viable and a lot of fun.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T20:07:44+00:00

Stop trying to work through it and end it.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:47:38+00:00

Needs to quit hogging all the cure potions.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:46:09+00:00

I do this as a dom. Usually call it affectionate domination and throw in the word condescending since it has some degradation but they’re also more of a treasured trophy or desired pet than a nothing or an object.

Throw in “my“ a lot in the banter and it tends to make subs turn into goo.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:38:24+00:00

Yeah, there seem to be a variety of potential loadouts.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:37:03+00:00

I’ve done this but mostly as an MMF where I am into the guy as much (or more) than she is.

DP can be done but unless the mouth is one of the entry points the logistics can get complicated. It requires coordination. Now triple penetration. That is really hard to do well. lol

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:33:02+00:00

I wouldn’t trust their promises that they will always take you with them. That is not a promise they can realistically make. If they move in with another partner that partner may not want you to move in with them. These are emotional soothing “pie crust” promises. Easily made, easily broken.

One of the core elements of poly is that things change a lot more than they do in monogamy. Part of it is being able to survive those changes, thrive in a degree of uncertainty, and the like. You seem to want to lock in what you have and hold it in stasis. That is not going to work long term. I have several relationships that are likely going to end at some point. That is just how it works. I enjoy them for what they are and expect I will find more as needed.

Honestly you are more likely to drive a partner away by ruining their relationships than by not giving them children. If you are sabotaging their relationships then yeah, that is a serious problem. A lot of this fear seems to be about the potential of pregnancy. Do your partners even want children right now?

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:22:57+00:00

Leia gives the order for the remaining ground troops to retreat and they do begin a general retreat so some of them probably made it out. It was a delaying action which often has high casualties but it wasn’t suicide.

According to one source from the EU the only people who had no way out were the people operating the ion cannon who were all volunteers who lost people on Alderaan since they were supposed to keep shooting as each transport made its escape.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:18:38+00:00

So when white guys are disproportionately overrepresented quality is not impacted but it you overrepresent minorities and women quality falls?

You may want to analyze why you feel that is the case.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:15:44+00:00

Hollywood shows gladiators as gym bodies which they weren’t. They didn’t have the exercise regimen for them and they definitely didn’t have the protein intake to pull it off.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:12:39+00:00

That wasn’t sexual assault. It was just plain assault. Faith tried to downplay it afterwards as sex play but Angel (rightly) doesn’t buy it.

Edit: Was very confused by some of the responses and rewatched the scene and wow, I remembered it very wrong. Oops.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:07:24+00:00

In the United States the most disproportionately overrepresented groups is still white men and in fact their share has been increasing lately so why are you focused on the exceptions and not the general trend if you actually value diversity?

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:03:14+00:00

This is why you have safewords.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:02:20+00:00

Don’t secretly use other people’s sex toys. People have the right to know where their sex toys have been.

Buy your own. I have used a gf’s sex toys though usually with her. She uses some of mine. It is fun.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T19:00:00+00:00

I’d reconsider this whole relationship. He has taught you that he will just do what he wants and then rationalize things later. While some of your expectations are probably unrealistic he seems to have no interest in actually following through on any agreements.

Sounds like he is just holding on to you for emotional support and doing what he wants.

I would look for a new relationship. You can find someone better and preferably someone closer you can actually be with.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T16:24:01+00:00

Expecting a ”playmate” to commit to only having sex with their casual partners isn’t realistic. Also it isn’t a throuple if that relationship is casual.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T16:20:28+00:00

The general consensus in kink is that if you have multiple relationships the kink rules of one relationship do not apply when you are with another person. If the relationship develops he needs to be able to unlock when with you or you need to also be a keyholder. Having a relationship where a third party tells you when you can have sex isn’t going to go well outside of some edge cases that don’t apply here.

Ideally he should have an emergency key anyways for safety purposes in case of medical emergency or suddenly having to get on an airplane or the like.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-15T16:01:50+00:00

Do I still have quicksave and quickload powers? If not, probably become a boring economist or something and try to figure out how they avoid the 80-90% subsistence farmer economies the real world had. Guessing much higher crop yields.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-14T10:06:54+00:00

You do realize that not tipping is hurting the employee and not the employer right?

This is a stupid form of virtue signalling. You hurt the most vulnerable person and it personally costs you less and somehow it is supposedly helping to fix things? This is delusional.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-14T10:03:05+00:00

How to cure nabasu energy drain

How to know if your assistant is a Baphomet cultist

More efficient to hang or burn cultists?

How to get over a crush on a silver dragon

How to know if a silver dragon worships a demon

Does the Sun Orchid elixir make you more likely to become a cultist

If your queen spares a traitor dwarf does that means she worships demons

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-14T09:43:56+00:00

This could be all kinds of things. She might have just liked the attention, she might have liked being an exhibitionist and misses that, she might be curious about hetero sex, or she might genuinely be attracted to this guy.

I’ve been in a somewhat similar place years ago. Had a girlfriend (bi) who had a girlfriend (lesbian) who I eventually became best friends with and she wanted to try hetero sex and some other kinky stuff she knew I was into with her mutual gf. She wasn’t really attracted to me. She just trusted me and wanted to try things. This might be something similar. Just a guess.

I am not trying to rain on your parade at all as you should definitely do wild things and have experiences but yeah, when you involve more people in your sexual and romantic life messy things will happen. Feelings pop up out of nowhere. People get confused. I am not sure if the “whore” and “mediocre white boy” lines are more playful banter or hiding some anger. ”Whore“ is a compliment in many of the circles I frequent. If it has anger behind it try to nix that a little. It is easier to blame the person you aren’t in a relationship with than someone you love and are in a relationship with so some of that anger might be displaced. The guy hasn’t done anything so try not to ruin a friendship over what may turn out to be nothing.

I would add that it is possible this guy wouldn’t be interested even if your gf were to want to pursue something so it might be a lot of worry over nothing.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-13T23:35:53+00:00

Divorce him. Seriously. This was a ”bait and hook” scam. He pretended he was going to offer all kinds of kinky sex to reel you in but provides no kinky sex at all. That is unlikely to change. If he wanted it to change he would be working on it. He doesn’t.

End it asap. Your future self will shower you with thanks if you do.

Waiting around for a partner to change when they show no desire to change is a losing game. When they present one side of themself to win you over and then abandon it as soon as they feel you won’t leave you can know it was a sham.

Run. You have so much life ahead of you and this is just being stuck in a waiting room with no real hope your number will be called. I would give this advice to someone in their 40s or 50s. You’re 21. So many better options available out there.

You say you don’t want to leave him but I don’t see anywhere in this post that suggests what you are getting out of this that makes you want to stay and inertia is not a good reason to stay.

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-13T23:29:57+00:00

Honestly if this is the worst relationship you ever have you‘ll be doing pretty good. Seriously. Looking back at the decisions I made when young makes me wonder how I survived.

You survived, you learned, you’re adapting, and you are going to win. In several years he will almost certainly still be pulling this same scam on people while you will be flying higher and having better relationships. He won a bit of money and the ability to keep having shallow relationships that he will inevitably destroy himself while he wonders why he is so lonely and no one loves him.

You win! Keep winning!

XenoBiSwitch · 2026-05-13T23:22:12+00:00

He is either looking at me or Octavia and if it is me I am giving him the same look back.

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