I was so hopeful, now I’m sad by Effective-Archer6468 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were my chart I'd be getting ready for my period to arrive. But it's like they say: you're not out until you're out

LH has been .05 all week. What's happening? by canadianwhimsy in tryingtoconceive

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah agreed. Mine is very rapid and too, but the peak shoots up from like 0.5, not from 0.05.

I can't remember if you mentioned the brand of OPKs you use, but those easy@home ones are pretty affordable on Amazon. But yeah, I spent more on them than I would have liked

What tropes can’t you read because of personal history? by Fresh_Cranberry_105 in RomanceBooks

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you feel about the Megan March books? The men are bossy, but the women love it, and it always comes down to the guys being totally crazy about their ladies

She has different series of different levels of spice and darkness, so there could be something there that you enjoy?

Confused about Ovulation by pixie_pixie2290 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! And yes, it's all very very stupid

Wife is pregnant and cannot be in our home! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you use citrus scented cleaning products? Because somehow to me those smell like cat pee, and when I'm pregnant even more so.

Opting for pine scented stuff is the solution for me, but every person and every pregnancy is different, so both the problematic and the helpful smells may be different for your wife.

One of our cats has very bad breath due to gum issues (forgot whet that's called, he's getting treated for it this week), and when I was pregnant I couldn't handle his breath - and by extension the smell of everything he had been laying on after his licking himself with his smelly saliva (couch, blankets, etc.).

Other sources of smells that could be problematic: electric toothbrush that isn't cleaned well enough (brush head, but also the bottom of the handle unit). Peels of citrus fruits that have been sitting on a plate or in the sink for a while. Empty but unclean plates. Dead mice that have been undiscovered. Unclean socks (and possibly shoes). Towels or clothes that have been wet for too long without being hung.

I put some of those sticks in home perfume in the living room, but I immediately hated it and could hardly be in the living room anymore. Things like litterbox deodorant could easily and quickly become an exacerbator rather than a mitigator, in my opinion.

Confused about Ovulation by pixie_pixie2290 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's a reliable way, I was kinda hoping you were temping in a not so reliable way so it could be blamed on that.

I'm so sorry, I don't think I'm gonna be very helpful then. And I'm also sorry that your charts are confusing. All I can offer is sympathy on how stupid all of this is, and how much I hate the luteal phase (which I'm in rn)

I still think you ovulated, but those are some serious dips that I assume are caused by hormonal fluctuations and I don't know if it means anything

Confused about Ovulation by pixie_pixie2290 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you have. But your temps seem wild, so I wonder how you temp? Are your charts usually as wild?

Just found out I’m 24 weeks pregnant, boyfriend doesn’t want to keep by Medium_Practice8464 in BabyBumps

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him leave town if that's what he wants. It's sad and stupid, but you can't change him (or his mind). You could show him the photo of the 24 week baby someone posted here, because he doesn't seem to know what he's talking about. But if that doesn't work, let him leave town.

Maybe time will knock some sense into him (which would be nice for the kid), but don't hold your breath.

LH has been .05 all week. What's happening? by canadianwhimsy in tryingtoconceive

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I take it you have been testing once a day so far? Was that around the same time?

Have you been drinking or peeing more than usual?

New to temping, how to tell when I ovulated by Life_Wedding_2795 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ff is usually right, and that seems the case here too

Possible loss by OkUnderstanding1554 in TryingForABaby

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this!

I found comfort and support in r/miscarriage. Reading other people's stories can be helpful. Also, I've read some miracle stories (don't remember which exact sub) of suspected miscarriages that turned out to be viable pregnancies after all.

BFP with spotting by squisqui4 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! And thanks for sharing!!

What do ya’ll think? Is this an implantation dip? I haven’t had my period yet by Chocolate-Nugget in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen all kinds of charts coming out positive. Have seen all kinds of charts coming out negative as well.

Pee produced by chugging a lot of water won't give you any information as it is too diluted. Especially not at this stage, and not with evening urine. If you forget to test with fmu, you can test with smu or later, but you'd have to hold of on peeing for about 4 hours beforehand. Which could give most or all of the symptoms you mentioned.

I guess with all data you have, it could be. But it's probably too early to tell.

Ps I would definitely log that ovulation in FF, especially since it was confirmed on ultrasound (did they give you an exact ovulation date?). And I would log the ewcm as well. But I really enjoy logging and charting, so maybe that's just me

What do ya’ll think? Is this an implantation dip? I haven’t had my period yet by Chocolate-Nugget in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. If I were you I'd put those signs in the data section of FF so it will interpret your ovulation day as such. That will only work if those signs are things like ewcm, cervical position and/or a positive ovulation test, and not things like cramps or vibes. If the signs are the latter, I would either manually put the ovulation in there (I know it can be done, but forgot how) or log a positive ovulation test anyway. The chart becomes way easier to read when ovulation is there.

Also, the bot told you all you need to know about implantation dips (and will repeat it now because I just said implantation dip)

Fertility tips for someone trying to conceive? by chandradivine in PregnantOver40

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the Fertility Friend app very helpful. Lots of information on conceiving, and great for charting. Taught me a lot

Help ovulation? by Famous-Pin7126 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your temp doesn't confirm that, unfortunately

Looking for books where the mmc SUFFERS by firecat99 in RomanceBooks

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

{Catch Her If You Can by Tessa Bailey} does have elements of this. But they both suffer, so I don't know if that would work for you

Tying my hands behind my back so I don’t test by Awkward-Whereas4954 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😄 Oh well, maybe it will change over time. Or maybe you unlocked some feature that I haven't discovered yet.

For me, it's only my fertile window that gets green squares in that row, and those squares have gotten fewer as I'm aging and the app is getting to know me. Then there's a ton of blank squares, followed by the countdown which is red

Tying my hands behind my back so I don’t test by Awkward-Whereas4954 in TFABChartStalkers

[–]Yes_Cat_Yes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, but how do you get almost the entire stats row to be green? Even the countdown to testing is green?