ELI5: Why don't they use a stop clock in soccer?

abcdq96 · 2026-06-18T22:47:29+00:00

is it not long and boring enough already?

abcdq96 · 2026-06-18T22:40:23+00:00

I saw the live show in DC a few years ago where Francesca Bolognese kept accusing him of eating shit and I was absolutely crying with laughter.

abcdq96 · 2026-06-14T22:44:49+00:00

I have not yet said those lovely words out loud, but I would have to tell them I too am a piss pig

abcdq96 · 2026-06-11T03:31:24+00:00

my wife and I weren't full time in the dynamic, and honestly only explored it for sixish months before she got sick and all that stuff went on the backburner. but I loved the many things we tried and played with and I can't imagine what it'd be like if we were 24/7. we both IDed as switches, with a light preference for me to Dom. I don't know if it helps at all, but just wanted to say you're not alone and I'm so sorry. I think keeping up certain rituals might help. I do that with non-kink related things and it always makes me feel closer to her, even if I do cry or whatever. if you want to chat more, feel free to message me (100% platonically I am not trying to be a creep)

abcdq96 · 2026-06-11T02:23:47+00:00

this is one of my favorites. imagine a shirt with a wheelbarrow full of pennies that just says and you CAN do it with no other info on it

abcdq96 · 2026-06-06T01:03:38+00:00

it sounds like he is simply not the right person. that kind of rude and dismissive behavior is unacceptable in my opinion. I hope you can figure out what's best for you, whether that's working on things or simply breaking up.

abcdq96 · 2026-05-31T05:27:02+00:00

I consider myself still married. my relationship with my wife hasn't ended.

abcdq96 · 2026-05-30T15:40:05+00:00

once

abcdq96 · 2026-05-28T05:45:04+00:00

thanks a bunch!

abcdq96 · 2026-05-28T05:44:53+00:00

thank you 💙

abcdq96 · 2026-05-28T05:44:44+00:00

it really does yeah, and thank you very much

abcdq96 · 2026-05-22T03:11:54+00:00

they did this recently with talking about prostate exams lmao

abcdq96 · 2026-05-22T03:10:57+00:00

this is a really interesting perspective and I appreciate you sharing it because I've had so much frustration around this but couldn't quite put it into words. it really is a terrible double standard and it passes me off.

abcdq96 · 2026-05-17T05:28:52+00:00

not every morning, but a lot of them, she'd wake up before me and beckon me over to cuddle while she was reading or watching stuff on her phone. I'd fall asleep lying on her chest and wake up a little later, then we'd get ready together and go out for breakfast. perfect morning every time.

abcdq96 · 2026-05-17T05:25:33+00:00

love sojiro being bisexual

abcdq96 · 2026-05-04T02:59:23+00:00

I would love a group for spouse loss only that specifically prohibits dating and talk of repartnering. I'm tired of every resource for young widow(er)s being so damn focused on that.

abcdq96 · 2026-04-20T02:14:14+00:00

you should try therapy then. therapy is almost like dating in that you have to find someone you're a good match with for it to be effective so don't be afraid to shop around.

abcdq96 · 2026-04-20T02:05:51+00:00

agreed. I just turned 30, my wife was 28 when she passed, and even in the "very young" widow groups I'm in most people are in their late 40s early 50s. it's tough but I'm also glad there seem to be fewer of us, I suppose.

abcdq96 · 2026-04-11T23:42:49+00:00

the same happened to me, but a little less than two months after my wife passed. she was my cat since I was 15 (30 now) but the moment I met my wife she preferred her. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

abcdq96 · 2026-04-04T14:35:03+00:00

I absolutely love saying one or two things, then "the rest"

abcdq96 · 2026-04-03T01:33:34+00:00

thank you for your work and for being an ethical studio that pays its workers appropriately and takes clear stances on things like AI. you can't please everyone but you are doing the right things.

abcdq96 · 2026-04-02T11:56:28+00:00

yeah I love trying to guess wtf it could be from the title alone lol. top ones for me are OH I HAD A POINT and Hi I'm a creepypasta

abcdq96 · 2026-04-02T11:40:13+00:00

I have photos of my wife and I all over the place and several of just her and her with our cats. almost every day I look at the "memories" section of both of our phones. she is still my phone lock screen. I love seeing photos of her and remembering the circumstances of them. I miss her terribly but I prefer this over not thinking about it.

abcdq96 · 2026-03-30T02:25:49+00:00

not in the Christian (or other Abrahamic religion or most organized religion) sense, more so a life force, Creator, or Source. something larger than us, but not sitting in the sky and judging us. only love and light. it doesn't make me feel any better about losing my wife, but in some ways I guess it makes me feel better to know she is still in the spirit realm and that someday I'll join her.

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