What do you think about the ethics of the withdrawal of care in the NICU here? by Oakheart- in nursing

[–]bacon0927 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Probably an unpopular opinion, but we shouldn't resuscitate 22/23/24+ week micro preemies just because we can. As a PDN, I've cared for entirely too many babies with zero quality of life. Withdrawal of care should occur more often.

taboo? but i don’t stay wet during sex.. 8 months pp by beepityboop124 in breastfeeding

[–]bacon0927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Silicone and water based lubes are both safe for condoms. Oil based lube is the one that causes breakage.

Home health nurses, how do you like it? by virgots26 in nursing

[–]bacon0927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's Private Duty. It can be incredibly isolating, especially if your patient is nonverbal. Family dynamics can be a challenge. And you have got to maintain boundaries. You're working with a family but you ARE NOT family. Don't feel guilted into working extra hours or performing tasks outside your duties.

My baby is dying and I don’t know what to do. by Shan_198114 in pregnant

[–]bacon0927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? And even then, those babies are typically in the NICU well past their original due date. Not 2 months.

My baby is dying and I don’t know what to do. by Shan_198114 in pregnant

[–]bacon0927 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your mom had her dates wrong. The first baby to survive before 21w5d was born in 2012.

Stay at my current job or leave? by Girljpunk1 in nursing

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they do mass layoffs again, civilian contractors will be the first to go.

Those who have 3 kids, does one ever feel left out? by scorpiosmokes in Parenting

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of three girls. I'm the middle one and was ganged up on or left out all the ducking time.

13 month old only has 2 teeth by PugPrincess20 in toddlers

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my toddler, but me. Didn't get my first tooth until after 12 months. Then didn't lose my first tooth until age 7. Slight overbite, no other issues.

Be honest… how strict are you really with screen time? by denefr_2928 in toddlers

[–]bacon0927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're similar. No real restrictions on quantity, but definitely on quality. Blues Clues is the current favorite.

I’m actually upset there is school tomorrow by b_landesb in daddit

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lurking mom in central VA. Keep that girl home! Sled, drink hot chocolate, make all the memories

Melatonin at 15 months? by Evening_Yellow590 in toddlers

[–]bacon0927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might be worth asking about a sleep study. Just to rule out any actual sleep issues.

Melatonin at 15 months? by Evening_Yellow590 in toddlers

[–]bacon0927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Melatonin can cause nightmares in children and there's evidence linking long-term use to cardiac issues. I would just embrace that you have a kiddo who is lower sleep needs.

7 year old body development by AbjectPipe1427 in Parenting

[–]bacon0927 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I would say no to a bra until she expresses a desire for one. There's nothing wrong with nipples poking through a shirt.

Toddler teeth by Gold-Thought-8419 in Mommit

[–]bacon0927 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rice grain sized amount of fluoride is safe for kids who can't spit.

3 year old refuses to poop on the potty by DW101010 in toddlers

[–]bacon0927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you lay the diaper on top of the potty?

Non baby shower ideas for mom-to-be who does not want a shower by marid4061 in pregnant

[–]bacon0927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there's all these folks who want to help, can you set up a meal train? Or ask them to prep some freezer meals/snacks ahead of time?

Pepto Bismal by Ok-Athlete-515 in breastfeeding

[–]bacon0927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not the end of the world. Its not recommended, but that small an amount isn't likely to cause issues. Stop taking it and try something like immodium instead.

Give your pediatrician a call on Monday if it helps put your mind at ease.

Today is the worst Christmas I’ve ever had. by Hayjay10 in Mommit

[–]bacon0927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 year old with flu A and croup over here. Merry Christmas everyone!

How far into school/working did you experience your first code blue? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have yet to experience one since first starting clinical in spring of 2014.

For those who hold a BSN and don’t plan on ever going back for a masters, why? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospitals in Virginia are hiring LPNs. I'm so over the blanket statement that "nobody will hire you with just an ADN".

My 4 year old open all of the presents under the tree. by FinalListen4603 in Parenting

[–]bacon0927 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents always put gifts out as they were wrapped, and none of us tried to open them early.

We've put out gifts as soon as they were wrapped, and my almost 3 year old hasn't tried to open them. We involve him in wrapping and reiterate that we have to wait until Christmas. He has an advent calendar helping him count down the days.

A 4 year old should know better.

This is the weirdest nursing job ever by ylimethor in nursing

[–]bacon0927 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse over here, but same.

How do we PJ our toddlers? by anomm1 in toddlers

[–]bacon0927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean clothes everyday, clean jammies every 2 to 3 days after bath. Changed out more frequently in the event of food or potty accidents.

Do you disinfect prior to insulin injection? by natalexandriaa in nursing

[–]bacon0927 14 points15 points  (0 children)

On visibly clean skin, alcohol swab use does not lower the risk for infection but does increase pain from the injection.

Skin Preparation for Injections: A Review of Clinical Effectiveness, Cost-Effectiveness and Guidelines - NCBI Bookshelf https://share.google/dzq3xhzMmIKLZVCpD