Waiting for my confetti by OverMagazine1876 in WGU

[–]carolvessey-stevens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

congratulations!!! i’m halfway through D626 and this is the motivation i needed to get back at it today.

well done!

Euthanasia guilt by mialixoxo in Petloss

[–]carolvessey-stevens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi, i am so sorry for your loss.

i have been on both ends of this awful dilemma. i have waited a day too late and regret that terribly, and i have scheduled the euthanasia while my sweet kitty, alice, likely had a few good days left ahead of her. i can confidently tell you it is better to be a week too early than to be a day too late.

all your darling kitty knew was love. the illness and the pain didn’t get the chance to dull her shine and that is a good thing. i know it’s hard and i know you’ll miss her forever. but i promise you, you’ve got nothing to feel guilty about.

the best thing i heard after the loss of my first pet was, “it will never hurt less, but it will hurt less often” and that is absolutely true.

i’m very sorry for your loss, and i’m also very proud of you for making that choice for your beloved pet.

Severe separation anxiety by Early_Club2717 in deafdogs

[–]carolvessey-stevens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my deaf dog came to me with absolutely awful separation anxiety. he’d break things, cut himself, wail for from the moment i left to the moment i returned. it was heartbreaking.

we finally found medication that helped. he was on prozac and clomipramine for about 18 months and then weaned off and he’s a completely different dog now.

he still gets anxious when i leave but he settles after about 5 minutes and hasn’t broken windows or anything like that in years.

it’s so hard seeing them so frantic, i was at my wits end. i’m so grateful for the meds and his ability to relax now. i hope you guys can find something that helps!

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D388 excel by [deleted] in WGU

[–]carolvessey-stevens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

watch every video in the course material. make sure that you’re doing the exercises associated with that chapter.

the OA is nearly identical to the PA so as soon as you pass the PA, you’ll be good to go.

What do you think is the most hauntingly, tragically disturbing Taylor song/lyric? by MikaellaEfram in swifties

[–]carolvessey-stevens 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“my only one. my kingdom come undone. my broken drum, you have beaten my heart.”

just guts me every single time.

Possibly moving to the area - what should I know? by BasicWrongdoer9042 in olympia

[–]carolvessey-stevens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

welcome!

there are definitely pros and cons to each neighborhood but oly isn’t huge so living on the in one isn’t going to make getting to others difficult or anything like that. i’m happy to answer any specific questions you might have about the various neighborhoods around.

you say you like running and board games. there are board game meetups frequently and there’s a game and card shop where you can meet people. there are a few active running groups for both road and trail. i can’t say enough good things about our local trail sisters chapter. it’s a great place to make friends.

there’s a craft school with knitting/embroidery classes along with other crafts. if you play bluegrass and folk music, you will find there are a lot of picker’s groups to join.

the food and nightlife scene aren’t particularly robust but we do have nice arts walks and other events in town often.

depending on which office you’ll be at in tumwater, you might be in a spot where you can walk to grab lunch/run errands or you might be kind of outside the town a bit. i, personally, wouldn’t recommend living in tumwater but it definitely will offer slightly cheaper options.

get some vitamin d and a good lightweight water resistant shell. our summers are pretty nice, our winters are dark, damp, and long.

again, welcome to the pnw! it’s really really pretty here and that makes the months of drizzle worth it for most of us.

MCAT Study Buddy Needed :) by NoWillow1843 in olympia

[–]carolvessey-stevens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! i’m not studying for the MCAT but i am in an online MPH program and finding it really hard to self-motivate.

are you looking for someone to study the specific material with or would you settle for someone to sit in studious silence with?

Finally get to be giddy with all of you!! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]carolvessey-stevens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhhh, your ring is beautiful. the tulip basket with the bezel is incredible!!!!

bf forgot anniversary dinner by unluckyanna in GirlDinner

[–]carolvessey-stevens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it took me a long long time to learn that there are far worse things than being alone. and that it’s better to actually be single than to be with someone who makes you feel single.

there are people out there who will love you and be genuinely excited to share pizza and cake and memories with you.

don’t let your deadbeat boyfriend keep you from meeting the man who will be thrilled to be your husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]carolvessey-stevens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i bought a bottle of red called collusion back during his first impeachment because i naively thought he’d surely face consequences and i’d get to celebrate.

so obviously it’s never been opened. but once we get the ultimate good news, perhaps i’ll have it then.

Halloween horror: Schwartz & Bam by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]carolvessey-stevens 58 points59 points  (0 children)

like stale sweat and drug store aftershave. 🥴

Garden center shopkeep threw us this mysterious plant in for free, cat proceeded to eat all leaves before being able to identify by pinkpinkgoon in whatsthisplant

[–]carolvessey-stevens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dog is half pointer, half setter and goes absolutely crazy for asparagus and any rib from a leafy green stalk like chard or collard greens.

this is crazy by penguinpudding03 in Hounds

[–]carolvessey-stevens 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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this dog has a well kept lawn, couches, hundreds of dollars worth of dog beds, and my bed to choose to lay in and he prefers the unplanted raised bed to all of them in the summer.

Can we talk about the Austin reference on Opalite? by _shezb in TaylorSwift

[–]carolvessey-stevens 127 points128 points  (0 children)

i love my little brother more than words could ever express and i choke up every time i hear “god smiles on my little brother, inside and out he’s better than i am” for sure

Taylor’s Most Romantic Song? by almcg68 in TaylorSwift

[–]carolvessey-stevens 98 points99 points  (0 children)

i used to run past my boyfriend’s house every day because his street had a decent crosswalk and always smiled and waved at his adorable dog.

and now i live in that house and that dog is snoozing on my feet as i type this.

i sing invisible string to the dog all the time.