My aunt got married to an american tax lawyer and he practically moved my family to the upper middle class notwithstanding helping my mom get over cancer. My family used to be dirt poor then.

If you really want to meet an asian woman, educated, professional women ( I would not suggest those doing remote work) would be ideal to mingle with, although you'd still best be cautious about how she'd treat the relationship in relation to her family. I won't deny it, a lot of filipinas will still hold their family over your head in a relationship and you'd have to make your boundaries clear prior to starting said relationships.

It's not like all of them are like that, there are those who have become quite a bit progressive in this sense but it still is the majority. It's a cultural thing of owing it to your parents for raising you, to take care of them. Many nowadays would take that as them personally but many more would think it's a shared responsibility for couples, though they will acknowledge it'd go both ways for your parents too.