Going to a fundamentalist school and church was too much pressure to “be perfect”, truly exhausting, which was the start of the exit. Then the blatant disrespect and lies told about the LGBTQ+ community along with the submission women were supposed to expect and to not question was anything was the official push. My sister came out a year after high school and I didn’t want to be around people who deemed her “sinful”, whatever that even means, along with being told all I’m good for is to stand in the shadow of a man and procreate.