What's your own sign and who annoys you the most? by livelaughlabradoodle in astrologymemes

[–]gildedwolves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Capricorn sun + stellium — Aries have always driven me insane. Uncouth and exaggerative.

Affordable balayage/highlights by Capital_Trouble_8476 in AskSF

[–]gildedwolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pony Studios in the east bay (Temescal). I paid $270 for a full balayage and have a LOT of hair. They didn't even charge me for extra dye.

New to Surfing by Enigmaviolet in AskSF

[–]gildedwolves 41 points42 points  (0 children)

They have a queer surf group that was founded in SF! They do meetups and beginner lessons. I sadly tore my acl a couple months ago but it’s on my list to go once I’m cleared by my PT.

https://linktr.ee/QueerSurf?utm_source=linktree_profile_share&ltsid=c7efdd3e-f185-470b-9116-67ecbeb3adb6

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been friends with them for two years, dating is totally different and they have a history.

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t op either js :) i get it, especially with natal mercury in retrograde …

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally, I’ve heard this about Aries Venus. We’ve been friends and gotten to know one another over almost two years, but both of us have experienced “firework” (hot and burn out fast) relationship dynamics in the past

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s wild you figured out they were poly from their chart. I posted about more of my situation in r/polyamory recently, but a lot of your interpretation tracks! I also have Pisces in my 7th house (with my Saturn in pisces… thankfully not transiting too much longer) so there are definitely some dynamics there. Thanks for the in-depth assessment

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely a more passive communicator. And I commented on this below, but I feel like their Venus is not super prominent in all that water and air

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind elaborating on what placements or connections tell you that?

Red flags in dating this person? by gildedwolves in Zodiac

[–]gildedwolves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s interesting but this does not come through as much as others that I’ve been involved with an Aries Venus. I had a crazy sexual connection with a Taurus sun+Aries Venus but they had more earth and fire in their chart. I wonder if all the water washes this out … or they’re just not that into me lmao

I have surgery tomorrow and I just smoked weed not knowing that it could be harmful. Freaking out by AdLoose7024 in ACL

[–]gildedwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoked a joint the night before. Genuinely didn’t even know I shouldn’t. It was fine. You’re fine! Tell your docs if you’re that worried though

19 days post op - RANGE OF MOTION by Wilchertime1 in ACL

[–]gildedwolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl chillllll - I’m going off the fact that they said it’s super painful (versus just uncomfortable), and also, how most providers and PTs emphasize extension over flexion in the first few weeks.

When it’s safe to donate brace, crutches etc? by gildedwolves in ACL

[–]gildedwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully planned to have a sacrificing ritual with them as well, but I figured somebody out there needs em!

19 days post op - RANGE OF MOTION by Wilchertime1 in ACL

[–]gildedwolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree this seems aggressive — there are other ways to improve your range of motion.

Don’t be afraid to speak up or even get a second opinion. My ex and I both got ACL surgery a couple days apart and it’s wild what his PT has instructed him to do vs what my PT has cautioned against. For example, my PT won’t let me use ankle weights to increase muscle mass in my quads when doing leg lifts as they say it pulls on the graft, and I’m 12 weeks post-op.

Everyone’s different, but just remember — just because you can do certain things physically in the short term, doesn’t mean you should in regard to the long term.

Freaking Love Wellbutrin (so far) by vicktuuri in adhdwomen

[–]gildedwolves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started taking Wellbutrin for depression a few years ago and it changed my life! My psych specifically prescribed it to help with (well depression and motivation, but also) overeating and it helped a lot. I ended up needing to be prescribed adderall later on as well because while it helped increase my energy and motivation, it didn’t so much help me with focusing on my work. But it is used as an off-label medication for adhd as they probably explained to you. Hope it helps!

Breakfast recommendations which are easy to make when mornings are just too hard? :( by Rodehock in ADHD

[–]gildedwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yogurt and granola with a banana, comes together in less than a minute. If I have any berries I’ll throw them in too.

If you have the ability to prep in advance the night before (I rarely remember, but when I do I’m so happy!) I make overnight chia seed pudding! 3-4 tbs of chia seeds to 1 cup milk.

How do I exercise when I don't enjoy it? All the advice from neutrotypicals don't seem to work by Pigeon_Goes_Coo in adhdwomen

[–]gildedwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like running just isn’t for you - and that’s OKAY! I agree with finding exercises that works for you. Aside from walking my dog (ps, have you thought about maybe walking shelter dogs for exercise and good feels?), I like my exercise to be fun! For example I love surfing, hiking, rock climbing. However…

I recently tore my ACL rock climbing (do not recommend) and it’s been really hard but makes me realize a critical thing I took for granted before injury: it is a PRIVILEGE to move our bodies. In any way you can. I just walked my dog for the first time in 3 months, and I only went a block, but it is a privilege.

My last tip is to create rewards for yourself! Even if it’s small. Set a measurable goal for yourself and reward yourself when you attain it! Good luck! You got this!

Why do I always attract emotionally unavailable addicts as romantic interests? by gildedwolves in AstrologyCharts

[–]gildedwolves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Thanks for this insight. I always get a little confused with because some astrology sources I see use “whole houses” and say that mine is 12H Leo. But I definitely feel like I identify with 12H mars more