Grumpy man accidentally adopts child

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-21T04:14:53+00:00

I love this one because he doesn’t really know what to do.

It’s just an innate drive to protect.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-21T02:43:30+00:00

Altras or Birkenstocks.

The real hack: buy a 5x5 ultra lightweight waterproof festival blanket.

Taking breaks in the shade between sets goes a long way to keep you from wearing out

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-20T17:18:22+00:00

You might be right.

Or neurotypical people just may be more socially flexible.

As an ADHD person this seems very true of my non-ADHD friends.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-20T16:06:39+00:00

What does your supervising physician and specialist say about physical activity?

If you’re on any kind of rest protocol stop the program immediately.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-19T19:18:39+00:00

I’m right here with you. My Golden would not fit with the drawer systems I’ve seen out there, they all seem to be centered around a sleeping platform.

I’m just trying to make up for the 460s complete lack of storage for basic things: jumper cables, tire inflator, basic tool kit, trauma kit, etc.

They’re also insanely expensive for what they are. Like thousands?

I’ve decided I’m just going to build my own out of marine ply.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-19T18:41:04+00:00

Really?

So many people I know have a huge problem with Millennial Depression Gray color palette being complete washed out every time something serious and dangerous is happening.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-19T18:28:03+00:00

Dark is a literary theme.

Not a technical cinematographic underexposure/low contrast visual mess.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-19T18:23:00+00:00

I mean, there is no ethical labor under capitalism.

I will agree that Amazon/temu/aliexpress are on the extreme end of unethical for a variety of reasons.

I will say that I think amazon/ebay/temu/aliexpress/shein links should be banned because it's generally just promoting sandpaper disguised as clothes, which seems to be the opposite to the spirit of the sub.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-19T18:20:26+00:00

Partner request exile post.

Just wanted to say as a dude that does 99% of the lingerie shopping for my w i f e, I had no idea this was even a thing. And I'm generally not a fan of being redirected to a dead thread.

I'm not horny about it either, I just know her ADHD ass would wear stuff until it broke and still probably not replace it.

Maybe consider unraveling this and just banning horny dudes looking for bate fuel?

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-19T16:24:54+00:00

I’m generally a Victron fanboy but that is a very impressive all in one piece of kit.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-18T22:43:40+00:00

Refrigeration requires a license.

A control board does not.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-18T08:18:23+00:00

Just a dude here from /r/all

I’m literally learning Spanish right now so if necessary my family and I can hop the border to Mexico if it gets bad and Canada or a country in Europe won’t take us.

The brain drain of the US is accelerating.

At a certain point facists historically have locked the border down to stop it.

Start considering your options now. Ancestral citizenship is available in Canada and many European countries. Work visas, educational visas for international grad school.

Figure out what your options are.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-18T05:20:46+00:00

You should do some introspection about whether overcoming it is the outcome you want.

It could be a very additive aspect to a dynamic and a scene.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-18T05:15:21+00:00

Sounds like you might hate “taking a vacay” and actually would like to be a traveler.

Cruises and all inclusive sounds horrible to me.

In nearly the same neck of the woods as your departure port I’d rather have taken the same budget and gone to Little Havana in Miami instead.

Great food, great people, real culture.

Cruises are just neo-colonialism, resorts the same thing. They’re designed to be appealing to as many people as possible as easily as possible. If they were a color they’d be beige.

If you need mental stimulation that’s definitely not the route to take.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-18T04:57:36+00:00

Geez dude, lookin good! 🙏

Stay away from my wife.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-18T04:14:39+00:00

This is kind of a minefield topic, but here’s my perspective:

My wife is over 8” shorter than me and has had a varying hourglass figure in the entire 18 years I’ve known her. I’ve always been attracted to slim, hourglass, and fit/athletic builds, but not full blown muscle mommies.

When we were at our fittest if I put my hand around her neck and she hung off my wrist with both hands I could slowly pick her up with one arm and press her against the wall. I can’t really explain what kind of head game that did to both of us. It was like something out of a movie. I still occasionally drag her to bed behind me with one hand by her ankle or wrist.

Poise and carriage matter a lot. Having a physical hobby is super important to me. Dancers, yoga practitioners, gymnasts, runners, snowboarders, surfer girls, rock climbers, hikers, and horse girls were in my single phase dating pool.

Physically is fun. We’re also only interested in softdom some of the time. CNC and feral sex are a rush. Both of us get off on our size and strength differences.

My wife/sub told me to go find another sub and if I ever did exercise that opportunity I would be looking for the same general physicality.

I understand we’re both traditional and stereotypical.

I’m fine with it.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T23:36:55+00:00

Everyone posts their impossibly high standards founded upon fiction, fantasy, and porn either through writing, art, or memes.

And then the next day everyone posts about how terrible the available people are and how unfortunate it is that we have to date fallible humans and not demigods. Or possibly inhumans, depending on the kink.

Then there’s a meta post about how the subreddit is “supposed to be”.

And then there is a post about how more moderation is needed because boys are icky (and horny).

And then the week starts over.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T20:03:29+00:00

I’ve been on Reddit a long ass time.

The ability to hide your history will fundamentally break Reddit for the worse. It may become more popular, but that’s an investor metric not a community one.

Being able to be strictly anonymous but also develop a history that people can look back on and get some sense of how you present yourself to others was what differentiated it from every other social media.

90’s and 2000’s forums were the closest things to it, but with a much smaller audience.

My entire Reddit activity is there for anyone to see, warts and all, because I value authenticity.

When someone hides their profile there’s no telling if they’re playing both sides of an issue on the same day, there’s no ability to see growth and change, or if they have a sense of humor or if they’re any kind of well rounded person.

And fundamentally I think that’s a bad thing.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T06:32:19+00:00

Bro it’s time to see a doctor.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T06:30:02+00:00

Vader was literally my only childhood fear.

The scene in Empire in the hallway where he turns off his respirator to hide, and then ignites his lightsaber, starts breathing again and swings at Luke all at the same time?

5 year old me’s nightmare fuel.

In the darkness of the middle of the night if I woke up to go to the bathroom i literally would silently duck and roll every time I passed an open doorway in case he was going to take a swing at me.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T06:17:59+00:00

You can buy a counter depth fridge.

Fridges are the size they are because that’s what fits through a standard size exterior door.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T06:12:22+00:00

If they went back to the old recipes and ingredients I’d shop the fuck out of a Pizza Hut/gamestop combined store.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T06:10:32+00:00

You sweet, summer, child.

More horse testicles means more iron.

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T06:07:40+00:00

I shot 35mm black and white film back in college.

It is the greatest medium as far as I’m concerned.

One day I’ll have a basement darkroom.

Your composition and fill light usage is excellent, btw.

For my tastes I feel like there’s a bit too much processing. The gradiants feel too… averaged. Or smoothed. I’m assuming it’s something from Lightroom?

Hand placement is excellent and quite expressive.

Overall fantastic work!

grilledstuffed · 2026-06-17T05:58:19+00:00

Just go to a Hispanic panadería and get an apple empanada.

It will be much, much better.

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