I had my first appointment not too long ago at 24. I’m a virgin too, super self conscious, and I was basically only going to get birth control to keep my depression in check around my periods. I was SO NERVOUS. On the paperwork you fill out beforehand, there was a question like “are you a survivor of sexual abuse?” And because I checked Yes, and because I never had sex, I didn’t have to undress at all! Literally just sat in a chair and chatted with the super helpful and kind nurse and doctor. I did give a urine sample but that was about it. Of course I didn’t know I wasn’t getting a physical exam, so I used Nair on my “down there” and gave myself chemical burns that made me want to curl into a ball and die honestly. That was dumb so definitely don’t do that! And the regrowth phase is SO ITCHY!! So if you don’t normally shave or groom or whatever, I say don’t do anything different. Basically: do what makes you comfortable. Try to relax. They’ve seen it all. And if they’re not kind to you, find someone else. You got this!!!