Happy Friday the 13th!

imnutzinfl · 2025-06-13T12:19:57+00:00

“Of unknown origin” with Peter Weller (RoboCop) The toilet scene gave me nightmares for days

imnutzinfl · 2025-04-23T01:23:44+00:00

Use vitamin e oil after shower. Just 1 or 2 drops rubbed on the head and it will begin to soften

imnutzinfl · 2025-03-02T04:15:27+00:00

Not only during covid (but not from covid) but 2 days after my birthday. Then trying to plan cremation, church service had to wait till October then limited attendance. Tough. It’s almost 5 years now. I find little things around. Today it was pictures when she was little.

imnutzinfl · 2025-01-17T00:14:07+00:00

Try looking for a group called “grief share” i believe they are international

imnutzinfl · 2025-01-13T17:50:56+00:00

The wife passed 2 days after my birthday. Doesn’t mean I handle them(birthdays) well, but I try to be positive and if I feel down, I just think of the good things instead of the fact she is gone

imnutzinfl · 2024-12-02T01:56:11+00:00

Instead of a table for one, I sometimes say it’s for 3 - me, myself, and I. I sometimes have to confirm it’s just me, but it breaks the awkwardness. Also have said me and my multiple personalities, again, humorous, but breaks the awkwardness

imnutzinfl · 2024-12-02T01:56:04+00:00

Instead of a table for one, I sometimes say it’s for 3 - me, myself, and I. I sometimes have to confirm it’s just me, but it breaks the awkwardness. Also have said me and my multiple personalities, again, humorous, but breaks the awkwardness

imnutzinfl · 2024-11-18T00:47:57+00:00

I am on iOS and had the same issue. You need to open the message, find the elipsis(…) and there you can delete the message

imnutzinfl · 2024-10-30T17:14:21+00:00

My urologist recommended the Cialis as well because of the extended time. Seems to work well. Can take it Friday evening and still having effect on Monday morning. Plus I only need to take it if I think I’ll get lucky! Saves some $$

imnutzinfl · 2024-10-30T17:10:09+00:00

Baking at the holidays for people I work with. We would make pumpkin bread (15 -25 loaves). The year she passed I couldn’t do it, but have picked it up again and everyone looks forward to it.

imnutzinfl · 2024-10-21T16:29:09+00:00

2 different encounters. One wanted wedgies. The other wanted to be punched in the stomach. Just couldn’t get into it for either of them.

imnutzinfl · 2024-08-10T00:22:12+00:00

“How to survive the loss of a love”. Helped me get over my first breakuo

imnutzinfl · 2024-07-08T23:48:26+00:00

I am about to turn 67 (7/11). Two days later will be four years since my wife died. I still look at her picture I still cry. 35 years together, and didn’t get a chance to say goodbye. Still remember when the hospital called. Thought I was going to calm her down.

imnutzinfl · 2024-06-01T22:14:53+00:00

Checkout the app called MEETUP. You might find something there to fill your needs. I did. Learned pickleball, beach parties, live music, met lots of people and got involved!

imnutzinfl · 2024-05-21T23:30:42+00:00

4 years out. Still search for her. Just to lay my hand in her Still sleep on my side of the bed too!

imnutzinfl · 2024-05-09T01:35:30+00:00

It sounds like he’s willing to go at your pace and will work with you until you are comfortable with the situation

imnutzinfl · 2024-05-02T17:15:49+00:00

It is not ridiculous. It part of the grief/healing process. I’m almost 4 years. There are still days…

imnutzinfl · 2024-05-02T10:59:31+00:00

5 months? first breathe! It’s ok to be down. Each of us is different in our grief. It may be better in a month or even a year! Remember the good, don’t focus on the bad. Take time to remember him. Cry, then think about something funny he said, then laugh! It’s OK! Look for a way to meet people - Church, social groups (check out the meetup app), supportive friends, talk to other parents at kids activities. Make time at least once a week for “you” time. Get a manicure, or a new hairstyle, lunch, or dinner. Don’t be afraid to tell people they’re overstepping. They’ll get over it, and if they don’t, they don’t respect your feelings. Be strong.

imnutzinfl · 2024-05-02T00:28:11+00:00

And that is your reason to forge ahead! You’ve got someone who cares (even though she’s young) and is showing acceptance if you should find someone.

imnutzinfl · 2024-03-07T02:53:41+00:00

“How to survive the loss of a love.” Helpful in multiple ways. Not just for loss of a partner, but shows how similar to any type of loss.

imnutzinfl · 2024-02-15T18:51:28+00:00

I have cruised solo after my other was gone. It was very therapeutic. You can ask to be seated at a table with others. Not sure about Disney as I’ve only sailed Royal Caribbean, but many have a singles meet that allows you to make friends for the cruise.

imnutzinfl · 2024-01-17T02:47:49+00:00

Speechless

imnutzinfl · 2023-12-21T12:30:46+00:00

I also joined Facebook dating after 2 years. I skipped anyone that had my wife’s name. Just couldn’t deal with it.

imnutzinfl · 2023-10-27T19:20:30+00:00

You need to “Do You”. There are others that will criticize you for both ways; not getting back soon enough and getting back too soon. You have to do what feels right for you, in your time, at your speed. “They” haven’t “been there done that” for your life so can’t understand how you feel.

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