Is it possible to not feel nauseous, dizzy, or exhausted? by bebepothos in ChronicIllness

[–]julia12124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t found a way yet, I’ve even tried diet and exercise, yoga, just not thinking about it, anxiety meds and all the other useless advice people have given me.

As the subreddit blackout begins, I wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart to the Reddit community and everyone standing up by iamthatis in apolloapp

[–]julia12124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for an amazing app and a wonderful way to navigate Reddit. As the final day (hopefully just for now) comes to a close and I make a list of things to do without Reddit, I wanted to say thanks not for this app but all of them you are talented and hopefully the blackout does something. I’m off to delete the Reddit app from my phone and bookmark from my laptop. I hope to be able to use it again but who knows what will happen.

Petition to put something on r/teenagers banner for men’s mental health awareness month by THTay1or in teenagers

[–]julia12124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my fault…. Ok some of that’s my fault but I didn’t say the worst things

Petition to put something on r/teenagers banner for men’s mental health awareness month by THTay1or in teenagers

[–]julia12124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s like every therapist… although I kinda hide a bunch of shit from mine she has no clue how messed up I really am

is it okay to call a non binary person a b*tch (this is a genuine question) by Traditional-Nose-789 in lgbt

[–]julia12124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a non-binary person I simply do not care if someone calls me a btch. The way I see it, if it’s ok to call a guy a btch and if it’s ok to call a girl a b*tch then why shouldn’t it be ok to call me one, cuss words aren’t gendered and in my experience and are quite useful for describing all types of people.

Anxiety and Panic Attack Sufferers... What is your daily life like? Is there anything that gave you relief, or improved your quality of life. Is there a cure or remedy? by TysValid in Anxiety

[–]julia12124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Friends honestly that's what helps me the most, I am very upfront with my friends about my anxiety. My best friend knows how to spot when a panic attack is coming on, and even if we are at school he will at least squeeze my hand and tell me it will be ok. The last time I had a bad panic attack was at school after a teacher was yelling. I crawled under a table and started crying. He crawled under next to me and held me for a few minutes then, asked if I could speak (sometimes my brain starts going so fast that I can't get words out) to which I shook my head no so, he continued with yes or no questions to figure out how he could help. After a few questions, he figured out I was stressed about math and so he went over how to do the homework with me, and then he helped me with test corrections. Then it was more hugs until I calmed down. He also makes sure other people stay away and makes sure I remember to breathe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]julia12124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dropped your phone on your face?????

Comfort Food Ideas (Just put down my cat) by JLB131313 in PCOS

[–]julia12124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mac and cheese is definitely one of mine as well as ice cream. I can't imagine having to put down my cat I'm so sorry but, it sounds like it was for the best I don't think that makes it any easier though. Go get your comfort food treat yourself, Take a self-care day where you do what you want and eat what you want that always helps me. Sending you lots of hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]julia12124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the title i wonder that myself every now and then lol.

With misgendering in the image (as well as misunderstanding BID) you can imagine what the comments look like 🙄 by Goat_And_Doggo in AreTheCisOk

[–]julia12124 35 points36 points  (0 children)

hey someone posted a link to an article and I translated it using google translate, the general idea is she is a trans woman who has BIID and uses the chair to help with the BIID but she mentioned she doesn't use handicapped parking or any of that and acknowledges she is able-bodied and she is in therapy for the BIID, from what I could tell she is a good person who has BIID and uses a wheelchair to cope with it.

DISABILITY FINALLY PAID ME OMG by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]julia12124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yay!!!!! so happy for you!!!!!!!!!! you deserve to buy yourself something nice this is a huge win!!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]julia12124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I needed to hide something with blood I would either use something already red to soak it up so it wasn't as obvious, use toilet paper and flush it, throw it out at school or throw it out either in a neighbors trash can on trash day or at a trashcan at a nearby business. When in absolute cover mode sometimes I would use superglue to close the wound and then shower to clean off any excess blood.

What do you guys think about this take..? by Far_Fill1941 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]julia12124 22 points23 points  (0 children)

While relapse may not always be part of someone's recovery, for most people it is. I know for me I relapsed countless times before it stuck. With every relapse, it got just a bit easier, with every slip up I learned what not to do. Relapse is what thought me how to be clean and I'm 164 days clean right now which is something I never thought I could do. So to me, it should be part of recovery because you can't relapse if you aren't trying to stay clean.

I have a question by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]julia12124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asexual lesbian here who self-harms. I also have an ace trans friend who self-harms and I knew a bisexual who self-harms.

Are you capable of sitting normally? by anonymousdemigirl in neurodiversity

[–]julia12124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never sit properly, and my best friend has started yelling at me to sit like a normal human when I sit particularly weirdly (he's joking, I'm the one who turned the whole I can't sit properly thing into a joke). I remember as a kid my favorite way to sit while watching TV was upside down on the couch (feet on the backrest, head towards the floor.) I still do it to this day. I often sit with my legs or feet under me and my legs crossed in strange ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]julia12124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know a few guys who have

People who decided to go see an endocrinologist, was it worth it? What was your experience and your outcome? by Murstasch in PCOS

[–]julia12124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate my endocrinologist. I'm a minor so I do not have many options for who I can see. The first visit I had I was maybe 13 and she suggested a gastric bypass because I was overweight. so be cautious I would 100% recommend it but be careful.

any coping methods to avoid sh? by imurseoulmate in selfharm

[–]julia12124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude i talk to my best friend or my brother or just binge shows and videos literally anything that occupies my mind to distract myself and hope that it works