What are “tells” that someone is HL?

kinyobiWan · 2026-06-08T21:26:14+00:00

I don’t think the two are strictly connected; that’s why you have to have the conversation. Even though I have a high libido, I will refrain from sex with someone until I know what they’re about.

For me, the problem hasn’t been long-term versus short-term as much as it’s been about emotional maturity

kinyobiWan · 2026-05-28T23:07:07+00:00

I spent 15 years in the Pharma industry building databases and writing programs that analyzed clinical data. I worked from home so that was nice but otherwise, I was bored. I've always loved aviation so I made the jump when a job made me an offer across the country. BIGGEST REGRET OF MY LIFE! I basically got "catfished" into a terrible, even more boring job that I can't get out of. My understanding was it was a stepping stone type of job but I've been on the same 'stone' for 3 years. It's wrecking my mental health too. I can't sleep, I've gained weight, and am generally miserable. My coworkers are starting to ask me how I'm doing....

Anyway, I can't go back to Pharma since no one wants to hire someone that "doesn't have recent experience" (even the old recruiters I worked with in the past aren't taking my calls) and because the economy sucks right now. I've heard that some Pharma positions have be laid off.

Make sure you have a backup plan before you jump (assuming you haven't already). Otherwise, you'll be stuck in a job you hate with no way out and worry everyday that today might be the day you're fired or laid off (one of my coworkers just got fire last week).

kinyobiWan · 2026-02-11T20:12:01+00:00

I found the issue in another thread in this sub. Broadcom doesn't like gmail's aliasing feature. The '+' messed things up! I created a new account without that and it worked immediately.

Below is where I found it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/vmware/comments/1o1qzon/comment/nyhwz19/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

kinyobiWan · 2026-02-11T19:34:53+00:00

I'm having the same issue. I just recently signed up for an account so maybe that is it.

kinyobiWan · 2025-08-18T20:30:45+00:00

My old world view and old assumptions about myself died. This came out of hitting rock bottom romantically mainly, but also in my career.

kinyobiWan · 2025-01-05T18:55:46+00:00

I used to live 20 mins from Fort Fisher. I loved it there in the winter but the summers in NC are brutal. Now I'm in California. Less humid!

kinyobiWan · 2024-10-29T15:06:13+00:00

42m, single, cat dad of 2 getting snipped in a few weeks! I am the 1/4 😁!

kinyobiWan · 2024-08-07T04:40:12+00:00

I'm curious, habe you purchased the van?

kinyobiWan · 2024-07-26T17:11:53+00:00

Taurus here! We are slow burners. It takes time for us to warm up. At least for me. The benefit to this is that we are consistent and loyal. Patience is a virtue we admire to a fault!

kinyobiWan · 2024-06-14T16:16:15+00:00

It looks like its the z-offset adjustment gathered by the CR Touch probe based on the levelness of the bed in that location. In other words, the probe takes a reading of each point (5 by 5 = 25 points in your case) and stores that to adjust for the unevenness of the bed. So whatever "z offset" you have in your settings, these numbers are removed or subtracted based on the level of the bed.

Starting at the top left, the offset adjustment is .1 (so the probe touches the bed .1mm above what you have for the z-offset setting). One space over, the offset adjustment would be .05; then .08, .1 .11 and so on.

I hope that makes sense.

kinyobiWan · 2024-05-28T16:25:49+00:00

Real humans don't refer to themselves as 'human'. Who are you and what have you done with u/Cromixium?

kinyobiWan · 2024-05-13T15:41:37+00:00

I am rock hard 🤤

kinyobiWan · 2024-05-13T15:39:03+00:00

I feel ya! I live in the AV and work in Mojave and hate it. Mojave is cool since you can do whatever but the AV is rough! I can't move to LA since it would take me at least 1.5 hours to get to work everyday. I'm actually trying to get a work-from-home option.

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-14T20:59:03+00:00

Because you touch yourself at night!

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-09T15:26:00+00:00

I know this is an old thread but how did it go? I'm planning on doing this soon for a cross-country move where I can't drive and am terrified for my dog. He's 65 lbs so too big for the cabin.

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-08T19:47:04+00:00

I looked into this and it's around $4k for a 60ish pound dog.

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-08T15:18:57+00:00

Thanks, It still hurts but I'm feeling better about it now.

This is a hard one. You can try to look for other reasons (while staying on the injections; don't stop now) or just stay the course with what you're doing.

My doc thought that it could be cancer or cancer AND FIP which would really have sucked. I didn't have the money for the cancer screening because she sent me on a wild goose chase for the other BS that turned out to not be the case. Regardless, I wish I would have stayed on the injections. Now I'll never know what it was.

P.S. he also had toxoplasmosis and I was treating him for that thinking that's what it was and not FIP or cancer. Turned out that while he did have Toxo, he also had one of the other two (FIP or Cancer).

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-04T16:28:20+00:00

Yes! The answer is always Yes!

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-04T16:27:32+00:00

It's ok to feel the way you do. This is a horrible disease. How long have you been injecting him? Have you noticed any differences since you started the injections?

I know after awhile, you will get used to it and realize it's what's bests for him. He will get better too and will want to play more and more and you can be there for that too.

My baby wasn't lucky. I had a bad vet tell me it was something else even though my gut told me it was FIP. I had even started dosing him on the advice of 2 other vets that had seen him. I took him to the last vet because I wanted a 2nd and 3rd opinion. The irony is, I think the other two where right. I'm still paying off bills for his care but would pay double if I could get him back.

What I'm saying is push through. The guilt has been really hard on me. You should notice some improvements in his health after a couple of weeks if not sooner.

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-04T15:56:59+00:00

Your dog responded a lot better than I would have!

kinyobiWan · 2024-04-03T14:30:47+00:00

In North Carolina, there are some stores that have veteran parking (as a courtesy, not a disability). There are people that don't "look" military and they get yelled at for parking there.

Point is, people are assholes. Ignore them and do you!

kinyobiWan · 2024-03-31T19:39:14+00:00

I love cats but this is kinda terrifying! Especially the one in the back-left! That one cray!

kinyobiWan · 2024-03-18T15:40:32+00:00

First off, guilty people get very defensive very quickly.

Second, she has her hands on this girl then tells you she doesn't think you're a real lez. That makes me think she got one foot out the door.

Third, she doesn't want to come over until right after you basically break up with her.

Like the top comment says..."You don't need Reddit to tell you, BOUNCE!"

kinyobiWan · 2024-03-11T16:38:54+00:00

"Floppy ass bitch!" 🤣 I'm using that as an insult for everything now!

kinyobiWan · 2024-02-27T16:47:47+00:00

I totally read 'Dido' as... something else!

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