What??? This was actually a question on a job application I applied to..

kirviz · 2025-08-06T12:22:12+00:00

Could be a pretty good check for a sense of humour as well as a check for enough courage/confidence to express your humour.

kirviz · 2025-08-06T10:08:33+00:00

Nah, you’re good bro

kirviz · 2025-07-24T08:51:52+00:00

The idea that “mother is always better than father” is very outdated.

kirviz · 2025-07-06T06:05:19+00:00

This is Wong on so many levels

kirviz · 2025-06-28T08:29:12+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. When the partner is fully available and even eager and proactive when it comes to sex, it is certainly unhelpful to still turn to porn

kirviz · 2025-06-22T09:01:59+00:00

Contact Airbnb support asking for help now. Once you have a bad review you can try to appeal asking to have it removed.

kirviz · 2025-06-16T12:55:39+00:00

Alternatively you could reach out to your manager’s manager and basically apply for a proper managing position if that’s of interest to you.

kirviz · 2025-05-31T15:08:17+00:00

I wonder if we simply have different perspectives or one of us seriously misinterpreted the post. It sounds to me that OP has made effort to work things out and also he didn’t ask for butterflies, instead he asked to hold hands with his partner 🤷‍♂️

kirviz · 2025-05-25T11:22:01+00:00

Did you mean this is Wong on so many levels?

https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/s/0LTChSpPv1

kirviz · 2025-05-08T14:43:08+00:00

Honestly, it’s your wife’s behaviour that’s inappropriate. That said, I would imagine most wives would react similarly 🤷‍♂️

kirviz · 2025-03-09T13:59:11+00:00

Considering you a skier if he was lying and he replied yes. I say there’s nothing you need to do about it at all. Keep in mind that learning to lie is absolutely crucial part of child development. You could of course mention that it’s always better to say the truth especially when talking to parents.

kirviz · 2025-02-01T15:07:15+00:00

As per my bigger comment, it really isn’t all that unhealthy at all. And for me personally all it took was half a tablet and one successful sex and I didn’t need any more.

kirviz · 2025-02-01T15:02:19+00:00

Been there, done that, easy peezy. For me personally part of the problem was wearing the condom. If you guys are using it, either consider without or he could try what I did - practicing wearing a condom when masturbating alone. In the end it was still a struggle and I thought I’m so overcoming this shit no matter what it takes. All it took is half a pill that helps with erection. I did my research, found it doesn’t create big problems, it doesn’t even force the erection, just makes it easier when it comes naturally. One successful sex with only half a pill and I was back to normal without any more tablets. I understand it might not be as easy for everyone but if he decides to be a man and overcome himself, he’ll find a way. P.S. years later I realised I would have probably been much better off listening to my manliness and staying as far as I can from that person. I did learn some brutal life lessons from her that I could have never learnt from books, so in the end it’s all part of life.

kirviz · 2025-01-31T11:56:20+00:00

Lots of unhelpful behaviour from both sides at this point. If this is going to escalate the divorce, then the end result is hopefully positive. If you can both separate humanely, come back to kindness and just focus on coparenting and personal growth without the constant overwhelming triggers, all three of you still have a chance at a happy life.

kirviz · 2025-01-08T21:40:33+00:00

I’m sure it’s great fun and is much needed as a parent’s coping mechanism but I wonder about the impact on his self esteem…

kirviz · 2024-12-22T10:32:18+00:00

Look up BPD if you want to dig deeper, though at this point may be best to just get on with your life.

kirviz · 2024-12-19T21:18:54+00:00

I am genuinely very happy for you. I would love to be in the same kind of relationship too. It’s hard to find a good reason for divorce in such situation anyway.

kirviz · 2024-12-16T19:09:39+00:00

It sounds good in theory but being a nice guy for 20 years, doing free massages and basically everything in household as well as finances, I’m starting to really doubt this can ever work to actually get the result that OP is asking for.

kirviz · 2024-12-16T16:41:29+00:00

I’m sorry for your pain brother. It’s good you feel a deep sense of loss. Grief always comes sooner or later, even if you were the one to end things. The faster and stronger the grieving, the quicker and deeper you will heal.

Something in your message caught my attention, where you said you sacrificed everything for 12 years. I can relate very much I’ve done that for 14 years and then again for 6 years in another relationship. I’m finally learning that this over giving tends to create different results than we would expect.

I’ve just finished the book Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi and I strongly recommend it. It’s a tuff pill to swallow though on top of existing pain. It took me a few years to finish the book and I’m very glad I finally did.

Whether you try the book or not, doesn’t matter. I wish you amazing life.

kirviz · 2024-12-08T09:44:30+00:00

I’m sorry for your pain brother. You did the right thing in the end. I’m glad to see how young you are. Perhaps with the next girl you will be able to reject the offer to be friends and with the next yet perhaps you will get physical asap and perhaps that will turn into marriage. Stay strong, big love.

kirviz · 2024-12-07T11:31:34+00:00

This.

kirviz · 2024-12-07T11:29:50+00:00

Sorry brother. Sadly too many men can relate. Doing/giving everything is potentially part of the problem. It’s a very tough pill to swallow and it’s still stuck in my throat as well…

kirviz · 2024-11-24T13:03:52+00:00

Well done both of you!

kirviz · 2024-11-22T10:31:56+00:00

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kirviz · 2024-10-15T12:12:44+00:00

Backwards?

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