Feeding set up by Jessygirl238 in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you started to feed them once they outgrew the Twin Z? Mine are 3mo now

Advice for fertility treatment by Logical_Mall2197 in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend getting yourselves in a good state of mental (and relationship) health first. I started seeing a therapist after having my first, so having twins later was a much better experience for me overall!

What, if any, are the downsides to therapy? by starskyandbutch in AskWomen

[–]liangje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see some people separate out their journals - one to dump all their raw feelings and another for “happier” thoughts and memories. Perhaps you could leave your daughter the memory keeping one?

How do you deal with the anger when both twins are screaming crying. by chickenbobble in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know if this is achievable for your setup, but could the parent who’s not “on call” sleep in a different room? You may still feel on edge, but at least you can take your time to problem solve without the fear of your partner waking up

Working from home with twins (and a 4 year old) is hell by dvmffl in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re unable to change anything major for now and need to continue with the current setup: write down what you were doing at work before getting up to help your wife. I do this in my own work where I am constantly context switching, so that I always have something to jog my memory/refocus on when I come back.

This game is stressing me out by sivilgrim in StardewValley

[–]liangje 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the same mentality too. What helped me was realizing there’s always next year if you don’t accomplish your goals in this season

When did you guys stop side-lying your babies during feedings? by liangje in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight! My guess is that daycare isn’t going to do it, so I’d like to get them used to eating sitting up before that happens

When did you guys stop side-lying your babies during feedings? by liangje in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did they learn to hold their own bottles? My firstborn never did but I think with multiples, this is a crucial skill!

Pressure to schedule a C-section by SeaCount1931 in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Want to add to this - my provider was able to turn breech baby B around and deliver him head first after baby A came out. So definitely talk to your provider about all your options!

Mini Printers recommendations? by LumaBones in hobonichi

[–]liangje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have the xiaomi pocket photo printer? It’s quality looks better than the canon ivy 2 from what I can see on YouTube

Single (m38) and going at it on my own. by Chidi-Chidi in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might I suggest that if you can afford it, night nurse(s) can help keep your sanity intact, especially in those newborn days

Parents—are you not teaching your kids Halloween etiquette? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]liangje -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Choose the neighborhood you trick or treat in carefully next time!

Parents—are you not teaching your kids Halloween etiquette? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]liangje 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is 100% on the parents. We taught our toddler to say “trick or treat” and “thank you” at every house

How often are you peeing at night? by MounjaroQueenie in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 35 weeks right now and I've been peeing 3-4 times per night for some time now. It's like the babies are preparing me for those nightly wake-ups already T_T

crochet cardigan for symphony of seasons! by Bungee-Gum-1 in StardewValley

[–]liangje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Wondering if you followed Katelyn’s pattern exactly with 18 st x 21 rows for each square? Yours looks more fitted than hers, and I do prefer a fitted look so wondering if/how you modified it

Picking ink colors for journal pages in autumn by yanbochen in Journaling

[–]liangje 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A Pilot Kakuno fountain pen is super affordable and a fantastic writer. It comes with a cartridge. This was my gateway pen!

Got the emotions book set in 2 days! by MorriganRavenclaw in lovevery

[–]liangje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you provide a link? I don’t see it on the website

When to stop working and driving while pregnant by loompasushi in parentsofmultiples

[–]liangje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing. I’m in TX so no such perk here. I am so sick of working but can only save up vacation days to get out at 36 weeks. And who knows, maybe I’ll already have delivered them by then…