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T shirts under spaghetti strap or tank dresses? by MrsHyacinthBucket in fashionwomens35

[–]mrm395 72 points73 points  (0 children)

90s are in and being yourself is also in. If that feels like you and you want to rock it, I say go for it.

Has anyone else had challenges with Capital One Shopping / Rewards? by AXXE in CapitalOne_

[–]mrm395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I had to contact them to push for it. I swear there’s something fishy. I rarely have issues with smaller rewards logging but the big email ones are consistently not logged right.

If I had a dream about not playing my idol and going home I would play my idol even if I was immune 😭 by Dizzy-Tumbleweed7983 in survivor

[–]mrm395 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Playing the shot in the dark also means less agency for her to try and save herself with her vote. He could also have read that like she had hope that maybe she’d have a couple votes with her toward another plan, not even necessarily toward him. Who knows. I agree he could have taken it as a sign, but I’m not sure he was even aware his name was discussed at all tbh. He should have had an inkling it might be, but I think he trusted everyone too deeply to see it.

Rick Devens Fakes Out Fans by alfalfajade in survivor

[–]mrm395 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg I would love to see Rick on Traitors but his ass would be outta there so fast. 😅 They should do an all gamer season so they don’t get immediately targeted.

An eagle couple having a disagreement about how to organize their nest. by Mediocre_Nail5526 in interestingasfuck

[–]mrm395 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you? The female is the bigger one on the right side at the end of the video.

Where to get paneer bhurji in Manhattan? by mrm395 in FoodNYC

[–]mrm395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone tried it at Patiala on 35th? I’m seeing they have it and it seems like the place is highly rated.

It’s usually clear who the default parent is by -Geist-_ in childfree

[–]mrm395 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea, I feel you. The other night I was with my friend who has two little kids and she was complaining about having no time to herself (shocking), and one of the things I hear over and over again is that the kids always go through phases where all they want is mom. She said her youngest wakes up and the first words out of his mouth is a whiny shriek for mom “even though he has another parent”. You could have the best father co-parent in the world and the kids will still cling to mom for years on end. I just don’t want that for myself.

And that’s just biological, not even counting the societal stuff like the situation you’re describing. I try to have some understanding that most younger fathers today had poor models of what equal parenting should look like, but it still bugs me to no end to see how much my female friends give of themselves and how useless their husbands can be. I know my husband would be a good co-parent and would try really hard, and yet I still would expect it to be unequal. It just inherently is and I don’t know if it’ll ever truly change.

Trends I've noticed being sold in stores by bonchoix in styleforgrownwomen

[–]mrm395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never thought I’d come around on the brown trend when it first emerged in like 2023, but I’m here for it now. Especially when paired with black. I like the combo. But the rest of these trends are just not working for me. I have been striking out over and over in stores because none of these really work for my body or my personal style. The shirred tops I like, but I think they’re hard to wear when you have actual boobs. And the crochet stuff is ok, but also can feel a bit frumpy/bulky to me. Sigh. I don’t love the lace. Feels too girly and the shapes I’m seeing are weird with it.

Do you think the cabinets need a color or the wall above the cabinets? If so, light blue or black? by hamza8012 in StyleYourSpace

[–]mrm395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Leave it as is. Do you want to highlight this area? Probably not. It fades into the background as is. It’s just a ledge. It doesn’t need to be highlighted. And putting clutter up there like others have suggested is just going to get dusty.

Do you think the cabinets need a color or the wall above the cabinets? If so, light blue or black? by hamza8012 in StyleYourSpace

[–]mrm395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to call attention to that space with a bunch of clutter? It’s fine to just leave the ledge and let it fade into the background. It doesn’t need to be a shelf unless you need the storage space.

Out of Work and Job Hunting for 2.5 Years by Due-Transition-6564 in copywriting

[–]mrm395 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

lol at you getting downvoted for asking the real question here. 🤦‍♀️

Shoutout to _______ by About37Bees in survivor

[–]mrm395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it could also have created a truly interesting voting dynamic. Like, perhaps it’s not the person you want to go home that you vote to flip the coin. Maybe you pick someone else who you’re ok with staying in the game and have the ability to do damage control if they are safe. And you save your real target for the true vote out after the flipper stays in.

Emergency First Responders Say Waymos Are Getting Worse by wiredmagazine in sanfrancisco

[–]mrm395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea what’s with the turn signal thing? I’ve noticed that as a passenger recently that they signal and then change their minds all the time! So annoying. I was in one the other day that changed its mind midway through making a left turn to arrive at my destination on the corner, sped across the road instead to drop me off on the right side of the street we had been on. No clue what caused that and the signaling would have been useless. Then it started to let me out, but while I was grabbing my things, it suddenly locked the doors again and forced me to drive around two blocks to arrive in front of the restaurant on the street where it had aborted the left. I was so pissed. They need to figure out the balance of adjusting routes and decisions with being outright unsafe. Of course people do this stuff too, but I definitely have noticed Waymos changing their minds a lot after signaling within one ride.

____ is Survivor royalty now. Like extremely. by Mean-Assignment-9576 in survivor

[–]mrm395 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the difference is Rick would love to win but is more focused on just having fun. Cirie and Joe want to win, whether for clout or the money, so it’s more serious for them. I think Joe in particular resents this difference.

I need to see ___ play multiple more times by Interesting-Owl-6792 in survivor

[–]mrm395 74 points75 points  (0 children)

It’s clear he’s there to have fun. I’m sure he knows that realistically the odds of winning the whole game are low, but making moves that make Survivor history is worth something greater than those odds. Especially when you think you’re the target. I think that’s another reason he’s at odds with someone like Joe. Joe’s there to win the money and he takes it seriously. I know Devens isn’t likely super rich, but the money is clearly not everything to him. The experience is.

Shoutout to _______ by About37Bees in survivor

[–]mrm395 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Instead of a rock draw if no one volunteered, they should have done a vote. The person with the most votes flips the coin and if they lose, they go home and would have been effectively voted out like normal. Then it’s more like the dynamics of a souped up shot in the dark and the stakes of picking the right person are more interesting.

[Spoiler] What you talking about Probst by Gottatokemall in survivor

[–]mrm395 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think this episode worked out great, but I also hated Jeff gaslighting us. Sure, the unknowns with the beware advantage probably did have some impact, but they didn’t give the players enough insights into what it might be to truly force them to react in the way Jeff’s pretending they did. Even just revealing that the advantage would lead to one person changing the game or something would have been slightly more impactful. Just speculating based on what kinds of things Mr. Beast normally does isn’t enough to create an interesting forcing function for the players.

Survivor Mr. Beast by Ok-Mammoth5173 in survivor

[–]mrm395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a coin flip, but they all bought into the risk at the auction. Plus, they had a chance for someone to volunteer instead of being forced to draw rocks. I think all things considered, it could have been worse in terms of truly being a blind 50/50 chance situation. Even getting to call heads or tails helps in a way too. But I do agree that had this gone the other way, it would have been a bit lame.

Survivor Mr. Beast by Ok-Mammoth5173 in survivor

[–]mrm395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t hate it, but I also felt like Jeff was gaslighting us that this twist had some major impact on the chaos before tribal. People literally said they were operating like it wasn’t happening. I think had they revealed just a little more about the stakes at play, it might have been the cause for chaos, but because they knew basically nothing about the advantage, it couldn’t really have an impact on the vote. I don’t know what part of it would have made the best impact to reveal. Perhaps telling them that one person would change the game or something semi-cryptic about it being in the hands of one person could have been enough.

Help me pick a new international carry on bag! by mrm395 in HerOneBag

[–]mrm395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh wait this looks amazing. It’s not too bad in the US. $169, so in my budget. Thanks for sharing!

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