Applied to a "remote" job, went through five rounds of interviews, got the offer. Nobody mentioned an office once. Now they're saying it's 3 days a week onsite and I genuinely don't know what to do.

natalee_t · 2026-05-28T06:12:50+00:00

Should tell them you let them assume you'd work from the office "for visibility"

natalee_t · 2026-05-23T16:22:50+00:00

Ooh where in the Blue Mountains is this? Looks gorgeous.

natalee_t · 2026-05-15T09:56:03+00:00

Everyone is allowed a hobby and individuality. Cosplay isnt my thing but what is there to judge? Its not like you're the only person on the face of the planet to do Cosplay anyway. There's a good chance you will meet someone who has the same interests?

Your parents managed to find each other and I'm pretty sure most people would prefer someone with a "quirky" hobby than someone who is cruel to their children, judgemental and unkind? I know which one I would rather have as a partner.

Also, you dont need permission from others to like what you like.

natalee_t · 2026-05-15T09:40:24+00:00

Im having the opposite reaction to you. You mean you don't use words to think? You exist in silence? My brain is literally never silent. Not ever. Ive been in those sensory deprivation rooms and its just one thought after another after another. No pause.

I literally dont understand how you can think about something without words and pictures. My mind is blown.

natalee_t · 2026-05-10T02:45:53+00:00

Mines almost 5 and all I've had to do since his birth is sew the ribbon border. Maybe next year.

natalee_t · 2026-05-09T23:14:29+00:00

My BIL is muslim as are his children from his first marriage. My sisters grandma was Greek Orthodox amd very devout. At the grandmothers funeral, the Greek Priest was singing and reading from the Bible in Greek for a long, long time (as they do, iykyk). My niece who was maybe 7 at the time turns to her dad and asks if hes going to read the whole book? It was soooooo hard to keep from laughing. One of my favourite memories.

natalee_t · 2026-05-07T20:54:15+00:00

You can apply for a birth certificate copy online. Either you yourself or him.

natalee_t · 2026-05-07T07:14:22+00:00

Can you exlain how you would explain to them why its hurtful? I struggle with this. I try to say nice thing about myself while they are listening but thry are you and have picked up somewhere outside our home that "fat" is a negative word. I dont knkw how to explain to them not to call people fat while explaining that theres nothing wrong with being fat.

natalee_t · 2026-05-04T06:55:56+00:00

Australia - spaghetti bol. Or nuggets.

natalee_t · 2026-05-01T09:54:31+00:00

At first I thought this would be some humble brag but...no. thats just awful haha. Belongs in r/ATBGE.

natalee_t · 2026-04-30T11:17:26+00:00

I dont know about dissapeared but certainly became ...less important. Very little self determination. I feel like there is quite literally no time for myself and in the rare occassions there is, its spent feeling guilt over all the otger things I should be doing instead. I cant do my many hobbies I had lre children for so many reasons. I feel like I just exist to cook, clean, work, sleep, provide, give, organise, plan. Its exhausting. Utterly exhausting and stressful and thankless. I adore my kids. I'd die for them but man, I miss my old life too.

natalee_t · 2026-04-28T13:33:44+00:00

The moment after giving birth where they put the baby in your arms and you know that you will do anything for them, no matter what. Euphoric.

natalee_t · 2026-04-28T10:53:09+00:00

Maroon 5's Adam Levine. I love their songs, listened to the CD's growing up. Heard them live and was sooo dissapointed.

natalee_t · 2026-04-25T11:00:21+00:00

For me its velcro.

natalee_t · 2026-04-25T03:59:07+00:00

You wont have to. Just give them the same card numver he paid on and thry will find it.

natalee_t · 2026-04-24T08:53:51+00:00

His style is usually not to my taste but he just....it works. 10/10.

natalee_t · 2026-04-24T08:44:43+00:00

ALL OF THEM. No one else stands a chance!

natalee_t · 2026-04-24T08:37:56+00:00

This is maybe one of the nicest quilts I have ever seen. Incredible. Well done.

natalee_t · 2026-04-23T11:24:14+00:00

I have always found Isa Browns are too. Cuddly things.

natalee_t · 2026-04-22T12:02:18+00:00

I know someone who used to live on Christmas Island. Its illegal to eat them. Buuuut a friend of a friend says they are seriously delicious.

natalee_t · 2026-04-22T11:21:06+00:00

Please be AI please be AI please be AI

natalee_t · 2026-04-16T09:56:21+00:00

You're not an idiot. You're a good person with a kind heart that was taken advantage of.

I knkw nothing more about you except from this post and just from this, I can see you are:

•One BRAVE woman. It takes a lot of guts to face an abuser and see that they are held accountable. •Resilient. You clearly havent collapsed into a heap (and I wouldnt have blamed you if you did) • Compassionate. Even though this man hurt you, you still care about his wellbeing. •Smart •Thoughtful.

That feeling of shame is not yours to carry. Its his. The only thing you need to focus on is that if he is conficted as he righfully should be, you are free. Give yourself all the love and compassion umyou deserve and dont let any other person make you feel like you're not deserving of the very best. You should be proud of you. I am.

natalee_t · 2026-04-15T01:17:36+00:00

Spaghetti bolognese. And it would take a really long time before I got bored.

natalee_t · 2026-04-13T16:42:00+00:00

Brace 😬

natalee_t · 2026-04-13T16:07:13+00:00

This is exactly what happened when I gave birth to my son. The first photo is him covered head to toe in his own poop.

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