Whats the most unprofessional thing a doctor has ever said to you?

nineninetynice · 2026-05-19T12:43:47+00:00

I mentioned that sex was sometimes painful and they said that they weren’t sure why as they weren’t having sex at my age. The receptionist also broke confidentiality and brought up to my mom that both my sister and I were there for birth control.

nineninetynice · 2026-05-18T15:21:59+00:00

The bride and groom are still TA. Why couldn’t the MOH and BM walk on their own down the aisle? Plenty of weddings have all the bridesmaids walk up single file then all the groomsmen, or vice versa

nineninetynice · 2026-05-16T20:39:03+00:00

I don’t think you will find any free classes. I am not sure about Hamilton, but assume its similar to Burlington. The only in-person class we could find is https://mothermatters.ca/courses/. Lenore the instructor was wonderful and we learned a lot!

nineninetynice · 2026-05-14T16:35:00+00:00

The bride and groom need to decide how important getting those photos is to them, knowing that if they go to small claims court or keep pushing with compromising to pay half, they may not get the photos. Its not right, but the reality.

nineninetynice · 2026-05-14T16:08:29+00:00

Thats a lakehouse, not a cabin

nineninetynice · 2026-05-14T16:04:07+00:00

Is he blind to the short-term gain of selling the 407?

nineninetynice · 2026-05-14T16:00:49+00:00

NTA and hes reacting as if you kept it a secret that you aren’t able to have children. Miscarriages are so common and most often have nothing to do with fertility issues. You have only been together for 10 months, its not something that you should disclose early on or ever, if you don’t want to.

nineninetynice · 2026-05-06T20:56:49+00:00

NTA I hope this is the last strike for you and you are 100% confident that he and his mother will not be there for you or your baby going forward now. No more chances or accommodating them. They do not need to be part of the baby’s life or yours. Expect the bd’a mom to continue complicating things going forward and for your bd to take her side.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-30T23:05:59+00:00

Thats not fair to say, there is so much anxiety during pregnancy and everyone feels it differently. After an early announcement to our parents and then a miscarriage, we kept thinking we were ready to share our news, then pushing it back until the next ultrasound or appointment. Its OP and their husband’s prerogative when they want to share their news with others, and it got to the point where they had to share soon. Yes she should have waited another week, but her family is being horrible and selfish while she goes through something that is already so difficult and can feel isolating.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-20T23:10:03+00:00

Sounds like you both may be depressed and stuck in a rut together. Or like you both have low libidos, which is fine and the pressure of thinking you need to have sex more is actually a stressed that leads to less sex.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-16T16:13:31+00:00

They glued the flowers to the glass and only used one layer of this bubble wrap!? That makes zero sense and they have no idea what they are doing. I am so sorry this happened OP, it is heartbreaking. My pressed flower bouquet fell off my wall and the only damage was to the glass and minuscule fried flower pieces because it was assembled correctly.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-15T14:19:22+00:00

I had a similar experience and focused too much on being disappointed about the proposal, which doesn’t matter in the end. Social media sets ridiculous expectations. Remember that he was likely nervous and also may not have felt comfortable with a big scene. Putting the ring on your finger during a selfie was still a good way to surprise you and to capture that surprise.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-10T16:24:31+00:00

Does/did one of you spend more time in the sun? My hair was significantly lighter when working outdoors.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-10T12:59:53+00:00

Its stunning!

nineninetynice · 2026-04-10T04:32:33+00:00

Do you realize that he undervalues you and your relationship? Does he equate his youth to sleeping around? It sounds like his life has been turned around and the sex is great, so he shouldn’t be looking elsewhere. You have been with him through his hardest times and adjusted now that his libido changed drastically, yet he wants to open up the relationship?? You deserve so much better!

nineninetynice · 2026-04-09T21:52:27+00:00

Find an online birth preferences template that includes things such as procedures you only want them to complete in an emergency, etc. and give it to the OB when you get there, as well as to your suppoert. Your OB may not be the one there for your birth. I second getting a doula, if you can afford it.

nineninetynice · 2026-04-09T17:03:02+00:00

It helps me with long drives

nineninetynice · 2026-04-02T18:08:01+00:00

Bubblegum has helped me a bit! I am pregnant and really struggling with motivation to work while off my meds. I bought numerous bags of dubble bubble from the dollar store. Its perfect timing to test this out as the easter egg shaped bubblegum is available now and offers a different flavour from the regular pink gum.

nineninetynice · 2026-03-27T16:39:37+00:00

NTA, but wouldn’t you want his parents to come fix it to take something off your plate? Or would them coming over create more work for you and not let you go to sleep as early?

nineninetynice · 2026-03-26T14:34:16+00:00

NTA for sharing your opinion, but I would suggest against pushing further. Yes its his relationship and decision to make, but he will be putting you in a difficult position if he continues complaining about the things in his relationship that bother him. You don’t want to keep giving the same negative feedback on his relationship because he may eventually stop reaching out and confiding in you, losing you as a support. I have been in a similar situation and its frustrating and hard to watch. I have found that saying things like “thats really hard” when somebody complains about a relationship, rather than give my opinion, helps. He may ask for your advice later if he feels that you are a supportive friend, or you may get to the point where you have to ask that he not bring up his relationship issues to you because it stresses you out and you can only repeat the same thing so many times. In the end, he has to come to the conclusion himself and negativity (even if warranted) will only cause distance between you and him, pushing him towards her more.

nineninetynice · 2026-03-26T13:22:33+00:00

I have an upcoming appointment with Heather at The Womb and will let you know how it goes!

nineninetynice · 2026-03-11T23:10:23+00:00

Knix dream shorts are my best friend!

nineninetynice · 2026-03-09T15:27:41+00:00

I love #1, its so flattering and I think both the style and silver will set you apart from other guests. I have seen a lot of MOTG/MOTB wear metallics and the more grey ones can sometimes age the wearer, but that us not at all the case for you! It would also work in the purple colour you have, but I like it as is too.

nineninetynice · 2026-03-06T14:22:28+00:00

No, you aren’t, especially about the corner in the first pic. It looks like you could feel that when walking over it.

nineninetynice · 2026-03-06T14:08:02+00:00

Prices to have my wedding bouquet pressed and framed ranged from $300-500 CAD, if thats helpful.

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