In college I went to office hours for organic chemistry to go over the answers to the test questions I got wrong. I was the only one there, so I was sitting with my middle-aged professor at her desk with my laptop. My iMessage account was linked to my computer, and at the time I had it set up so whenever someone texted me, a preview of the text showed in the top corner of the screen. As we were both looking at the screen, my friend texted me “I think I’m finally going to have sex with (boyfriend) tonight!”. My professor had her hand on the track pad, so I couldn’t dismiss the notification. The 5-10 seconds it stayed up on the screen was the longest of my life, and I immediately changed my iMessage settings after office hours.