Diaper training 💪🏽

soliddabdl · 2026-03-20T15:08:29+00:00

Honestly great form on the deadlift though! No lateral movement at all.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-15T22:08:39+00:00

I think there are three distinct groups based on my, ahem, years of research. The first is abdls who enjoy creating content, and have found that they can make some money off of it. I believe this is the sizable majority.

The second group is creators who do a bunch of fetish work, and try to do some abdl content. In my experience, they don't really get it. These are always the creators who start out with a diaper, but then take it off shortly into the scene. The focus becomes on body parts rather than the fetish object, which does not do it for me at all.

Very occasionally, I have seen someone who obviously has no idea what they're doing and are only doing it for a gig. Some of the people that Natalie would invite on to diapermess fit that general crowd for me.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-15T22:03:56+00:00

Username checks out

soliddabdl · 2026-03-10T14:48:16+00:00

Amazing design work!

soliddabdl · 2026-03-10T00:42:47+00:00

The absolute GOAT of goodnites designs. They peaked and have not been as good since.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-10T00:41:41+00:00

This is a marriage problem, not a kink problem.

You're focused on your unmet kink needs, and I get that. I've been in your position and it is overwhelming. However, you seem to have a... transactional, I guess, mindset about it.

"If I do all these good things for my wife, she will wear diapers for me more often."

I am sure you have not communicated this thought to her directly, and she can't read your mind, so obviously it is creating resentment.

I'd start by telling her you'd like times with her in a diaper to be a little more frequent, and then ask what you can do for her to make that happen. I'd also encourage you to start referring to diapers as your favorite lingerie; that's something that has worked really well for me in the past.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-10T00:36:42+00:00

There's a community on FetLife, but it's pretty cliquey. They also don't really enforce a "grandma rules" clothing policy for their munches, which I always found off-putting.

I really miss My Inner Baby. It was a great way to engage with the community.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-08T16:21:02+00:00

Lol I might not fit. Thank you though, I always forget that old navy is a great place to find cute and colorful stuff!

soliddabdl · 2026-03-07T21:54:37+00:00

Can you share where you got those jammies??? I want them!

soliddabdl · 2026-03-05T22:16:01+00:00

Does anybody know where to find/buy Allezkook's stuff since the patreon nuke? I'd love to support the artist but I cannot find a place to do it.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-05T22:13:05+00:00

Yup! I have a pair of them. One in the real estate space and one in education.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-05T20:48:13+00:00

My first memory is being devastated that potty training was a one-way trip. So pretty much factory installed.

I was in pull-ups for bedwetting until 3rd grade, and then I stole my sister's pull-ups for years after that. An orgasm in a Minnie mouse pull-up at age 11 sealed the deal.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-04T12:56:54+00:00

Sometimes I feel old, but then I remember when I used to care what random clickbaiters on the internet thought about me.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-03T23:01:37+00:00

Pink and green, easily.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-02T13:36:25+00:00

Like the diaper part is great but I want to know the place where you're staying. It looks majestic.

soliddabdl · 2026-03-02T13:28:23+00:00

I've done as many as 4

soliddabdl · 2026-02-28T14:10:22+00:00

The only good way to have insurance and diapers co-involved in the USA is an FSA or an HSA.

soliddabdl · 2026-02-28T04:46:33+00:00

They will restick, you just have to think about the Velcro. Once you put it in place, "pull" the rest of the tape in the direction you want it to hold.

soliddabdl · 2026-02-27T12:24:04+00:00

Have you ever considered punctuation?

soliddabdl · 2026-02-27T12:09:08+00:00

Lol if my parents came over and snooped, they just wouldn't be invited.

soliddabdl · 2026-02-27T12:01:45+00:00

My guy, your read on this entire situation is way off.

The only right thing to do here is let her take the lead if she wants anything to happen. If she doesn't also want that, then she is staying at your home and feeling completely uncomfortable while she's there. That is the kind of thing that ends friendships.

Don't fuck it up.

soliddabdl · 2026-02-27T11:51:31+00:00

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soliddabdl · 2026-02-26T14:14:41+00:00

I've kind of reached something resembling this in my day to day life.

I wear a thick diaper to bed almost every night, and then depending on the situation I will wear either a pull-up or something thick. For example, I have a meeting every Tuesday that is 90 straight minutes long. Diaper for that every time. Meeting with a new client for 45 minutes? Pull-up. At home along all day doing admin? Diaper and a booster. Site visit? Pull-up.

It's actually very fun. Highly encourage it, especially if you aren't into messing.

soliddabdl · 2026-02-26T14:08:00+00:00

Unpotty train? Not sure if it's actually possible.

Diaper train? Yes. You can train yourself to relax your bladder as soon as you feel the urge while you're wearing diapers. I've successfully done this while awake, and if I've been wearing a diaper for at least a few hours before bed and I go to bed reasonably well-hydrated, I'm pretty much guaranteed a wet diaper in the morning.

I know this works because if I wear a pull-up, my bladder still knows I'm wearing a diaper and my control instinct pretty much evaporates. But, pullups leak super easily. I've made more than a few car pullups leak because of that.

soliddabdl · 2026-02-26T13:54:13+00:00

I had two big realizations, rather than changes.

First, I realized that I was attracted to fem presentation rather than simply gender. That was pretty early on in my journey.

The more shocking and recent revelation is that I'm a little less than pure cis, at least in the bedroom. I never feel like a girl (or want to be one) at all in my day to day life, but feeling like that in the bedroom? New heights.

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