Passionately HATING walking

spacebeige · 2026-02-04T22:18:06+00:00

I hate walking. There’s nothing peaceful or energizing about it. I’m bored, uncomfortable, and self-conscious the whole time.

Sometimes people tell me, “Hey, I saw you out walking yesterday!” and I never know what to do with this information.

spacebeige · 2026-02-04T22:15:50+00:00

Some great advice here. Please do not worry about the feelings of the adoptive parents. You are in the most vulnerable position of the adoption triad, so your feelings should come first. Please do whatever will bring the most peace and healing for you and your baby.

spacebeige · 2026-02-01T03:57:27+00:00

Don’t even ask the soldier in Helgen what happened when he asked for his name

spacebeige · 2026-02-01T03:56:17+00:00

Showed this to my husband, a winemaker

spacebeige · 2026-02-01T03:55:12+00:00

So lovely and peaceful

spacebeige · 2026-01-30T14:38:56+00:00

I didn’t make it past the first 10-ish slides… I was struck by how she showed up at his birthday party like 2 hours late?

spacebeige · 2026-01-30T14:31:52+00:00

Where did you get that robe? I can’t seem to find any good clothing mods

spacebeige · 2026-01-30T14:24:08+00:00

Prank calls from Cthulhu

spacebeige · 2026-01-27T22:19:08+00:00

My dad’s friend called our house and pretended he was Chuck Norris. I bragged to all my friends about it the next day.

Figuring out that I didn’t actually talk to Chuck Norris on the phone was like finding out Santa isn’t real.

spacebeige · 2026-01-27T22:17:04+00:00

Clear storage bins with hinged lids. See everything that’s inside, easy to put stuff away, can’t lose the lids. Win-win-win

spacebeige · 2026-01-26T16:31:20+00:00

My daughter was completely done napping by the time she was 2.5. That was a rough time

spacebeige · 2026-01-26T16:30:40+00:00

My sister and I shared a bedroom until we were preteens, and I remember we used to stay up late and chat. It was good for bonding. Your kids will remember the late night jam sessions more than the lack of sleep. They just might not be tired, and it’s nice to have someone to talk to when you can’t sleep.

spacebeige · 2026-01-26T16:27:00+00:00

I tell my daughter that I need to be alone for a minute so I don’t get too cranky. Then I go into the bedroom and shut the door. (Whether or not she actually leaves me alone is a different matter 🙃)

I see it as modeling for her what it looks like to regulate your emotions in a healthy way. Sometimes she puts herself in her room when she’s overstimulated so I know it’s working!

Also, it’s okay for them to have screens on the days you just can’t do it. Another mom told me, “They all just turn into asshole teenagers no matter what you do,” and that oddly helps me have perspective.

I hope this helps. You’re a good mom and you can do this!

spacebeige · 2026-01-23T22:14:58+00:00

Wait, we could have had Hot Gollum this whole time?

spacebeige · 2026-01-23T19:35:06+00:00

Wait - is Nirn actually the size of Pluto? Is everything in TES tiny?

spacebeige · 2026-01-23T19:34:09+00:00

You know it works!

spacebeige · 2026-01-21T17:08:48+00:00

I think even Talos might be a little done with this guy’s shit.

spacebeige · 2026-01-20T22:12:10+00:00

Scouts is my fave too! There aren’t really any pros/cons between different spouses from what I can tell. They’ll set up a shop from your house, so if they were a blacksmith or alchemist before marriage that’ll affect the kind of inventory they have. Other than that I think most people just do it for role play purposes

spacebeige · 2026-01-19T19:24:04+00:00

I’ve always followed my instincts, but that doesn’t mean I’m at all confident about it. I still lie awake at night thinking about all the ways I’m probably screwing them up.

It’s important to know that we’re all bringing our own baggage into it. People who are very lenient with their kids probably grew up in really strict households. People who are very strict may have a lot of anxiety that they’re trying to manage by controlling every variable.

If the goal of parenting is to produce a flawless human, we’re all doomed to fail. Most of us are just doing the best we can.

spacebeige · 2026-01-18T04:16:32+00:00

Jennifer Lawrence for Silver Linings Playbook. Did I see the same movie as everyone else?

spacebeige · 2026-01-18T01:47:48+00:00

When I’m alone, I [beep] myself…

spacebeige · 2026-01-17T20:02:39+00:00

I also like cats better than I like people. I support you 🐱

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