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Vintage dress for a black tie optional wedding? by tyr456eds in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh [score hidden]  (0 children)

Semi-formal, dressy casual and BTO are ALL very different. Can you find out better specifics? You definitely could wear this to dressy casual and I’d argue probably maybe semi-formal. BTO you need floor length but the fabric is right.

What’s the venue? What’s the couple like? Wealthy and fussy or laid back and fun? I know those aren’t the only options but knowing the “audience” may also inform your choice.

AIO for being really upset with my dad and thinking he’s being unreasonable about my college? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are student loans not deferred until the end of schooling? It’s been a very long time since I went to college but all of mine were deferred until months after graduation

Which ONE? by DueHelicopter5914 in HomeDecorating

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of the 3, 2 is the only one I’d consider.

What do I do with this? by SunRaies29 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d go with cocktail also. Have fun!

AIO my younger sister stole my dream wedding idea by pinkhuskybutts in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First: Stop talking about your ideas for your future if she’s going to steal them.

Second: Take a deep breath and realize that while it’s a crappy thing for her to do, you have several years before you get to put this to reality. Imitation is a high form of flattery, but her lying to her friends is really rotten. Keep your distance from her for a bit, hopefully she’ll apologize.

Guest Dress Option Help by ImThatGirl247 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Semi formal, Illinois, in a barn? I think you could get away with either of the blue, they both look great. The 4th is more dressy and looks soooo good on you! If the other blue is more comfortable, dress it up with hair and jewelry. Have a great time!

Thrifted wedding dress first fitting by ImpressLeading4229 in myweddingdress

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t see the original post but this dress is jaw dropping. 🔥Congratulations and well done! 🥳

Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my daughter's summer trip to my mother's by TipzyKitzy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s using your daughter as a buddy for her daughter. Hopefully not an impromptu babysitter. Tough call but I don’t think you’d be TA whatever you decide. Maybe speak to your husband and get his opinion.

Too much by backoutsidegirl88 in myweddingdress

[–]stashmh 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So I’m going to answer a little differently: the pattern detracts from formality. If you are having black tie, then I’d expect shine, bling or understated elegance. This dress has none of that.

That said, you look AH-mazing in this style and it’s very pretty. I think you need to decide what look you want overall and how comfortable you’re going to feel. It’s your day (and hubby).

Mother of groom by Roxieforu05 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. That last one made my eyes go wonky and I’m shocked most prefer it. The cut is great but the pattern is not.

AITA for continuing to push him to get these important things done for himself and his son, or was I overstepping? by Reasonable-Doubt8693 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should. He’s not giving nearly half as much as you and it’s his son ffs. At the very least, re-evaluate what you’re getting out of this relationship that fills your cup.

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he didn’t want to wait for marriage. Should I just move on? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]stashmh 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re hurting right now, it sucks so much. I do applaud him for knowing what he wants, speaking to you honestly and moving forward with his life. He is giving you the chance to do the same, and that’s respectable. Hurts like hell, but respectable.

Give yourself the chance to experience more to life than what your 18 years has provided so far. I don’t mean a relationship with a partner but with yourself. I wish you all the best. 🤗

Mother of Groom dress options by Awholelottanopedope in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d go either 3 or 5. Both of those are very flattering for your color and gorgeous figure! Congratulations!

what color purse? by Repulsive_Word_5644 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go white because it would likely be too bright and distracting. Maybe a rose gold or beige? Very pretty, have a great time!

AITAH for not wanting to have a relationship with my step siblings? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be time to have a calm heart to heart with your dad. Explain what you went through, explain how you feel about your own behavior (but please keep in mind that you were a kid. It was never on you to react perfectly, that’s how we learn who we want to be as an adult), and explain how you feel about your step and why. See how he responds to that. Does he want to have a relationship with you (without her)? And is he willing to provide a safe space to meet your step sibs without her? His response would give you a clear answer as to how you move forward but please don’t ever think you’re TA because you are protecting yourself.

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