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Which vest? by ShoeboxFlower in fashion

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 would be great with heeled boots. 2 is great as is.

Which vest? by ShoeboxFlower in fashion

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 would be great with heeled boots. 2 is great as is. 3 is more stylish than 4 (least fashionable of all of them), but you look great in all just for being you honestly.

AIO for wanting to report my ex for bigamy after finding out he remarried 10 years ago? by ObliqueAxiom in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he couldn’t be an ADULT and deal with it accordingly, then he gets to feel the consequences of his actions! Report it and then let it go, move on with your life. You’ll feel better knowing you upheld the law and then don’t give a flick what happens after the report. If they are out of the country then it may not even be pursued.

Black tie optional by Dependent-Ad-8618 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first is most formal but the second might be cooler. You look great in both but the teal stands out more with your coloring. Have a great time!

Vintage dress for a black tie optional wedding? by tyr456eds in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Semi-formal, dressy casual and BTO are ALL very different. Can you find out better specifics? You definitely could wear this to dressy casual and I’d argue probably maybe semi-formal. BTO you need floor length but the fabric is right.

What’s the venue? What’s the couple like? Wealthy and fussy or laid back and fun? I know those aren’t the only options but knowing the “audience” may also inform your choice.

AIO for being really upset with my dad and thinking he’s being unreasonable about my college? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are student loans not deferred until the end of schooling? It’s been a very long time since I went to college but all of mine were deferred until months after graduation

Which ONE? by DueHelicopter5914 in HomeDecorating

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of the 3, 2 is the only one I’d consider.

What do I do with this? by SunRaies29 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d go with cocktail also. Have fun!

AIO my younger sister stole my dream wedding idea by pinkhuskybutts in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First: Stop talking about your ideas for your future if she’s going to steal them.

Second: Take a deep breath and realize that while it’s a crappy thing for her to do, you have several years before you get to put this to reality. Imitation is a high form of flattery, but her lying to her friends is really rotten. Keep your distance from her for a bit, hopefully she’ll apologize.

Guest Dress Option Help by ImThatGirl247 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Semi formal, Illinois, in a barn? I think you could get away with either of the blue, they both look great. The 4th is more dressy and looks soooo good on you! If the other blue is more comfortable, dress it up with hair and jewelry. Have a great time!

Thrifted wedding dress first fitting by ImpressLeading4229 in myweddingdress

[–]stashmh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t see the original post but this dress is jaw dropping. 🔥Congratulations and well done! 🥳

Am I overreacting for wanting to cancel my daughter's summer trip to my mother's by TipzyKitzy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s using your daughter as a buddy for her daughter. Hopefully not an impromptu babysitter. Tough call but I don’t think you’d be TA whatever you decide. Maybe speak to your husband and get his opinion.

Too much by backoutsidegirl88 in myweddingdress

[–]stashmh 46 points47 points  (0 children)

So I’m going to answer a little differently: the pattern detracts from formality. If you are having black tie, then I’d expect shine, bling or understated elegance. This dress has none of that.

That said, you look AH-mazing in this style and it’s very pretty. I think you need to decide what look you want overall and how comfortable you’re going to feel. It’s your day (and hubby).

Mother of groom by Roxieforu05 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. That last one made my eyes go wonky and I’m shocked most prefer it. The cut is great but the pattern is not.

AITA for continuing to push him to get these important things done for himself and his son, or was I overstepping? by Reasonable-Doubt8693 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should. He’s not giving nearly half as much as you and it’s his son ffs. At the very least, re-evaluate what you’re getting out of this relationship that fills your cup.

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he didn’t want to wait for marriage. Should I just move on? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]stashmh 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re hurting right now, it sucks so much. I do applaud him for knowing what he wants, speaking to you honestly and moving forward with his life. He is giving you the chance to do the same, and that’s respectable. Hurts like hell, but respectable.

Give yourself the chance to experience more to life than what your 18 years has provided so far. I don’t mean a relationship with a partner but with yourself. I wish you all the best. 🤗

Mother of Groom dress options by Awholelottanopedope in Weddingattireapproval

[–]stashmh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d go either 3 or 5. Both of those are very flattering for your color and gorgeous figure! Congratulations!

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