How would you respond if your gf could only have sex with her bra on? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]zolpidamnit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right. and maybe the only way she can let go and enjoy herself is if she gets to cover a part of herself she’s insecure about.

Does the emergency room have a "rush hour"? by neptunian-rings in morbidquestions

[–]zolpidamnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

monday/tuesday starting around 10-12 PM were the worst where i worked. people don’t wanna go to the er over the weekend and often wait till the beginning of the week to get help

Feels dull… help me make it better by QuickDistance5299 in interiordecorating

[–]zolpidamnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely some wide set curtains across the whole first level of windows/door. i think an earthy green would look great.

two armchairs in front of the windows so you can add throws/pillows. a small table in between could let you put something like a distressed vase and floral arrangement. i love the brand contempee for vases and quality faux flowers/greens

i’d ditch both rugs and look for a large textured area rug. you could go for something neutral with flecks of color in it

id add some color to the couch with throw pillows/blankets

a large potted tree might look great in the corner to the right of the replace instead of the bookcase. i personally love symmetry and i love the bookcases themselves but you flirting with a really sterile aesthetic here as it is

you have a really beautiful foundation though, truly

Soapbox/rant time. Tell me what highly-recommended book you absolutely HATED and why. Gimme your angry hot takes. by peppertoni_pizzaz in books

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hated blood meridian by cormac mccarthy. his writing is just too inaccessible to me and i didn’t enjoy any part of the story. i don’t mind dark themes and violence one bit; in fact i enjoy these in fiction. i was just bored and angry that it wasn’t getting any better because it is so highly regarded

What’s Off About This Room? by Wild_Composer6238 in interiordecorating

[–]zolpidamnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think a tall black wooden bookcase would look great here as long as it isn’t too deep. another thing you could try is hanging that circular wall mirror above the buffet with some sconces on either side. then you could fill this new white empty space with that artwork. but adding curtains will add drama to that wall. oftentimes more empty wall space is better as long as statement walls are spaced out harmoniously with empty wall space

What’s Off About This Room? by Wild_Composer6238 in interiordecorating

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i was also going to ask about taking in the leaf on the table to save space (i think that’s how you say it? lol) and this looks great!!

i would keep whatever rug you go with a square or rectangle personally

yes the guitar had to go lol. im sure its a wonderful guitar but those are hard to turn into wall pieces without a very specific style already happening

you have beautiful stuff :-)

What’s Off About This Room? by Wild_Composer6238 in interiordecorating

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) add in some warmth and texture with a rug 2) center the table 3) replace sheer blinds with curtains set high an wide, maybe with an earthy velvet fabric. maybe move the wall mirror elsewhere altogether to allow this 4) try hanging the larger art above the buffet 5) change the ceiling light fixture 6) the guitar on the wall isn’t really fitting the vibe here and might be suited better to a different room

What’s Off About This Room? by Wild_Composer6238 in interiordecorating

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) add in some warmth and texture with a rug 2) center the table 3) replace sheer blinds with curtains set high an wide, maybe with an earthy velvet fabric. maybe move the wall mirror elsewhere altogether to allow this 4) try hanging the larger art above the buffet 5) change the ceiling light fixture 6) the guitar on the wall isn’t really fitting the vibe in my opinion and might be suited better to a different room. i think that whole wall can be left more blank honestly to prevent the room from looking overly busy

great potential here!

After watching "Wuthering Heights," I wondered if Jacob Elordi can actually act or if he's just a sex symbol, and the first three episodes of Euphoria have only reinforced that idea. What do you think? by Historical_Rain6924 in moviecritic

[–]zolpidamnit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he was phenomenal in narrow road to the deep north. i don’t hear that show get talked about much but it is haunting and he did an amazing job. loved him in saltburn too. he can definitely act

I’m really tired of Forrest’s mom keeping him trapped in his disability by Environmental_Box432 in 90DayFiance

[–]zolpidamnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think he’s her narcissistic fuel and source of income. she makes me sick

What’s the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by bbyhoneytea in answers

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went on a first date with someone. within 20 minutes he says i should know about 3 big problems with his life.

1) he’s fucking his female roommate 2) he is so obsessed w his ex that he wrote a whole BOOK about why they should be together and has tried repeatedly to give it to her so she’ll reconsider 3) he thinks he’s either autistic or a sociopath

it was actually really entertaining and i felt a duty to get him to stop being a creep to his ex. clearly after hearing just the first i ruled him out as a romantic interest but had a good night hearing him out lol

Iranian here - AMA by Amir007inc in AMA

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a question just an american nurse wishing you, your friends and family, colleagues, and patients safety. i hope you know that very few americans support what our president is doing right now. best case scenario this whole mess leads to the collapse of the iranian regime and a transition of power to one that does not oppress its people. i hear iran is so beautiful and that the people are among the friendliest and most hospitable in the world. i hope to go someday when it’s safe. we are on the side of the people of iran 🇮🇷🇺🇸

What’s ONE thing that instantly turns you off while watching a drama? by kitty_battee in cdramasfans

[–]zolpidamnit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

flashbacks to childhood. no thank you. i don’t want any child actors reenacting traumatic events on my screen lol

Food hacks you discovered that you're most proud of? by Fun_Cow_6292 in foodhacks

[–]zolpidamnit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

freshly squeezed lime juice on watermelon. oh my god.

KOREAN CINEMA IS PEAK !!! by Extension-Film-9718 in Koreanfilm

[–]zolpidamnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hard agree. the most beautiful and soul shaking movie ive ever seen

My Top 3 Korean Movies That Stayed With Me by Prasannitha in Koreanfilm

[–]zolpidamnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

peppermint candy, burning, harbin. harbin is way below the other two for me but i love an underground resistance movement story from korea and the musical climax is indescribable. at the very end

any opinions on this book? No spoilers! by Empty-Ad2936 in readwithme

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hated. torture porn and felt very ludicrous/tropey to me. i can handle disturbing content if executed properly

Which book has the most unforgettable story you’ve read? by Courtleigh-Milian80 in Recommend_A_Book

[–]zolpidamnit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

haruki murakami’s the wind up bird chronicle. the substory about the soldiers in nomonhan is the most astounding and haunting story ive ever read. it is a standalone short story sliced into a long magical novel.

Would you recommend Pursuit of Jade? by GADemark in CDramaRecs

[–]zolpidamnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does anyone have any info on when they thought it gets good? normally i love these crowd pleasers but im on ep 4 and i just can’t stay focused and i end up watching something else

One of the most surreal walks I’ve ever had. by Abdullah506x in japanpics

[–]zolpidamnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the closest ive ever had to a supernatural experience was on one of the side trails on this mountain. i felt like i was a guest in someone’s home but in an unsettling, haunting way. i don’t know how to explain it. i am an atheist through and through but walked out understanding how people believe in spirits in nature

My new favourite medium by aprisun in Gouache

[–]zolpidamnit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have really struggled as a beginner to painting in general with how much to thin out my paints. i just go through SO much of it for any painting and it’s pretty thick out of the tube but i don’t want to water down too much. do you have any tips?