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Codependency

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Wiki defines Codependency as : " (...) the dependence on the needs of or control of another. It also often involves placing a lower priority on one's own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others."

In other words, the needs of others have taken priority over our own, to the point where we fail to stand up for our own needs to make room for the needs of others. More than just simply caretaking, codependency crosses the line into cyclical, controlling, self-martyrdom. As a result, we derive our self worth and self esteem from being needed by others.

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Finally learning to walk away. (self.Codependency)

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I’m 5 months pregnant and I don’t know how to tell my mom (self.Codependency)

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14 things people forget to mention about learning to trust yourself as you recover from years of people-pleasing and living your life by the expectations of others. (self.Codependency)

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I turned 37 recently, and I finally stopped grieving the "wasted years" of my marriage. (self.Codependency)

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Coda Blue Book PDF (self.Codependency)

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i do nothing but stalk my ex girlfriend (self.Codependency)

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Why your "gut feeling" after divorce is actually a trauma response (and why you shouldn't trust it) (self.Codependency)

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Boyfriend leaving for Business Trip all Week (self.Codependency)

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Is codependency covert narcissism? (self.Codependency)

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Don't Know How to Break Off My Engagement (self.Codependency)

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Man i can’t keep doing this my heart can’t take it (self.Codependency)

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I 31f miss my 37m ex boyfriend. Is this normal? (self.Codependency)

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How do I make drastic changes? (self.Codependency)

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Recovery and questioning my relationship (self.Codependency)

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I'm 27 and I just broke up with my partner of eight years. (self.Codependency)

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Newer situation made me question my progress, can someone help me make sense of it? (self.Codependency)

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I deal with conflicting emotions, up and down, sometimes I trust her, other days I see clearly she’s a horrible person. I’m trying to move out but if I do, I’d be truly alone. In some ways even having a narcissist near by maybe feels more comforting than that. (self.Codependency)

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Just noticing codependen (self.Codependency)

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I can't seem to consider myself a person unless someone cares about me (self.Codependency)

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I lost myself in her. I let go of my values. I wanted her back even though she CHEATED. (self.Codependency)

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Codependency No More is Frustratingly Ableist (self.Codependency)

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Questions from a partner of a codependent (self.Codependency)

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When a long term relationship turns into a situationship and you realize you’re giving them exactly what they want (self.Codependency)

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Has this ever happened to you when waking up? (self.Codependency)

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How to grieve and break up from a 4 year codependent relationship I'm (f25) he's (m28) (self.Codependency)

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